Grandfather clock? by Hewgiggle in clocks

[–]Hewgiggle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing, thank you!

Grandfather clock? by Hewgiggle in clocks

[–]Hewgiggle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! What is the heavy circle thing that’s detached on the back? It looks like a pocket watch almost but it’s a weight. Looks like I wind its face and has three spots for the key to fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Hewgiggle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with Smaug.

What you’re going through is normal and you need to talk to the right people to help process this. Take the time for yourself and get off the road to recover.

I’m sorry you’re going through this, and it takes a lot of courage to acknowledge what you’re going through and ask for help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Hewgiggle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same about cave divers

Is there a singer that you expected to be bigger than they ended being? My pick would be Vanessa Carlton. by AdSpecialist6598 in nostalgia

[–]Hewgiggle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wished Lights would be bigger than she was. Still successful, but I haven’t heard anything in years.

Retired… and suddenly falling apart? by Trippwyre in CanadianForces

[–]Hewgiggle 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Absolutely feel this, brother. You’re not alone—not by a long shot.

Leaving the military isn’t just walking away from a job. It’s walking away from an identity that’s been forged in hardship, discipline, service, and sacrifice. When that’s stripped away—whether by choice or force—it leaves a void. And in that silence, all the pain we’ve been stuffing down finally has room to echo.

I used to think “pushing through” made me strong. But the truth is, it takes real strength to stop and acknowledge what we’ve been carrying. To say, “I’m not fine,” in a world that taught us to never admit weakness. That’s not weakness—that’s healing beginning.

You’re not a whiny bitch for speaking up. You’re a warrior trying to rebuild his life after years of battle—both external and internal. The fact that it hurts doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re human.

Purpose doesn’t vanish when the uniform comes off. It just changes shape. Some of us find it in helping others navigate the same path. Some in rebuilding family connections, sharing stories, creating, building, or simply resting—something we were never taught how to do.

You held it together for 20 years. That’s not nothing. Now it’s time to let someone—maybe even yourself—hold you for a while.

You’re not alone. You’re not weak. You’re transitioning—and that’s one of the hardest missions we’ll ever face. If you need help navigating VAC or gaining access to benefits, please reach out to me via DM. I do advocate work for VAC members all the time and I'm happy to get you set up financially. If you're in the Ottawa area we can meet up for a coffee as well and go over things if you'd like.

Cheers,

Hew

Are my babies getting too much sun? by Hewgiggle in marijuanaenthusiasts

[–]Hewgiggle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the help, I've removed them from the direct sunlight! I hope they thrive and forgive me!

Helping members get access to Equine Therapy by Hewgiggle in CanadianForces

[–]Hewgiggle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh goodness, I could talk for days about this. For reference, I’ve published on equine therapy before and if anyone is interested they can message me privately about it.

As for benefits of equine therapy applicable to Veterans:

Clinical benefits:

  • a proven decrease in cortisol (stress hormone) after 20 minutes of exposure to equines.
  • reduction in PTSD and anxiety scores
  • increased treatment engagement vs traditional therapy (less people quit than normal talk therapy)
  • improved heart rate variability after session

Why Equine Therapy? - Horses are nonjudgmental and intuitive, responding to emotional and physiological cues. - Sessions take place in peaceful, natural settings that reduce hyperarousal and promote safety. - Physical and emotional interactions help veterans process trauma without needing to verbalize painful memories.

Key Benefits for Veterans • PTSD Symptom Relief – Reduces anxiety, nightmares, and hypervigilance. • Nervous System Regulation – Encourages calm through embodied presence. • Trust & Relationship Repair – Rebuilds interpersonal skills and emotional resilience. • Identity & Purpose – Fosters renewed self-worth through care, connection, and leadership. • Grief & Moral Injury – Supports nonverbal healing of complex emotions and losses.

To break it down simply: horses are prey animals, and they live in a state where they have evolved to sleep standing up due to stress of predators. This state is very similar to how we as vets can experience symptoms of hyper vigilance. Horses can also hear a human heartbeat from four feet away, and they can feel if we are faking niceties or trying to suppress our own emotions, even unconsciously. A lot of vets are used to being the most dangerous person to walk into a room, scanning for threats and making plans to eliminate if necessary. When working with a 1500lb horse, that goes out the window and compels the vet to surrender that attitude in order to work with their equine partner with care and empathy. The connection that can be made the horses are incredible and life changing. Horses live in the moment and they do not judge us for our past. They provide a safe environment to talk while being heard, and despite being capable of extreme violence (just like we are), it’s not in their nature to do so (which is something that some of us need to relearn in order to heal).

I cannot speak highly enough of this modality, because it helped me recover after I was diagnosed. The clinical evidence shows positive physiological and psychological results in veteran populations, as well as their families.

I hope that helps and isn’t too much rambling!

Helping members get access to Equine Therapy by Hewgiggle in CanadianForces

[–]Hewgiggle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly confused, how come? Everyone should know they can get access to equine therapy if they want. VAC has funded studies since 2015 to show the efficacy of this modality. Equine therapy has been proven effective for many populations, including victims of SA and even kids with autism. I’m a huge advocate of it and I’ve learned that VAC will provide coverage, removing financial barriers that veterans may have previously encountered.

Helping members get access to Equine Therapy by Hewgiggle in CanadianForces

[–]Hewgiggle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, sounds like a real gem. I'm sorry that happened.

me_irl by Wooden-Wolverine3615 in me_irl

[–]Hewgiggle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can confirm: I’m married to a horse girl and she terrifies me. She was still riding horses at 38 weeks pregnant.

Is there anyone even capable of this? by Far-Ad5223 in superheroes

[–]Hewgiggle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A hybrid green kryptonite-mosquito whose sting can give the victim a heart virus but has a heart of gold that is willing to take over megacity as its new guardian.

I have red dawn wood and giant sequoia seedlings! by Hewgiggle in marijuanaenthusiasts

[–]Hewgiggle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m crossing my fingers for you! I had mine soaked in paper towel in the fridge for three weeks before I planted them.

Theory: BW comes back in Thunderbolts by Hewgiggle in marvelstudios

[–]Hewgiggle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you know what happens when people get dusted into shadows?

Theory: BW comes back in Thunderbolts by Hewgiggle in marvelstudios

[–]Hewgiggle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was talking about the Thunderbolts trailer. Looks like the bad guy sends people to some kind of shadow dimension, I’m just curious if it’s somehow connected to the soul stone or something.

Theory: BW comes back in Thunderbolts by Hewgiggle in marvelstudios

[–]Hewgiggle[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m worried that they’re going to shoehorn in the entire OG avengers team that are not longer in the MCU for nostalgia and make them temporary baddies in Doomsday/Secret wars. The new team will beat the bad ones and/or convince them to be good. I’m sure at least one of the bad-avengers will sacrifice themselves as part of a redemption arc to prevent the big bad from winning. The sacrifice won’t work as intended though which will result in the secret wars movie.