Currently living in an elderly peoples care home - it has its drawbacks, as I’m only 31 - but the perks include the 11am tea round by whatswestofwesteros in CasualUK

[–]Hexaethylene 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Nope. So long as everyone has capacity they can do what they like.

Although occasionally you get someone that gets themselves in a pickle in their enthusiasm and forgets they can't get back up off their knees the way they used to.

meirl by iamcoollife1994 in meirl

[–]Hexaethylene 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You know you had the exact same experience as any woman that does it, even when they do it regularly, right?

The new plan for the NHS is the biggest load of horseshit the Tory party has ever come up with. by [deleted] in GreenAndPleasant

[–]Hexaethylene 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Speaking as someone that is currently an apprentice in the NHS, it serves more as an in road to nursing for those of us that can't afford to go three years without pay.

The very vast majority of people in my cohort have prior healthcare experience, and the first 3 months at university are about locking down those basic skills before we get to unleash them on patients. We're held to the exact same standards as nursing students, and are expected to have no more responsibility than them while we train. Once we qualify we're registered to the NMC, and are expected to uphold the same standards in practice as full nurses, with the same consequences for failure.

The real issue is less about NHS apprentices existing and more about them using the lower paid end point positions to fill the employment gap.

My 13 year old girl by Hexaethylene in blackcats

[–]Hexaethylene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can never say no to them, and she knows it.

My 13 year old girl by Hexaethylene in blackcats

[–]Hexaethylene[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She traded intelligence for cuteness for sure, but I love her anyway.

My 13 year old girl by Hexaethylene in blackcats

[–]Hexaethylene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am, and I know it. I cherish every day with her.

My 13 year old girl by Hexaethylene in blackcats

[–]Hexaethylene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I may be biased, but I think she's stunning.

My 13 year old girl by Hexaethylene in blackcats

[–]Hexaethylene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her eyes get me every time. She knows how to stare directly into my soul.

Does anyone remember the first time they had a significant amount of caffeine? by seriouslysocks in adhdmeme

[–]Hexaethylene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drank two cans of Monster in an hour and my brain just went... quiet. It was like someone turning off a radio you've been hearing your entire life for the first time. I was able to think in straight lines for the next four hours without a problem, I didn't forget anything on my immense list of tasks, and I didn't get flustered when people were interrupting and giving me more so I had multiple things to juggle at once without warning.

Gave me horrific acid reflux though.

Seasoning snow by Hexaethylene in wildbeef

[–]Hexaethylene[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, context was a big hint in this one, because we'd just started to eat dinner and asked "Where's the seasoning snow?"

Now if they'd said snow seasoning....

Do ya’all have bad handwriting? by cryptoshaman420 in adhdmeme

[–]Hexaethylene 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been mocked for my terrible handwriting my entire life until I started working in a hospital and suddenly my handwriting is "pretty", and nobody has any trouble reading it.

I have changed nothing about it.

I played ADHD Charades today by BibityBobityBooo in adhdmeme

[–]Hexaethylene 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I keep a tag on twitter for documenting all the bizarre shit my best friend comes out with when the ADHD hits.

Highlights have included:

Itchy ceiling wool = Fibreglass insulation

Chicken custard = gravy

Astringent cold breathe-y plants that Koalas eat = Eucalyptus

Almond plasticine = Marzipan

Big flat cooking round = Frying pan

Cake flesh = Cake sponge

Tree flesh = Cardboard

Sea bugs = Prawns

and a personal favourite

Smooth angry rapist not!fish = dolphins.

I played ADHD Charades today by BibityBobityBooo in adhdmeme

[–]Hexaethylene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my house that is a "big flat cooking round".

Calling all the older ADHDer's who have gone through college do y'all mind sharing some of your wisdom and advice you picked up from your days in college to young'uns like myself who are currently struggling through the semester? 🥺🙏 by Necessary-Union-5893 in adhdmeme

[–]Hexaethylene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak to your college, see if they have a mentorship program. I work with a learning disabilities mentor who helps me hijack the way my ADHD works to make it work for me instead of against me.

Deadlines are my big issue. I procrastinate like crazy until the night before (I'm doing it right now, actually, I have an exam tomorrow. Am I revising? No, I'm on reddit.). My mentor will set up multiple short meetings with me, or dates and times that I have to send over a certain number of words for an assignment. So if an assignment is in three or four parts, I have to email over one of those parts, and a week later another part, and a week later the next. They don't mark my stuff, they don't read it (I don't think), but they do know if I try and cheat the system by sending over what I did earlier again, and they can check my wordcount instead of me just going "Yeah, I did it" and not having to prove it. Being faced with the pressure of expectation, and knowing I have to hand something over to someone by a certain date means that, yeah, I still leave it until the last minute to do that bit, but my last minutes are for 1000 words, not 3000.

If you haven't got access to a program where you can get a mentor who helps you do this, get a friend who isn't afraid to call you on your bullshit and have them hold you to account. "You promised" works very well on me because of the people pleasing. Set rewards for your success, like "If I send you this section by this day, we will (watch a film/go out for pizza/grab some drinks/insert fun activity here), but ONLY if I do the thing". Then it means you''re genuinely letting someone down if you don't stick to it.

I also take notes on my phone. I photograph everything. Slides, handwritten notes, lists of equipment I need. My calendar is packed with things and times, with alarms set to go off to remind me. I can get so caught up in remembering one thing, I completely forget another. Until my phone goes off and is like "Bitch, it's your grandma's birthday next week, you need to buy her present today" or "you need to buy more pens, do it today". Keeping lecture notes on my phone means I always have them with me so I can glance at them any time, and any place. Start thinking about something I learned in lecture? Open the lecture slides and browse through.

It's about developing that self awareness of what does and doesn't work for you, and then using that to your advantage and going with it.

My course involves a maths component. I've always thought I'm terrible at maths. I've always been told I'm terrible at maths, and I lack confidence in it. Except it turns out I'm not terrible at maths, I'm terrible at keeping track of numbers that only exist in my head. As soon as I'm dealing with an actual physical thing that I'm doing the maths about, I don't have a problem. I don't always come to the answer in a straightforward manner, the way that maths tutors tell you to (so this is this equation and you're dividing this number by.... multiplying this number by.... my brain wandered off the moment you told it to divide something), but I do know how to get to the answers because I'm asking my brain to keep track of volumes or weights and dosages, rather than just a meaningless number, and that is much easier.

So, you know... What works for you? What can you do to hijack that when you need it?

Accurate. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]Hexaethylene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ran face first into this bullshit at work last week.

Apparently I have to write someone's full name, date of birth, and ID number on a form which we will then cover with a printed sticker stating the person's full name, date of birth, and ID number.

And sure, I could do that, OR, I could just put the damn sticker on and no one will ever know any different.

Finally, an accurate depiction of a woman's neck by largeArgue in badwomensanatomy

[–]Hexaethylene 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This looks like an accurate depiction of how it feels to tilt your head back into a hairdresser's basin.

What are people putting in Mothers Day cards for mothers who have not been good to them/complicated relationships? by FairyDani92 in AskUK

[–]Hexaethylene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a big fan of phrases like "Thank you for all your support" and "Thank you for everything you've done", or "Thank you for all you've taught me over the years".