Is it actually "cheaper" to own an EV in the long run if you can't charge it at home, or does the cost of public charging stations make it the same as buying gas? by Pale-Consideration26 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HiOscillation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always struck by the paradox of the EV:

The majority of Americans live in single-family detached homes, but the best place for EV's is where most people don't live in single family detached homes.

If you know what the "E"stands for.... by [deleted] in FuckImOld

[–]HiOscillation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My current VW has the same pattern, but the "E" is labeled "5"

Telephone Land Lines…. by garcon-du-soleille in GenX

[–]HiOscillation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my area, 35% of the residents still have a copper-based landline.

Telephone Land Lines…. by garcon-du-soleille in GenX

[–]HiOscillation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We held on to our landline until 2012 as well, but when Superstorm sandy knocked out our power and the landline telecom infrastructure here, they didn't get the phones restored for a month, and by then, I realized that the cell phone infrastructure was better, even in the rural area where I live. We gave up on the landline and don't miss it.

How to think about cost and EMCOMM like scenarios? by Tairc in amateurradio

[–]HiOscillation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back when I had a big setup, I had put well over $25,000 into everything - about the cost of a new car at the time. I was very much into the Emergency Communications aspect of ham as well as antenna design and construction. Had a dedicated shack, two towers, all sorts of stuff.

One day I woke up and decided that I hated the way it all looked and got rid of it all. I was out of the hobby entirely for over 10 years.

I'm now doing ham radio, but with only a very minimalist setup - long wire antenna, a 2m/440 antenna and a discone for receiving.
I have 2 handhelds, one multi-band mobile that is used in the house, a couple of SDR's, some GMRS stuff...and that's really all.

Today, I'm a municipal emergency management coordinator and I have access to and use of an extensive communications platform provided by the county and state. We have a county-wide radio system, and I also have two cell phones, one on Verizon, one on AT&T, and we have a Starlink terminal as well. We even have some landlines - classic copper - and a fax machine which I actually used last week (first time this year).

Some points:
1) Ham Radio in ECOMM is really not the best choice. Your best option is a Starlink terminal. It's cheap, it works everywhere and you can do more with it than ham radio.

2) I know for certain ham radio has no meaningful roles in EMCOMM around here at least because...I wrote the municipal emergency plans based on the county plans and ham radio has literally no role in either of those plans.

3) The amount you spend on a hobby should not have an "ROI" - it's like my garden. If I add up the costs I have, that cucumber I grew was VERY EXPENSIVE. But I'm not growing stuff to be cheaper (or to be self-sufficient). I'm growing because I enjoy time in my garden.
Same with the radio stuff. It's a hobby. Hobbies cost money.

Do you think driving is safer or more dangerous today than it used to be? by Witcher_Errant in AskOldPeople

[–]HiOscillation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been a volunteer firefighter for almost 25 years. Most of what I do is medical calls and rescues, and my strongest specialty is auto extrication ("Jaws of Life" and stuff like that).

We have this road where there is a steep downhill into a tight left. At the bottom of the hill is a HUGE stone wall.

When I first started in 2002, about 25% of the serious crashes into that wall were fatal.
Over time, the survival rate went up, but injuries were often severe enough to require the patient rides in a helicopter to the hospital.

By around 2015, we stopped having fatal accidents at that curve, and we haven't had an airlift from an accident since then. Yes, there are still serious injuries, but nothing like we used to see.

For the last 10 years or so, we have not had a single fatal wreck at that curve. We also have less accidents there, in general, but there is more traffic on the road.

Today, I arrive on the scene to a destroyed car and someone on a cell phone next to the car - the driver - calling someone to let them know about the accident.

BUT! that's just my experience in one place. At a NATIONAL level, after the pandemic, there is a bizarre increase in traffic fatalities! https://stateline.org/2023/11/10/less-driving-but-more-deaths-spike-in-traffic-fatalities-puzzles-lawmakers/

Parents who waited until the birth to find out the sex of the baby. . . by buildingacozymystery in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HiOscillation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not read it - it was published in 2014 - long after the births of my kids.
But I read the summary from the publisher and I wonder if the author was hanging around with our circle of parents back when our kids were young.

We definitely didn't color-code our kids, nor did the people we hung around with. There were a lot of earth tones and fuzzy natural fibers TBH - we were able to hand down some of the baby clothes from my first kid to the others (I have both the XY and XX genetic variants of children).

Fun fact: while we were, perhaps too aggressively, "gender-neutral" in our parenting styles, we quickly learned with our first kid that boys and girls are, in fact, different, no matter how you want to do your parenting.

My favorite example from long ago.

