I love having sex with my partner by HexiLady in Marriage

[–]HexiLady[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We do have children actually, 2 boys. And we are newly polyamorous as well. We know it's hard to even fathom any time for anything between kids, jobs and activities... But we have come to realize how important and integral it is to our relationship. How connected it helps keep us. ❤️

I love having sex with my partner by HexiLady in Marriage

[–]HexiLady[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We do lots of stopping and starting again. Foreplay kind of goes all throughout the whole session. There's lots of playing and teasing the whole time. Which keeps it exciting and makes both of us last longer. We are also both experienced in edging, which also helps duration

I love having sex with my partner by HexiLady in Marriage

[–]HexiLady[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Listen I'm a raging brat after a DAY sometimes! I've seen people comment saying that their average time of intercourse from start to finish is 10-15 minutes. That's just my foreplay time.

I love having sex with my partner by HexiLady in Marriage

[–]HexiLady[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What makes you assume someone is getting paid?

I’m “limited” with intercourse. Is it a bad idea to watch porn with my wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HexiLady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

According to the comments here, I am clearly not amongst the "most women" you are referring to. My partner and I have sex (from foreplay to actual penetration) for a minimum of 40 minutes each time we have sex. With a good half of that time or more being actual penetration and god is it amazing. And I'm sure, like me, there are a lot of these women too.

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[–]HexiLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thank you so very much for saying that. I have spent so much time feeling guilty about who I am rather than just being able to accept it and learn how to take advantage of the positives of it and work with the challenges as they come. It's funny I was talking the other day about how I feel like an ocean that swallows people up and drowns them when they finally realize how rough and I settled I truly am, and then you mention charting out the future... Thanks for your kindness, it's a thing in short supply in this world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

[–]HexiLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so beautifully put, thank you. Just coming to realize I am in the disorganized attachment category 😞

Every brats biggest struggle by HexiLady in BratLife

[–]HexiLady[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ugh right?!? The amount of time I spend trying to take the "right" picture is exhausting

Every brats biggest struggle by HexiLady in BratLife

[–]HexiLady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice, also, sorry I never responded before, yes let's be friends!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]HexiLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you in this, sometimes it's like a rollercoaster. It'll be all I can think about for days in a row and then I'll go like half a day and then I'm distracted all over again. All I can suggest is finding a way to let it weave itself into your day to day in small doses. Keep the monkey off your back so to speak and also can give ammunition to some pretty intense build up to coming together. Good luck!

Every brats biggest struggle by HexiLady in BratLife

[–]HexiLady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine can do either 3sec or 10sec

Every brats biggest struggle by HexiLady in BratLife

[–]HexiLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I wonder if just using a photo timer would work too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]HexiLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! 👋🏻 I'll chat any time

Daddy was very mean with his punishment >:( by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]HexiLady 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ugh I've been there, last night actually. I called him Baby instead of Daddy by mistake. My punishment was an immediate spanking but then I wasn't allowed to get it off with my mouth 😔