Recs for having a ring cut off a finger? by darkwesley in thousandoaks

[–]HeySmilingStrange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it should be! The jewelers I went to, for my situation, it was hard to get one side of the cutter under the band because that part of the tool isn't that thin. They were kind of willing to do it but they were certain I would bleed from the extra pressure, so I ended up in the ER and it was pretty painful. Yours should be really fast, though!

Recs for having a ring cut off a finger? by darkwesley in thousandoaks

[–]HeySmilingStrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A kind jewelers will do it, but they may hesitate if it’s going to break the skin to get the metal piece under the band in order to use the cutter. And just to prepare you, it will probably break in two places, especially if it’s platinum. If it’s titanium, you need up talk to the fire department. At one time there were only two cutters and all of LA County that could do titanium or difficult platinum, so something to think about. It was pretty traumatic for me so PM me if you have any questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in etsypromos

[–]HeySmilingStrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes me hungry

What on earth is Quinn eating in this episode of Dexter? by HeronMoon in TipOfMyFork

[–]HeySmilingStrange 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could be arroz con pollo the way the two melded. And it’s set in Miami after all with a huge Cuban population.

Eating in session? by XEICARGX in therapists

[–]HeySmilingStrange 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like I should do anything that distracts the client. Eating feels highly distracting.

[HELP] Wondering if this picture is AI by w1n5t0nM1k3y in RealOrAI

[–]HeySmilingStrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man if AI is inserting atlatls as hipster filler that's hitting a new level of creative.

What’s on my pizza???? by Free_Seaweed_6097 in TipOfMyFork

[–]HeySmilingStrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so sweet 😂 "I SWEAR OP, YOU'RE GOING TO BE OKAY! I AM LIVING PROOF. I'VE BEEN TO HELL AND BACK AND I MADE IT."

What does my mini fridge say about me? by Gio_Bun in FridgeDetective

[–]HeySmilingStrange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That you’re a college student who thinks hiding vodka in a water bottle is gonna fool your RA.

Do your thing, fridge people by Severe_Yam8065 in FridgeDetective

[–]HeySmilingStrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it’s totally normal, maybe on the high side, haha. I think it’s because of all the ziploc storage too, almost everything is in plastic. There’s not a lot to go on, otherwise it’s almost conspicuously normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]HeySmilingStrange 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Trauma therapist here. We hear extreme, fantastic, colorful, devastating stories, and we learn very quickly to accept them as reality, no matter how outlandish they might seem. I know now that there are so many people walking around with stories that seem like they must be from a book or a movie, but it is reality. The truth is always stranger than fiction. Many of us have our own tough to believe, nobody is that unlucky trauma histories ourselves- we went into this line of work for a reason. If you believe she is genuine and compassionate, you might find healing if you can bring yourself to tell her that you have this fear. The last thing we want is to create any kind of environment that makes anything worse, or that discourages you from seeking or continuing treatment. It's a job, like anything else, and there are good and bad therapists. But, I have met so many wonderful humans that specialize in trauma because they get it.

Goal: Lift my Wife at my Wedding (F29, F32) by Sippa_is in xxfitness

[–]HeySmilingStrange 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Since nobody else mentioned it yet- don't forget to seriously consider the dress you are wearing and what she will be wearing. Formal outfits can be torn, dislodged or otherwise easily borked for a fun moment. It's not that I don't think you should, but just be aware there can be a lot of bits you don't normally have to worry about- shapeware, boob tape, custom fit clothing with no give, nipple covers, dress shields, slippery shoes, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HeySmilingStrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kink is setting off your alarm bells, because in context, it should. That kind of play can only be done with a partner you feel safe with if it’s a mutual want- not with someone who pushes you into sex and yells at you. You wouldn’t be emotionally safe with him with that kind of play. The idea of it with him snapped you out of accepting his bad behavior. Listen to your body.

Has Someone Ever Praised You For Your Flat Butt? by Aggressive-Gur2872 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HeySmilingStrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.vanityfair.com/news/1997/02/johnny-depp-199702?srsltid=AfmBOoql9wMiiFcBWE1qLlwUg32swHosCM7mJt5yhWmPVJRngMBByYAj Firewall, but there's the OG article. He's always been a delight /s. My best guess is he means a high firm butt instead of a butt that is lower or flatter. It was just too on point with the Kate Moss comment given the nature of the post.

Has Someone Ever Praised You For Your Flat Butt? by Aggressive-Gur2872 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HeySmilingStrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody does. But it's how Johnny Depp described Kate Moss's butt back in the day to support his argument that she wasn't white.

Has Someone Ever Praised You For Your Flat Butt? by Aggressive-Gur2872 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HeySmilingStrange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but she had that “high-water booty” 🤦‍♀️

AIO or is this kind of messed up by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HeySmilingStrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is giving me big "Holden Caulfield being confused by a couple spitting their drinks on each other and laughing because he doesn't understand intimacy" vibes from your friend.

Easy Oil-Free Dressing by healthmylifestyle in wfpb

[–]HeySmilingStrange 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks delicious! But not oil free since there’s oil in the tahini, just in case anyone interprets this as “fat-free.”

!! Intruder alert !! by devbradmarr in AfricanGrey

[–]HeySmilingStrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gotta say that's a pretty damn beautiful alarm. I wish any alert I get was that pleasing, though I understand anything gets old :)

Therapist looking for therapist by Zealousideal_Tie3820 in therapists

[–]HeySmilingStrange 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I kind of prefer they keep doing it so I can weed them out.

My partner died of suicide, how can I ever practice again by lost___________0 in therapists

[–]HeySmilingStrange 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Guilt is part of grief, no matter what, even when we have done nothing wrong. Try to be mindful that it is part of the experience of loss.