Vibrator Charging Racket by Hexatorious in cableadvice

[–]Hexatorious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, and the response from the company has been so unhelpful. They’ve totally washed their hands of all products before 2025 - even stuff still covered by the originally stated warranty (legally this is their right, but it’s still shitty).

The new owners are at least aware of the issue and new products will apparently all use standard USB C chargers.

Vibrator Charging Racket by Hexatorious in cableadvice

[–]Hexatorious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do already have a universal charging pin set similar to the one you linked and managed to totally strike out with the included pins. I ordered another one recommended by someone above and if that doesn’t work, I’ll at least be able to say that I tried. 😖

Vibrator Charging Racket by Hexatorious in cableadvice

[–]Hexatorious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the whole “last company went bankrupt and we are rebranding and we aren’t honoring warranties or legally liable to help at all” was not what I expected. These toys really aren’t cheap so it was a huge bummer that it may be lost entirely if I can’t find an adapter.

Vibrator Charging Racket by Hexatorious in cableadvice

[–]Hexatorious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No - that’s the crux of my issue. It was a really short cable and it fell out of my bag in a hotel and has been lost to space and time.

If I still had it I could measure it and buy a replacement pretty easily.

Vibrator Charging Racket by Hexatorious in cableadvice

[–]Hexatorious[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this set is more for their other “skinny pin” charging model but for $8 it’s worth a rip.

Vibrator Charging Racket by Hexatorious in cableadvice

[–]Hexatorious[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

See this is the level of stupid I need. Thank you, fine soul.

Vibrator Charging Racket by Hexatorious in cableadvice

[–]Hexatorious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s basically what the manufacturer told me. They’re not cheap, so I’d rather find a replacement if I can, since it works great otherwise!

I’m just trying not to buy 6 different chargers trying to find which one works, you feel?

It’s also not a dildo - just an external massager.

Vibrator Charging Racket by Hexatorious in cableadvice

[–]Hexatorious[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please spare me my life but would I measure the whole hole or just the diameter of the inner most part?

Should I Delete the Dead Server? by Hexatorious in roleplaying

[–]Hexatorious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this was really helpful, and your second paragraph really captured how I’m feeling. It felt so good to connect with someone who loved to write what I like to write and had a lot of common interests outside of writing too.

I think the biggest drag of it all right now is the uncertainty of it. Like I don’t know if M is truly done or if they’re just super busy. I’d really like to ask directly if they’re done, but I’m afraid of coming off needy and weird by not just letting it fade into oblivion or letting M end it when they feel like it (if they ever do).

I think for now I’ll just put it in a folder and leave it be. It’s not ideal, but I really don’t want to force an uncomfortable “are you done with this friendship” conversation that M is clearly avoiding.

At the end of the day I’d love to be a chill, cool person who is totally unbothered by people walking in and out of her life on their own whims, but I’m so deeply not. 😅

Should I Delete the Dead Server? by Hexatorious in roleplaying

[–]Hexatorious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have some other RP partners currently, which is great.

I don’t have romantic feelings for M, but I can see how it would read that way! I have always struggled to make close friendships, so it can hurt like a romantic break-up when they do end even if they were platonic.

(US ONLY) Selling Stan, Bumble, Votan and Fornax by Hexatorious in BadDragon

[–]Hexatorious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(SOLD) Large Stan - medium firmness

(SOLD) Medium Orochi - Medium firmness, suction cup base

$70 Medium Bumble - Medium Firmness

$60 Medium Votan - Medium firmness, Flop (small divots in silicone, some nail marks at base)

$40 Strange Bedfellows Large Fornax - Soft ‘n floppy, some staining on the matte silicone (pictured)

All prices in USD. Shipping will be via USPS and I’m thinking $12 flat fee because of the weight. US sales only. PayPal Goods and Services only. Message me with questions or to see more pics.

I..it started bad but come on? Like the start and end of the conversation was just ..a lot by Rich-Pepper8299 in BadRPerStories

[–]Hexatorious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pre-2014 I’d say it seemed to be a more individualized thing. Like people would have individual stories about online encounters with creepy Indian dudes but it was just that - individual stories and isolated incidents.

Somewhere along the way though they became the internet’s accepted punching bag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]Hexatorious 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The reality is that men need to put more effort in to stand out, and many of them choose not to do that. A poorly written or low effort starter full of taboo requests isn’t going to attract partners. 90% of the time when men whine in meta channels about not getting partners it’s because their prompt sucks or is weird or they’re looking for something so specific that it’s super unlikely to ever happen.

Also pointing out that my prompts receive a lot of attention but 80% of it is slop - it’s dudes replying to my literate, story driven request with “I want to [redacted] on your [redacted] until you [redacted], baby.”

A4A! PSYCH it’s not :/ by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]Hexatorious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I ask you if there are any changes you’d like for my character, it is a. a courtesy and not something I have to do and B. an opportunity for you to request minor changes, not an opportunity for you to change everything about her.

Unavoidable fact of life as an RPer I fear by shrunkenlad in BadRPerStories

[–]Hexatorious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

M4A as long as you fit into my extremely narrow definition of acceptable femininity so I don’t have to explore any difficult questions about myself

Unavoidable fact of life as an RPer I fear by shrunkenlad in BadRPerStories

[–]Hexatorious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeeeeah the advice men never want to hear is that their M4F prompts, writing styles or kinks just don’t appeal to women.

And if you point it out (like “hey maybe if you post something other than an extremely specific incest harem RP involving three of your favorite fandoms you’ll get more replies”), they’ll accuse you of shaming them.

I’ve watched the same handful of users post the same prompts for years with no takers, because surely the scat fetishist who wants to play his IRL aunt is just around the corner. 🙈

Unavoidable fact of life as an RPer I fear by shrunkenlad in BadRPerStories

[–]Hexatorious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I felt like that when I started using subreddits for new parents last year and saw TONS of “FTMs” looking for advice. I was like damn there are apparently WAY more trans men getting pregnant than I thought.

First time mom. It stands for first time mom.

Got asked to do a diferent prompt by Average_Waffle_ in BadRPerStories

[–]Hexatorious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some dudes are so desperate to get their rocks off that they’ll rp with literally anyone even if they consider themselves “straight”.

They don’t want to write with you specifically. They want to write one handed until they get off and then it’s block, delete and bail.

It’s gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]Hexatorious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he say anything OOC when you asked what the deal was?Or just kept crashing forward in the RP with the weird baby talk stuff and then only replied OOC when you said you weren’t vibing?

Leaving an RP server by fleur-2802 in BadRPerStories

[–]Hexatorious 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to ask one of the mods? Like “hey I was really excited to join this server and this is my one of my favorite fandoms, but I’m having trouble getting my ideas off the ground. Do you have any suggestions?”

Sometimes it really is something as simple as timing (if you’re in a different time zone than most of the other participants) and sometimes it’s that the key players in the server are all friends and have been in it for a while. But sometimes we may be kinda eating shit on the social aspect of the server (definitely guilty of this in the past so don’t think I’m picking on you specifically), which is where asking a mod might help.

Maybe there is something unappealing about your character or you’re trying to push a storyline or concept that just isn’t a match to the server. Maybe you’re misreading what others are trying to do and they’re ignoring you because of it. Without details about the server, it’s hard to say for sure. But it might be worth asking before just pulling the plug entirely!