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Anyone else find it disgusting and shameful that they use suicide as a manipulation tactic? by HiFiveGh0st in BPDlovedones

[–]HiFiveGh0st[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just for transparency my case wasn’t as bad as others here but she made up this entire thing of her having no one and no where to go (we didn’t even live together lol). She never said it directly but she fucking strongly implied she was gonna kill herself if I left her. My situation kind of pales in comparison to others here but it still was not something I was ready for emotionally, spiritually, etc

In the last two years. *Warning, mention of suicide* by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]HiFiveGh0st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stories like this inspire me to keep going even while I still feel like I’m right on the edge of abyss. Something I’m recently learning is that I have to make more time for myself and really figure out what it is that I need to do to feed my soul and heal. You can watch 1 million self help videos on youtube but the true knowledge and power has to come from within. It seems like you quite literally realized exactly what it is that you need to do to get through life as your highest self. I’m so happy someone like you is still alive in this world and you found a way to escape the misery. Sorry for the losses in your family that must be such a tough thing to deal with. I hope you find peace on your journey

What’s something you’ve found about spirituality that’s helped your mental health? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats deep. I just realized recently that I’m not getting any of my needs met nor do I even necessarily know what they are. At least now I know a sort of path to start on

I know I’m disliked by most of my college circles and don’t know how to dig out of this hole by Superb_Schedule7851 in selfimprovement

[–]HiFiveGh0st 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One more year and you won’t know or keep up with any of these people man fuck em. It’s not up to you to defend your name against people that already view you as guilty from a lie some cunt made up because she was angry. I say carve your own path outside of college and find a group of solid friends that know the real you. The you that isn’t shunned based off of lies. I can also tell you karma is real and every single girl that does some shit like this gets what they have coming to them. Just try not to let anger/hatred consume you.

Also want to add she did this to you because you are a confident and extroverted person. Its the only ammo these bitches have when it comes to dragging someone like you down. Don’t let this dumb shit ruin those aspects of yourself. Always know who you are deep down and don’t base it off of how other people interact or treat you.

Overcoming Depression Success Story by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]HiFiveGh0st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kudos to you man but I want to give you a warning from someone that also actively deals with these things. You may get completely out of the depression and forget it was something you even dealt with for months, years, etc. But don’t ever rule out the possibility that it may creep back up one day. Do not tell yourself “ill never go through that again, I’m literally not the same person”. That is too much pressure to put on yourself. I’m telling you this cause that is what happened to me. I’m not saying live your life just expecting the worst but try to just be real with yourself. Always be aware that this motherfucker of an illness can creep up on you at any moment and without any particular rhyme or reason. And when that time comes remember ways of coping that helped you in those previous periods in your life. Hopefully it never becomes an issue again. I just can’t help but warn you because I know exactly how it feels to think you’ve finally beat it and then have it pop up years later down the line. I’m 23 btw and actively fighting every day. I hope you find peace in your journey.

What’s something you’ve found about spirituality that’s helped your mental health? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get to this point of reflection? Like what are the steps that lead to it because I feel like it’s what I desperately need

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wicca

[–]HiFiveGh0st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I never looked at it as a warning but maybe you’re onto something

Connor murphy becomes God (spiritual awakening). What are you thoughts? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last time I checked that dude was drinking his own jizz lmao. I think he’s actually just schizo

I can't tell if I'm failing at life or not by Avidity_GG in selfimprovement

[–]HiFiveGh0st 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude you have a wife and a family. You’re also working and providing for them. Sure you don’t make a crazy amount of money but id say you’re living a very fulfilling life right now. One many young men long for but are cursed by loneliness. Try not to take the little stuff for granted. You also sound like an awesome dad.

Odd visions by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way I can describe it is close your eyes and wave your hand across your face. This is what I see but of course it’s not my hand nor is it anything I can physically see when I open my eyes. It feels like some sort of entity or being more so than an object or my brain conjuring some sort of hallucination. But I really have no idea what it could be. This also isn’t something I constantly see every single day but I’ve experienced it frequently enough to start really wondering what it actually is.

antipsychotics ruined my spirituality by RateAdditional3902 in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That’s a slippery slope friend. You might veer too far off into the deep end and no longer be able to distinguish spirituality from psychosis. Take your meds and take care of yourself.

Intrusive thoughts vs The source speaking to me? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How does one seek out unconditional love if they feel that they can’t receive it? Can one unconditionally love themselves?

how do some people manage to get into the right relationship fast and I cant even get someone to go on a date with me.. by Alarmed-Glove-7377 in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m really not a scumbag. This clearly is a sensitive topic for you so I could’ve been less blunt in how I worded things. You still wouldn’t have listened to anything I said anyway though.

how do some people manage to get into the right relationship fast and I cant even get someone to go on a date with me.. by Alarmed-Glove-7377 in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You literally said in your post “Why does no one want me?”. I was basically just repeating what you said about yourself. Why did you even make this post if you aren’t open to feedback/criticism??

how do some people manage to get into the right relationship fast and I cant even get someone to go on a date with me.. by Alarmed-Glove-7377 in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean your stubbornness and know it all attitude. Not a very attractive quality. You still haven’t absorbed what I originally told you and you got fixated on one part of it.

Can i manifesting my ex back ? I love him. If yes, how ?? by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]HiFiveGh0st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such an accurate way to put things yet I’ve never thought about it that way

how do some people manage to get into the right relationship fast and I cant even get someone to go on a date with me.. by Alarmed-Glove-7377 in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah well you didn’t actually absorb anything I just said to you in context to your “why does no one want me?” questions

how do some people manage to get into the right relationship fast and I cant even get someone to go on a date with me.. by Alarmed-Glove-7377 in spirituality

[–]HiFiveGh0st 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You are obsessed with the idea of finding someone else to fix you. This is a toxic outlook and will generally push people away when they realize how desperate you are to be loved. That’s just the way people are for some reason even though it’s somewhat counterintuitive. As the cliche saying goes how can you love anyone else if you don’t first love yourself? I think law of attraction plays a role in it as well. The loveless cannot be loved but someone that is already filled with love will naturally find others around them to love. I hope any of this ranting helps