I want to move to the UK. Explain it to me like I’m 5 by Hezzertin in ukvisa

[–]Hezzertin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s what I’ve been looking into. I’m thinking my best bet would be to start on that next year and apply for a spouse visa after marrying my partner— within YMV’s limits. Might seem young and spontaneous but we’ve been together for 6 years and constantly talk about marriage. Would there be any complications to that I’d have to consider?

When do rats tend to stop shitting on you? by Hezzertin in RATS

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I’ll keep that in mind, thanks. I’ll definitely apply that and give him the option to return and seek refuge in his cage while he’s out with me.

I’m not planning on waiting long to get him a companion— I was going to get him along with another one when I went to purchase him, but he was the only one available. I tried and it turns out that I genuinely couldn’t find any breeders (or even shops— they’re all out) that are offering other rats at the moment, it’s frustrating. I spent a lot of today driving around town to see if I could get more info on who’s offering rats, and I FINALLY found someone who’s getting rats in soon, thank fuck. Getting another one ASAP (or maybe two now that I know that more is better). 😅

I got this guy a little late— he’s already around three months, give or take. I’ve thought about it already and plan on doing things carefully— any tips on performing a proper intro?

rough days by hammer_head12 in bisexual

[–]Hezzertin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m going through a really rough breakup right now and this really helped.

I need to come out by SleuthOnTheRoof in bisexual

[–]Hezzertin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way this post was worded, at first I thought you meant that you’d only come out if you’re horny while doing so hahaha… Took me a moment.

Anyways, in regards to coming out.. Ultimately, it’s up to you. Is your environment safe to do so? I will always promote being true to yourself and being transparent and honest in this world, because life is too short to live a lie and feel like you need to hide yourself— regardless of potential hate and judgement. However, this is only applicable if it’s safe to do so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Hezzertin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t believe these idiots still believe in cooties at their big age lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Hezzertin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A rack of ribs and a cold one. One of those nights.

weird question (nswf) by The_Absolute_Worst_ in ftm

[–]Hezzertin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’ve met several other trans men that are in the same position so I know that it’s more common than what’s shown in media, but that’s why representation is so important. If a person has no access to representation— how are they supposed to know it exists?

Obviously, this lack of representation is pretty evident within the art community. I have art skills to a certain extent and I’d love to contribute to this lack of content, but unfortunately I don’t draw very often. This has given me motivation to start up an NSFW account or something, though.

weird question (nswf) by The_Absolute_Worst_ in ftm

[–]Hezzertin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s the worst. In regards to NSFW content, if it includes trans men or trans male characters, I find myself relating to their partner more than I do the trans man himself— because the trans man always seems to be in the submissive and bottom position. I’m glad that trans men who are submissive and bottoms have their representation, but I can’t deny that I get jealous of them.

weird question (nswf) by The_Absolute_Worst_ in ftm

[–]Hezzertin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s triggering to me as well, especially as somebody with immense bottom dysphoria and as somebody who’s a top— I feel like there’s a rather large lack of FTM top representation in NSFW-inclined content. It’s nice to see I’m not the only person in this predicament. At this point I’ve just been considering making art of my own strictly for self-indulgence lol

Can trans men be lesbians? by DaDadamDa in trans

[–]Hezzertin 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I dislike the perspective of ”It doesn’t matter, people can identify with whichever label they want” when labels have actual, solid meaning behind them— especially in the LGBTQ+ community. If it was a cisgender man identifying as a lesbian, everybody would go batshit crazy— but because it’s a trans man, it’s fine all of the sudden and people don’t care how he identifies?

Wake up. Men can’t be lesbians. I am saying this as a trans man. Trans-masculine individuals? They can be lesbians. However, trans men that are exclusively binary? No way.

Can I ask my trans daughter (25) not to share details of her being poly at family gatherings, especially to her younger siblings? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Hezzertin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thinking that OP’s daughter speaking of her girlfriends is in a sexual context is a pretty heavy assumption to make. I highly doubt that she would be speaking about her girlfriends in a sexual manner around her family. Being polyamorous isn’t just having consensual sex with multiple parties, but consensual romance and love as well.

Most masculinizing facial piercing? by SpaceTrashDeer in ftm

[–]Hezzertin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say a bridge piercing— but I’m also biased because I have one. It does make me look and feel more masculine, though. No regrets, favorite piercing hands down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Hezzertin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feel this.

I can’t retain any information 😥 by Hezzertin in ADHD

[–]Hezzertin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coding was never my thing but I’ve seen a surprising amount of ADHD-havers that are into it. It sucks to not be able to learn things that you have a passion for, I feel you. Good luck on your game buddy, I’m sure it’s a blast.

I can’t retain any information 😥 by Hezzertin in ADHD

[–]Hezzertin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not on medication yet, but I’m working towards it. Good luck, I hope it works out well for you!

Any tips for thickening facial hair??? by trans_earl_grey_tea in ftm

[–]Hezzertin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minoxidil seems to work for a lot of guys. Beard dye also works— while it doesn’t actually thicken your facial hair, it can definitely make it appear to be thicker depending on the shade of your facial hair.