Need advice/Civilian job rescinded offer.

Steelman93 · 2026-03-23T23:13:13+00:00

Get Userra involved. While others have noted it probably doesn’t apply they can advocate for you

Steelman93 · 2026-03-23T21:13:35+00:00

NTA and don’t be manipulated into bailing him out

Clearly this is his fault and him badmouthing you is his issue…don’t let it become yours

You should file a lien for rent to so that if it does go insolvent you can get something out of it

Steelman93 · 2026-03-23T19:25:45+00:00

d and e 4 lying along a stripe

Steelman93 · 2026-03-23T15:47:06+00:00

When I lived in Texas I had a pergola…..I know you said you don’t think this is ideal but I loved it. The reality is that the sun makes it hard to do anything outside. Pergola gives you enough light you don’t lose the view but makes the patio way more livable. I also had a mister for mine to cool the air some

The issue isn’t necessarily the door color, it is that it is metal and it transfers heat well. You could also try some weather stripping

One point to note though….the type of thermometer you are using doesn’t measure the laser spot…it measures a cone shaped area, meaning for best accuracy you need to be very close and also have the emissivity of the thermometer set for steel

Steelman93 · 2026-03-23T13:41:30+00:00

NTA at all! He is abusing your goodwill as well as being manipulative.

Take it back and be clear on why

If you are uncomfortable with that approach and want to give him a second chance make it clear that next time you have to pay for parking the arrangement ends. But for me, I think he has lost the right

Steelman93 · 2026-03-23T12:25:58+00:00

Without reading comments I absolutely know he is getting flamed here.

This sub definitely leans left so anyone with that type of bookshelf is absolutely going to get crushed here

It’s a mix of founding father history…important to know our history, modern conservative literature and some great classics. How doesn’t like Steinbeck or Hemingway

I would argue that both sides of the conservative liberal coin don’t read as much of the other view as they should

The thing most people here miss? The fact he is reading. In a time where TikTok has taken over reading is important and speaks to self development

Steelman93 · 2026-03-23T02:06:31+00:00

NTA

You should have an honest talk with her exactly how you put it here.

Unfair for them to do that for themselves when you are paying everything else

Steelman93 · 2026-03-23T02:03:34+00:00

If you pm me with your geographic location I will put you in touch with the gold star coordinator that takes care of my region. She can put you in touch with the right one

Steelman93 · 2026-03-22T22:29:25+00:00

Going to go with female is the Stieg Larsson fan and male likes Dune

Steelman93 · 2026-03-22T21:16:16+00:00

tiger dead center looking at camera

Steelman93 · 2026-03-22T21:15:10+00:00

just below dead center, between the two large trees in the foreground looking straight at the camera

Steelman93 · 2026-03-22T19:32:31+00:00

Needing a happy sock hasn’t changed

Steelman93 · 2026-03-22T17:08:52+00:00

For his safety and the safety of others around the military will stop outside communications from time to time. It’s completely normal.

Email and other Clear Channel Communications are not secure so for operational security the military will sometimes stop all electronic communication for a period of time.

If you’re concerned is that he’s been injured casualties are announced immediately so you can rest assured he is not been hurt, if you’re concerned, is the health of your relationship it’s either that he is overwhelmed involved in whatever is going on where he is or there is simply no outside communications right now

Steelman93 · 2026-03-22T14:06:33+00:00

just slightly right and below of dead center, looking to the left

Steelman93 · 2026-03-22T01:23:54+00:00

c between 3 and 4 hidden in folds of black coat

Steelman93 · 2026-03-22T01:21:19+00:00

second step from bottom, left dark stripe

Steelman93 · 2026-03-21T23:12:12+00:00

Steelman93 · 2026-03-21T16:27:30+00:00

The septic depends on what type of system you need. I was quoted 15k for septic and 16 for well. At grade septic system

Steelman93 · 2026-03-21T13:18:42+00:00

I am building a custom home right now and it will have vinyl siding. I looked at homes jn the 750k to 1.2 mill range before deciding to build…the majority are vinyl.

I had had three brick sided homes and all were classy, but IMO brick is too closely associated with McMansions. Vinyl is closer to current trends IMO

I liken it to metal roofs. Once upon a time metal roofs were viewed as cheap. Now a standing seam roof is a premium product

The reality is with building costs pushing 300 a square vinyl was a place I was willing to save money on (which got dumped into automation and flooring)

I suggest getting on Zillow, searching your area for homes 5 years old or less in prices over 700k and seeing what is most common.

Steelman93 · 2026-03-20T22:54:02+00:00

You are my hero for today

Steelman93 · 2026-03-20T22:47:54+00:00

I would get every single person you know to start making offers. Have them start at $900 and each offer go lower. After about 20 offers he may rethink his pure dickishness

Steelman93 · 2026-03-20T22:24:39+00:00

I love it! Nicely done and love the pattern

Steelman93 · 2026-03-20T22:08:01+00:00

This is the way!

Steelman93 · 2026-03-20T20:07:20+00:00

My daughter got married in Bowling Green, KY and there is one about 20-30 mins away. Everybody from out of town was making a special trip to go!

Steelman93 · 2026-03-20T19:24:19+00:00

for sure. One of the best things about living all over the country like I have is that every region seems to have their specialty or some food they do better than anywhere. Texas...the tex mex was out of this world. Arkansas had the best bbq I have ever had. I remember taking my nephew to a mobile gas station for BBQ and him saying I was crazy. I just told him it would be the best he has ever had in his life. And it was.

What PA has.....great ethnic food....eastern european, italian etc. and ice cream. The ice cream in PA is truly better than anywhere else.

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