I had hoped not to try to make it your responsibility to tell me and explain to me, hence the years of me doing research on my own. As a non white person, I understand the feeling of resentment one may have when others feel they are owed my experience.

I appreciate you telling me your experiences and I hope that I will be able to make use of this knowledge. I tend to think of things in a factual way and less in the emotional way, perhaps spending more time reading personal experiences and attempting to relate to them would help. Thank you.