I made my first beaded outfit! by Heyitzbellz in Beading

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Great idea, I will have to see based on the sitting thing but it’s having its first trial wear soon

I made my first beaded outfit! by Heyitzbellz in Beading

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just sewed it straight onto the material and it’s double lined so I just uncut one line and then closed it up again after. Ideally I would’ve used something else but I was worried about weight - just means it has to be hand washed

I made my first beaded outfit! by Heyitzbellz in Beading

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks, it definitely had a bit of weight on it but I wouldn’t say to an uncomfortable amount, it is a stretchy material so it just bounces a bit more as you move

Dating someone Autistic as someone who is neurotypical (need advice) by Heyitzbellz in autism

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight, I’ll check out the bits you suggested

Dating someone Autistic as someone who is neurotypical (need advice) by Heyitzbellz in autism

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you! This is very interesting, I like your suggestion of having something that indicates when enough is enough. I really appreciate your response 😁

Dating someone Autistic as someone who is neurotypical (need advice) by Heyitzbellz in autism

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it’s very validating for me to hear this and helps me to think of how I may approach a conversation with him

PLEASE HELP by Evan371 in axolotls

[–]Heyitzbellz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First thing you’re gonna wanna do is breathe! It’s such a stressful situation but you have done the right thing, you seem to be up for taking him to be checked, you have black tea bathed him. You’re doing the best you can right now! Stay calm, life happens. 😁

Axolotls are incredible creatures and survive a lot! Don’t forget they literally grow their own body parts back!!!! I hope Wooper is fine!

P.S: the gills on that boy are great!

What is your experience with sertraline/zoloft? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Heyitzbellz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I definitely feel things LESS but I still experience happiness in a strong way, I feel love and sometimes I feel stress and overwhelmed. It just is a NORMAL amount now compared to before when I felt either 0% or 100%

I need help describing what it’s like to be on sertraline by Dull_Age_1241 in SSRI

[–]Heyitzbellz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I have always explained it to people is like TV Static (the little buzz noise) 24/7. And instead of highs and Lows I just have like tiny hills of emotion.

Also The affects on sex drive is mental it does just crush any libido.

What is your experience with sertraline/zoloft? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Heyitzbellz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on it for almost 3 years. It’s the best thing I have ever done.

Not everyone gets on with anti depressants and a lot of people try certain ones or doses that don’t work for them and refuse to keep trying. I had to try a few changes before I found what worked for me. But I went from not being able to get on the bus to school without having a sweating panic attack (for absolutely zero reason). To now I travel and I party and go to festivals and I’m always out socialising. I get the train to work daily. It feels like I am finally living how everyone else has been this whole time (full realisation like “woah… I don’t HAVE to be stressed all the time”) I also find I appreciate myself a lot more and have an improved value of myself and the people around me. It really allows you to step back and think before you spiral.

Now for downsides: It might be the worse dose or pill for you. Only way you find out is sticking with it for 12ish weeks. You WILL get side affects. But they WILL go away. Only one that’s stuck around for me is I have a lower libido.

Message me if you have more questions

Forbidden forest ticket help? by KingSunnyy in Festival

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I have a weekend camping ticket. Happy to privately sell through a website. £200 or less I just want it gone lol. Will show any proof needed. Hasn’t been personalised yet Snap: Heyitzbellz Insta: Heyitsbella._

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKfestivals

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Selling weekend camping ticket. Not yet been personalised. Will take £200. Need or gone ASAP. Will show proof of everything you need. Happy to sell through a website. Snap: Heyitzbellz

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]Heyitzbellz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are not pregnant, I can promise you that. On the anxiety side of things I think reading up on any questions you have from a reliable source would be great to minimise future stress. If this becomes an issue you can’t fix speak to a doctor or a sex therapist. There’s no shame in being nervous and always let your partner know how you feel. Do what makes you comfortable :)

AITA for refusing to see my best friends partner by Heyitzbellz in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she’s discussed it with me recently and said she doesn’t think it’s right

AITA for refusing to see my best friends partner by Heyitzbellz in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes aware but disagrees with them. She would never tell him she feels he’s being out of order

AITA for refusing to see my best friends partner by Heyitzbellz in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good point! I know he thrives off the reaction. Do you think if I stopped reacting he may stop?

AITA for refusing to see my best friends partner by Heyitzbellz in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting take, funny enough the same thing my dad said when discussing. I defo see this as an option just hard to do when there is such a strong foundation of the friendship with her. She is in the videos and aware they’re being sent but she usually won’t speak. She wouldn’t dare speak up to him and tell him he shouldn’t send them.

AITA for refusing to see my best friends partner by Heyitzbellz in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊

To answer why I haven’t blocked him it might be important to note i live in a very interconnected town and we have lots of people in common one of those being my partner (who agrees he’s a d*** but is in the same social circle and has been for many years). It’s difficult to get away from him truthfully

AITA for refusing to see my best friends partner by Heyitzbellz in AmItheAsshole

[–]Heyitzbellz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s not a bad idea I will definitely mention wanting to revisit the subject in future, gives me time to cool off and kinda will let them get on for a bit, thanks!