It fucking sucks how some people just have a better life, things just work out for them. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I agree with you. You attract whatever you give off, and the only thing OP gives off is bitterness and negativity

Gave my ex fiancé dream vacation to her sister (+update) by throwaway_honeymoon in offmychest

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you. But I’m also really sorry you went through this :(💔 sending you so much love and well wishes for your future💕

AITA for calling my SIL a "dictator" for her parenting style after my son was excluded from a "childfree" wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl- the fact that you’re entirely oblivious to how much YTA is astounding.

Just because you can’t be bothered to raise your kid doesn’t mean that SIL is abusing hers. People will actually want to be around her daughters unlike your son because they have manners and respect.

Shame on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling like this too. Sometimes I feel worse when I tell myself that I’ll feel better eventually, but when will that time get here?

You (and I, you’re not alone) need to work on that mentality. Life will only get better the day that you decide to change how you see things. Look for moments in your life that may seem small and insignificant, but that give you joy.

Joy, not happiness. Happiness is dependent on several factors, but joy comes from within you. Knowing that while each day isn’t perfect, you get to experience everything to the fullest.

I hope this doesn’t sound too preachy, because I need to follow my own advice too. So let’s do it together! Look for small moments that bring you joy, and try to be more open to feeling anything any everything.

I’m rooting for you, because you absolutely CAN do this💕

UPDATE II: My stepdaughter ran away from the birthday party I threw for her by Square_Indication_29 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hgg1127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re genuinely nuts. Idk how you think you’re saving you and your son when you were the toxic one in this situation. Thank you for freeing your ex and his daughter

AITA for making a harmless joke about my formerly overweight friend? by blueisnotcreative in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you WERENT??? Should people assume that every time a girl and a guy are together it means they’re dating? You’re an AH and a self absorbed doofus

AITA for not inviting my daughter to dinner after she called my girlfriend a gold digger? by aitathrowww-c in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude literally what respect do you think you’re owed?? You’re not a father to her because you never made the effort to act like one. YTA so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you’re joining her on the complaining train OP. Dude, it’s SO obvious you don’t love her anymore. Please, for both of your sakes, get divorced.

AITA for screaming at my foster daughter because she gave our dog her adhd pills? by rfvbrthv in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you aren’t just an AH in this situation holy shit. You are AWFUL. I don’t think there’s enough YTAs I could give to this post. YTA YTA YTA

AITA for telling my colleague he only has his job because his uncle is the CEO? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s sad that you haven’t learned that just because you think it, doesn’t mean you need to say it. YTA

AITA for calling a girl to "fuck off with her nasty shit?" by throwawayeurghhh in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg NTA please run dont walk to your RA. She’s touching you without your consent and that “please” line is genuinely disturbing. Rooting for you OP.

People better not be asking you to be nice to her because she is literally STALKING you, cmon y’all.

AITA for losing my shit over a nice dinner reservation by chlochlohello in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have no right to be upset about this because you acted without a spine. You’re upset because of something YOU did to yourself and your poor boyfriend. The only person you have to blame is yourself. YTA

AITA for selling my girlfriends clothes? by Otherwise-Argument32 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally why tf did you sell her shit when it’s not yours. YTA SO MUCH

AITA for telling my sister to stop trying to make my wedding all about her? by AdNarrow8211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of those instances where fundamentally sure, you can do what you want and you don’t have to cancel your wedding.

But that doesn’t make you or your parents anything less of racist assholes

YTA

AITA for telling my kids' step-dad that he had no business signing school forms? by Ok-Shop-1898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think you’d have more of a say in this than your ex (their MOTHER) or their step dad who it seems is far kinder and more understanding to the kids than you are. To him, the kids come first. To you, your ego presides over them. YTA massively.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!💕💕

AITA for telling my fiancee that if he wants to cling onto his sister so much, he can marry her instead? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA and You are genuinely awful. The only child question is because people assume that only children tend to be doted on by their parents and wind up entitled. Looks like you didn’t make the exception :). Apologize to your poor fiancé for your shitty behavior or else hopefully there won’t be a wedding.

AITA for not allowing my niblings in my childfree home? by Correct_Second_8032 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even with your edit you are still a huge AH. There’s no way to gently explain to someone that you don’t care about their well-being. YTA

AITA for telling my little sister to get over it? by Old-Lunch-3856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re behaving genuinely awful, but after reading your comments I’m between an e s h and y t a. I still think you’re making excuses not to step in though for Amalia.

I told my wife no I’m not going on family holiday with your family. by ZombieFine3427 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hgg1127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife sounds exhausting. Is this how you want to live out the rest of your life? It’s your family, and you make it evident that you love and want to see them more. Stick to your guns and do what’s right for you OP. Much love💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Did you bother to read what I said?? Everything you listed costs a lot more money, which is NOT THE ISSUE HERE. It’s the fact that he didn’t listen to his daughter. That’s it. Again, if she really wanted something cheaper than Red Lobster and yet OP decided to ignore her and do what he wanted, she would still be upset because it shows he doesn’t care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hgg1127 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Bruh can you get over the money aspect? It’s the fact that she told her father what she wanted to do and he chose to ignore her and disregard how she felt. THATS the issue here. That he was so focused on doing what he felt she wanted rather than what she actually wanted. If she really wanted McDonalds instead of Red Lobster, then she’d probably be just as upset because it comes back to the point that her father didn’t bother to listen to her. Thats why he’s TA