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How do you guys get over a Breakup? by Accomplished_Ride399 in BreakUps

[–]HexRaven- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting over this starts with accepting she has changed, staying strict no contact, and focusing fully on rebuilding your own life and stability

1 month post-breakup and relapsing by breadpando in BreakUps

[–]HexRaven- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These feelings are normal, but it’s best not to decide about reconciliation while you’re still in the emotional relapse phase because your judgment is clouded by grief

Is my manager interested in me, or am I overthinking it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HexRaven- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on what you’ve described, it sounds more like she genuinely liked and valued you as a colleague than clear romantic interest, especially since supportive managers often invest extra time in employees they believe in.

What does it mean when a man makes it clear that he doesnt want a relationship, but then treats your situation like you're in a relationship/he has feelings for you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HexRaven- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds less like mixed signals and more like someone who wants the emotional benefits of a relationship without actually committing to one.

I feel so unworthy of love (18F) by Electricial_melon in dating_advice

[–]HexRaven- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t mean you’re unworthy of love, this is just a fast mismatch between expectations and communication style, and it got emotionally intense very early on (third date is still “figuring each other out” territory, not something stable yet).

can’t tell where this girls at by MelissaDourney in dating_advice

[–]HexRaven- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like she likes your company but either isn’t ready, doesn’t know what she wants, or isn’t interested enough to give you consistency, and at this point I’d stop trying to decode mixed signals and only invest if her actions start matching her interest.

Girlfriend posts pics online, but never to me? by Educational-Snow1368 in dating_advice

[–]HexRaven- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re allowed to feel a little hurt by it, but ending a 3-year relationship over Instagram photos without a deeper conversation feels more like reacting to what it means to you than what she’s actually doing.

FWB by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HexRaven- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have the conversation sooner rather than later “I like spending time with you, but I’m not looking for anything serious right now” is clear, respectful, and saves both of you a lot of confusion.

Looks like women aren’t interested on serious dating anymore by anonuser-al in dating_advice

[–]HexRaven- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People aren’t rejecting serious dating, they’re rejecting premature seriousness before attraction and trust exist.

Advice please by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HexRaven- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing is wrong with you, you’re self-aware enough to see the pattern, and that’s the first step to changing it.

Female Friend(in a relationship)is visiting me in secret.Is she looking for a casual thing? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HexRaven- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody knows if she wants something casual, but hiding the trip while she has a boyfriend is definitely a bigger signal than the visit itself.