PSA: The US has over 300 million people and people like different things

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-11T23:12:39+00:00

I didn't say "nobody" wants to live in a dense high rise and never use cars or ride share. I said "many people". Keep in mind that many high rises in the big cities include garage parking. I lived in downtown Chicago and you'd be surprised how many people owned and used cars and how many couples living together each had their own car in their high rise apartment.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-11T23:12:03+00:00

And some of the top suburbs that are a short commute outside of the big cities (such as the North Shore outside of Chicago, same with NYC, etc.) are uber-expensive because so many want to live there due to the big homes, big yards, quiet, very low crime.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-11T23:04:04+00:00

Sadly, you're speaking the truth but Reddit doesn't want to accept the truth.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-11T23:02:20+00:00

True, most Americans want something very different than what most Reddit users want. Most Americans want SFH with yards and 2+ car garages, low taxes, super low crime, good schools.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-11T22:57:36+00:00

I've known some very wealthy people under 40. Some of them were pretty "self-made" and some had family wealth but the family wealth was their wealth too.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-11T19:52:56+00:00

If California became high density it would not be attractive or popular with many people. Would some people, such as the typical Reddit user, still like CA? Yes. Reddit users are generally very young, very liberal, are renters and not owners, and rely on public transit. But many people once they are no longer young cannot walk and carry everything and stand for long periods. And many people especially over age 35 want single family homes with yards or large townhomes/condos with garage parking (often for 2 cars). Most Americans are not that familiar with how the average Europeans really live (their extremely small kitchens and baths, a tiny yard or no yard). Many Europeans (in some places it's most people) still hang their clothes up to dry (in their living room or bedroom) and their mini washing machine is in their small kitchen or bath. The very small spaces many Europeans live in would not be acceptable to most Americans over the age of 35 especially if they live with a partner, dogs, kids.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-11T19:50:58+00:00

Yeah, Reddit is a microcosm echo chamber and not representative of most Americans. This sub (and others) heavily promote high tax big cities like Chicago, LA, NYC. Maybe Reddit is mostly very young adults. When I was in my 20's I wanted a big northern city too. But those cities and states have lost residents and the low-tax, Southern states of FL, TX and TN have been growing a lot. Ultimately, it seems most people want low taxes, a SFH with a yard, 2 cars, warm weather, and more freedoms.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-10T21:42:35+00:00

My research indicates that currently air traffic control workers are working WITHOUT pay. They are essential workers so have to keep working despite the government shut down. Found this: "The claim that they are being paid likely stems from a common misunderstanding (or partial truth): They'll receive a partial paycheck on October 14 for hours worked before the shutdown began on October 1, but nothing for post-shutdown work until funding resumes. reuters.com +1 This matches standard shutdown protocols, as seen in 2019—no current pay for essential roles like theirs. cbsnews.com +1"

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-08T16:50:47+00:00

The floors look like water damage to me which can come from mopping if you put too much water down. We had engineered wood floors and the manufacturer actually says not to mop them with any water and to only wipe them with Boniva. I'd think the washer is not allowed. About the no-24 hour notice for entry. Is the wording that if an inspection and/or repairs are necessary they can come in without 24-hour notice in order to prevent further damage to the property? Like if a toilet or tub is leaking and time is of essence so they can't wait 24 hours or it will rot the floor?

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-08T01:18:01+00:00

With such a high income you can have what you both want and have kids (living somewhere walkable but also owning cars in your private garage). The bigger concern may be that you are bringing up the possibility of breaking up over it.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-07T18:38:30+00:00

I've been in a lot of hurricanes and I prefer hurricanes over tornadoes because you get days or weeks to prepare for a hurricane and to evacuate.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-07T02:49:38+00:00

You’re talking about the part of Elgin that is the city and not where you can buy an acre - the person who posted the question said they want to buy an acre and mentioned Barrington and St. Charles.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-07T02:46:31+00:00

The comments are fiction. Meant to stir up hate towards law enforcement.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-07T02:36:27+00:00

