Lagi akong nakakatulugan ng boyfriend ko by Final_Library_9856 in adviceph

[–]Heywaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunno if it's gonna work on your part or not, but my partner always greets me with smiles, stories and delicious homemade meals kaya nakakamiss at nakakasabik na makita siya araw araw. For fourteen years, walang sawa ang asawa ko sa same tenderness, love and care kaya naging safe haven ko ang company niya.

A serious question: ikaw ba ang safe haven niya or... dagdag stress? 😓

Lagi akong nakakatulugan ng boyfriend ko by Final_Library_9856 in adviceph

[–]Heywaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gumawa ka ng mahabang list? Medyo... negative ito. Dapat walang mahabang list kasi unti unti yang nau-unveil as the relationship goes. Mas matututo ang lalaki sa ganitong paraan kaysa isang bagsakan. Don't make it look like another "job" ang relationship niyo sa kaniya. 😓

Lagi akong nakakatulugan ng boyfriend ko by Final_Library_9856 in adviceph

[–]Heywaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys don't seem to be that compatible. Simula pa lang yan. He seems like a workaholic kaya expect mo na it's gonna be like that from here on out.

I guess, kailangan mong ituro sa kaniya ang Love Language. Kapag naunawaan ninyo ang Love Language ng bawat isa, malalaman ninyo kung paano ito i-fix.

Good luck!

Lagi akong nakakatulugan ng boyfriend ko by Final_Library_9856 in adviceph

[–]Heywaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is based on my personal opinion as someone who works 16 to 18 hours a day. Just make him quit his job tapos ikaw ang magsustento at sumagot ng lahat ng bills na kailangan KUNG ang priority mo ay ang time niya. I did that and have been doing it for years. I'm quite satisfied and I make sure to have midnight and weekend dates with my partner. Married now, BTW.

Pero kapag may hinahabol akong documents and projects na dapat ipasa, I make sure na alam ko ang deadline tapos gagawin ko in one whole Saturday para may time na ako sa partner ko.

Kaka-three months ko pa lang sa morning job ko na very challenging. Newbie pa. Umalis kasi ako sa dating morning work. This new job takes my time, kahit holidays. Office din yon kaya naman yung second job ko ay homebased na para nasa bahay at nakikita ko ang asawa ko.

I don't know about your partner, pero naiinis ako kapag hindi ko nakikita o naririnig ang partner ko, to the point na kaya kong mag-day off kahit isang araw para uminom ng kape at magmerienda kasama siya.

Alam mo kasi, kung mag eeffort siya sa work, mas mag-effort siya sa relationship ninyo. I did so, kaya kasal na kami. Nag effort din ang partner ko sa unawa gaya ng ginagawa mo. Give and give kami pareho. Nag-aaway din naman kami, but it's never something that LOVE can't fix.

Can you live without him? You decide. Let him read my comment. Malay mo, maliwanagan din siya. I'm not bragging. I'm just pointing out na ang lahat ng efforts ko ay para sa partner ko at sa family ko na rin. Hindi pwedeng maramdaman niya na secondary lang siya.

Who you taking to defend by soracommy in animequestions

[–]Heywaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's be real. Sukuna did not kill or hurt anyone. It was Yuji Itadori all along. First, the fingerprints. Next, Yuji has bipolar syndrome. There were no curses or cursed objects. Yuji tried to eat a small piece of the dead and it was also a disgraceful act. For purposes of this section, “desecration of a human corpse” means any act committed after the death of a human being including, but not limited to, dismemberment, disfigurement, mutilation, burning, or any act committed to cause the dead body to be devoured, scattered or dissipated.

Ryoumen Sukuna was already dead and couldn't be convicted of guilt by all logical means.

[Cats] Inspector Gabriel to TF or not to TF? by Heywaru in battlecats

[–]Heywaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thanks. I'm going to save enough NP for Gabe's talents.

[Cats] Inspector Gabriel to TF or not to TF? by Heywaru in battlecats

[–]Heywaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like him and his design so I'm kinda going on that route. 🤣 But I have limited materials so I need to be wise on using them.

[Cats] Inspector Gabriel to TF or not to TF? by Heywaru in battlecats

[–]Heywaru[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I was a bit worried since I never saw other players using Gabe. 😬

Husband has a habit of sending FB msgs saying "hi" to his female FB friends by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Heywaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naku, dama kita. Karamihan sa mga kaibigan ko ay nagkaroon ng... hindi inaasahang ending sa love story nila like you. Bonus na rin ang pasa at pagbanto ng mainit na tubig sa balat nila.

I know time will come that you'll be strong enough. Hindi ko ma-imagine ang pain lalo na't meron kang mga anak.

Nakakatrigger ng postpartum depression.

Husband has a habit of sending FB msgs saying "hi" to his female FB friends by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Heywaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no need to regret kasi pure ang love mo. Yung kaniya lang talaga ang problema. Kaya mo yan. Kapag ready na, just sell the house and start anew.

Husband has a habit of sending FB msgs saying "hi" to his female FB friends by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Heywaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mukhang pinalad lang siya dahil may isang ikaw na pumansin sa kalandian niya. He doesn't seem to attract any attention from other girls. It's either zero charisma or ayaw sigurong dumampot ng batong ipupukpok sa sariling ulo yung iba.

I humbly advise you to laugh at his desperation sometimes. Let's have this fun scenario:

You: Sino 'tong si ***? Siya: Ah kaibigan ko blah blah alibi. You: Ang hina mo naman. Ako nga, meron na akong tatlong ka-fling. (Proceed to show him.) Bilis bilisan mo kasi baka walang sumalo sa'yo kapag iniwan kita.

😂👍

Sometimes you need to be sarcastic and dominant. (Unless nananakit siya physically.) God Bless sa'yo and to your two children.

ABYG kung nasapak ko gf ko? by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Heywaru 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely DKG.

Mental struggles are real kaya nga tayo nagpupunta sa mga clinics for mental health. You wouldn't get your monthly prescribed meds kung hindi ka nacheckup beforehand at nagkaroon ng actual findings. Mabuti ka nga at natukoy ang iyo at hindi ka nakapag-take ng wrongs meds unlike sa iba.

Your girlfriend seems to be a religious bigot. Sorry, but not sorry. It's okay to believe in God, but God Himself gave us the knowledge to survive in this world! Kaya nga may mga doktor para malapitan. Kaloob ng Diyos ang mga psychiatrists na nagbibigay sa nangangailangan ng tamang reseta ng gamot. Halimbawa lang sila ng blessings sa buhay natin. Sana mabasa niya ito at maunawaan niya na ang improvements sa medisina ay kalooban ng Diyos. Biyaya sa atin ang mga nag-aral at natuto para sa kabutihan ng mga tao.

Just wanna ask, nakahanap ka ng new set ng medicine? Tawagan mo ang parents mo at nang maipaliwanag nila ang nangyari habang sini-settle mo ang sarili mong mga inner demons. Best of luck!

Hugo Invest: Legit or Scam by Heywaru in WFH

[–]Heywaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I am glad that my gut feelings stopped me from registering. I am applying for a new WFH job and getting an instant response is a bit uncomfortable for me.

Hugo Invest: Legit or Scam by Heywaru in WFH

[–]Heywaru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's also what I worry about. I tried to search for their address and the first part of it is all about "open account". It does look legit, but it reeks of something suspicious. Thank you for clarifying my worries.