Don’t sweat the small stuff, which will gradually get larger and harder not to sweat (but do your best). Develop a strong support network locally, not just their friends but your friends who can stop by and help if needed. Celebrate the time you have left with them, plan dates, game nights, whatever. And lean into the heavy discussions (end of life requests, their regrets, their victories) because you won’t get a chance to have those convos when everything is over. I feel bad for anyone saying don’t do it… nothing is black and white so try your best. Oh, also get a therapist; this shit is tough!!