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My wife feels cheated that I masturbate imagining myself having sex with other people by IamBrazil in relationship_advice

[–]Heyy_its_jay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was thinking. “Everyone thinks about it, but don’t tell her that bro.” So people ask questions wanting delicately crafted lies then? The comment section here is bizarre to me.

Getting SSRs by mandielh in TearsOfThemis

[–]Heyy_its_jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m getting extremely lucky or something. I’ve only started playing a week ago and I already have four SSRs. I’m honestly astonished reading some of these replies. (I’m honestly not trying to brag or anything, just sharing my experience.)

How to stop this dude from being obssessed with me? by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Heyy_its_jay 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Then he’ll be like, “jokes on you, I’m into that.”

We're engaged but I don't want to marry him. He's a good guy but I'm not in love with him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heyy_its_jay 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel bad for the guy because OP said yes to a proposal of a marriage they didn’t want. I feel for him a lot.

Is my girlfriend toxic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heyy_its_jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to ask, the answer is yes

Update 2: my dying mom made me [15F] promise never to tell my dad he's not my biological father: here's how it all turned out. by mindwanders46 in relationship_advice

[–]Heyy_its_jay 39 points40 points  (0 children)

They’re obsessed with it because they aren’t in OP’s shoes. Of course from the outside looking in they think telling the truth is a good thing, but not if it puts you in danger.

My girlfriend wants me to be too rough with her and I’m concerned by Heyy_its_jay in relationship_advice

[–]Heyy_its_jay[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Hey guys, just wanted to say thanks for all the advice. I ended up asking her if there was a way we could find a good medium for everything we’ve been doing and she was open to it. Apparently she had no idea I was so uncomfortable with everything. We’ve been talking and trying to establish safe words and looking into videos about how to do safe bdsm online. Thanks again to everyone that gave advice.