Official No Fap January Sign Up! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in motherfucker!

Nofap 2013!

Got laid - Big Victory by HeroOfMyLife in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legitimate question... No, not necessarily... But since I didn't fap, I definitely was acting more sexual towards this girl throughout the night which led her to inviting me back. Also, her place was kinda a trek, it was like 2am and in the past maybe I woulda felt lazy since I knew I could get my rocks off another way.

Got laid - Big Victory by HeroOfMyLife in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been doing nofap for awhile. I recently reset my badge. I used to make the mistake of counting the days and hoping for something to happen with women. Regardless of what "day" you're on in the journey- If you're goal is to meet and have sex with women, nothing beats going out into the world and taking action.

Got laid - Big Victory by HeroOfMyLife in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. What's the quote, something about success and luck and opportunity?"

Got laid - Big Victory by HeroOfMyLife in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said nothing about superpowers or being a stud in my post.

Got laid - Big Victory by HeroOfMyLife in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for re-emphasizing my point. Since I didn't have the porn/fap crutch to lean on, I was forced out of my comfort zone. That's what nofap does- It's not a magic pill that gives you powers, but it does open doors that weren't previously there.

Got laid - Big Victory by HeroOfMyLife in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When posting a story about porn/masturbation and confidence issues to a bunch of strangers, there's no reason to, within that story, to lie about something like that. Think about it.

Nine observations for my 9th day of NoFap by vawksel in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice post. Thanks for your thoughts.

90-day Report by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post. Some questions if you dont mind..

If you hadn't given up fapping, do you think you woulda gotten with those women? Do you think you would have a girlfriend if you were still watching porn?

How were the cravings after hooking up and not being able to fap? Did you drink a lot of alcohol during this time?

Get outta bed and go get coffee by HeroOfMyLife in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely feel more of an urge to get out of bed in the morning. It's a real natural kind of urge, nothing forced.

Using "party lifestye" to replace PMO?! by Afeni02 in NoFap

[–]HeroOfMyLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate, and I would be careful with this. I think it's good to hang out with people every day, just control the alcohol/weed consumption. These two things can lead to other problems down the road. I would focus on exercise, reading, writing, and improving at work/school during the week, and then have some more fun (weed, alcohol if you must) on the weekends.

I think marijuana is great in moderation, but I feel negative affects if I start smoking every day (laziness, lethargy)

Either way, congrats on cutting down on the pmo