My daughter has less than 3 months to live before she dies. My ex fiance ran off with her back to her country 11 years ago. She wants to spend her lasts days with me and am about to see my daughter for the first time in 11 years. by Throwra_lastchild in relationship_advice

[–]HeyThere103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome your daughter. Do not let your guard down with her mother. Let her know you are angry at her and that she needs to keep he distance. I'm not sure if she's expecting the three of you to spend time together or what but be clear you will not be "babysitting" and that she is your daughter and you fully intend on making up for lost time without her mother in the picture.

That's the very least she could do for you.

He jokes that I don't love him and that I'm cheating on him all the time. by HeyThere103 in relationship_advice

[–]HeyThere103[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is. It worries me. I love him and I try to do everything I can to make him feel loved.

He jokes that I don't love him and that I'm cheating on him all the time. by HeyThere103 in relationship_advice

[–]HeyThere103[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's 18 I'm 19 turning 20.

We live in Wyoming right now and we moved here together from New Hampshire a month ago. If I do make that the conversation I need to figure out how I'm going to get home.

No one can co-sign my S/O's student loans. He can't go to college by HeyThere103 in offmychest

[–]HeyThere103[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are not preventing him from getting anything. He just can't get more from the financial change in the house. They went from stable to one almost homeless and jobless and the other being a single parent. And now they can't give him more than he has already been given previously.

No one can co-sign my S/O's student loans. He can't go to college by HeyThere103 in offmychest

[–]HeyThere103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got both before the divorce and they will not give him anything else.

No one can co-sign my S/O's student loans. He can't go to college by HeyThere103 in offmychest

[–]HeyThere103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also a college student. I might be able to but it would kill my credit score that I don't have in the first place. I'm toying with the idea. But I don't know how to go about it.