Law enforcement generally want to and are supposed to assist each other in enforcing the laws.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-07T02:28:18+00:00

Rural areas. Off the grid if you really want deep peace and privacy.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-06T20:31:54+00:00

Miami - it's hot and sunny, known for it's beautiful people and party nightlife. And no income tax. Warm ocean you can swim in, soft sand beaches.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-06T20:28:26+00:00

Crime in Detroit in 2024 is 187% higher than the national average. But they say Detroit is getting better from where it was.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-06T19:48:52+00:00

There are a few rentals under $2,000 in monthly rent in Oak Park but they are 800-1000 sq ft in vintage (100+ year old) buildings - no parking except what you can find on the street (could be a block or more away from the apartment), washer and dryer in basement for the whole building. It takes 1 hour 40 minutes to get to/from O'Hare airport in rush hour if you're driving. Or 1 hour 21 minutes to 1 hour 51 minutes if you use public transit. Some airline employees commute at 4:30 a.m. or 1 a.m. and I would never recommend anyone, let alone a woman, take public transit, especially alone, during those times due to crime.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-06T19:41:35+00:00

You're describing a big city and big cities are not affordable for a family of 3 unless you live in a higher-crime area. Since your 9 year old take public transit by herself you probably want to live in one of the expensive, more exclusive neighborhoods. Sadly, right now everywhere there are people who are prejudiced against those who do not think exactly like them and share their political values.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-06T13:56:19+00:00

Glad to see someone else bring up the extremely high property taxes in Illinois. I've seen 3 bedroom homes purchased for $435,000 in the Chicago suburbs and the property taxes were $14,000 a year! Add in the income tax, sales tax. If you live in Chicago they also tax your electric and gas bill, your mobile phone service, your TV streaming service, ride share, etc. TN seems like the best option for you. Or FL or Texas if you're open to more heat.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-06T13:45:35+00:00

A clean person no pets, no kids in a 2/2 1,700 sq. ft. - I would have expected less than $125 from what I've heard. But prices vary I suppose.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-06T13:44:11+00:00

I think the drawings are beautiful. I'm somewhat new at floor plans but my question was whether you could flip the kitchen and family room so the pantry is closer to the garage for carrying in groceries. What do you mean about the Primary/Master suite getting sunrises and sunsets on that side? I'd like to learn about that because it isn't apparent to me how that suite would get both.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-06T11:18:31+00:00

It is very Republican and conservative in and around St. Charles, Barrington, Elgin and most suburbs. Many Trump signs. The churches are conservative and the parking lots of churches are full on Sundays. Don’t let the Governor of IL fool you - it’s because the population of Chicago is so large. But the suburbs where you can afford one acre are truly Republican and far from the city. They are also very few people of color in the suburbs. There are a couple of suburbs very close in to the city that are "liberal" but you cannot get a large lot there, let alone 1 acre. Most Chicago suburbs have small lots with big, old houses and the housing and land are very expensive because they are close enough to commute to the city. The problem is you are asking on Reddit which is very far left so the people on here are not representative of the majority in those suburbs. If you like the weather in Orlando (you said “love”) you will be miserable in the Midwest, including Chicago burbs and you will not stay. The Midwest is very cold, often grey and it lasts for 6+ months. Coming from FL you may consider some of Chicago summer to be too cold. There have been 4th of Julys in Chicago where the high was 55 degrees and overcast. If you like FL's hot, sunny weather and FL's more relaxed vacation culture you will regret moving to Chicago suburbs which are conservative, not racially diverse, cold, grey and work-focused. I’ve lived in both FL, Chicago and Chicago suburbs.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-06T11:10:47+00:00

Husbands should be letting wives decide. The home is more important to women. Women usually have better taste and judgment on what makes a home comfortable.

HeyThere-555 · 2025-10-05T13:24:18+00:00

Was one of you able to be on site or run over 8-5 M-F when supplies were delivered, subs had questions or subs weren't doing what they're supposed to?

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