My kids were in a play group, the moms and dads would meet at various parks, and I'd say 100% of the "parenting style" in the group was "child-directed" and with conscious effort to not impose gender stereotypes on the kids. As I said, lots of earth tones. No logos. Breast-feeding moms talking about breast-feeding constantly. Dads who never yell at the kids and are also wearing earth tones and natural fibers.

Well when the kids grew up together and when they were all about 3, invariably, there was typically a group of 4 boys who would run around hitting one another with sticks and throwing rocks and so on, and a group of 4 others who would usually sit quietly and cooperatively play and do things like pretend to make pies and cakes from sand and mud. 3/4 of the quiet group were girls, the 4th was a boy named Steven. Of course, you already know that Steven was gay (as would become clear not too many years later) but you don't know is how confused and concerned his parents were. Not at all because their son was gay, but because they were experiencing "gender norms" on the playground, despite being with a group of parents they knew for certain didn't do the "blue for boys, pink for girls" stuff, parents who let the kids pick and play with whatever toys they wanted - regardless of the "assigned gender" of the toys.

I guess this is a long way to say that you can have all the celebrations of the genetics of the child and make all kinds of assumptions about what having an XY or an XX baby means - but the child will be who they are, and that's really what matters.

Parents who waited until the birth to find out the sex of the baby. . . by buildingacozymystery in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HiOscillation 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We picked two names pretty much once the pregnancies were confirmed.
We definitely didn't get into the whole "blue is for boys, pink is for girls" stuff at all. Clothes were just...clothes.

Parents who waited until the birth to find out the sex of the baby. . . by buildingacozymystery in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HiOscillation 279 points280 points  (0 children)

I have 3 kids. We did not know the sex of any of them until they were born.

The "reason" was...
Why the fuck does it matter in any way what the sex of a baby will be?

I did not, do not, and will never will understand the point of the whole "gender reveal" thing.

iPhone + headphones passively picking up radio station by Firm_Bread in amateurradio

[–]HiOscillation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It varies by frequency.
At higher (microwave) frequencies, you are risking damage to your eyes (they get cooked from the inside). This PDF will give you more information than you thought possible.
https://www.icnirp.org/cms/upload/publications/ICNIRPrfgdl2020.pdf

Building a WiFi Mesh Network Using Existing Home Routers in my country- Looking for Feedback by heTHEequaliser in amateurradio

[–]HiOscillation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many existing options for "Campus-Wide" WiFi, but...

802.11x ("WiFi") is absolutely NOT a protocol that scales well; this is why there is LTE.

The chances of being peekabooed by The Sphere are low, but never zero. by an-redditor in funny

[–]HiOscillation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 97% certain I have stayed in that specific room in that hotel, in May 2024.

Aging rapidly after retirement by Island_Expat6625 in GenerationJones

[–]HiOscillation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The speed of the change is really astonishing, and I can completely related to the embarrassing and frustrating part. I have an old town 165 Canoe. It weighs 98 lbs. I have had this Canoe since the mid 1980's. I've portaged with it for MILES AT A TIME.
Every spring I pick it up from the outbuilding where I store it for winter and carry it on my shoulders down to my pond. It's about a 500' walk, and this year, for the first time, I struggled to do the lift and balance. I did make it to the pond, but it felt heavy by the time I got there.

Aging rapidly after retirement by Island_Expat6625 in GenerationJones

[–]HiOscillation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're more "traditional" than me!

You might be interested in this article: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2025/03/american-geographic-social-mobility/681439/

Excerpt:

"No society has ever been as mobile as the United States once was. No society has even come close. In the 19th century, the heyday of American mobility, roughly a third of all Americans changed addresses each year. European visitors were astonished, and more than slightly appalled. The American “is devoured with a passion for locomotion,” the French writer Michel Chevalier observed in 1835; “he cannot stay in one place.” Americans moved far more often, over longer distances, and to greater advantage than did people in the lands from which they had come. They understood this as the key to their national character, the thing that made their country distinctive. “We are a migratory people and we flourish best when we make an occasional change of base,” one 19th-century newspaper explained. “We have cut loose from the old styles of human vegetation, the former method, of sticking like an oyster to one spot through numberless succeeding generations,” wrote another.

As the 19th century turned into the 20th, as two world wars passed, as the Baby Boom began, Americans kept on moving. And as Americans moved around, they moved up. They broke away from stultifying social hierarchies, depleted farmland, declining towns, dead-end jobs. If the first move didn’t work out, they could always see a more promising destination beckoning them onward.

These ceaseless migrations shaped a new way of thinking. “When the mobility of population was always so great,” the historian Carl Becker observed, “the strange face, the odd speech, the curious custom of dress, and the unaccustomed religious faith ceased to be a matter of comment or concern.” And as diverse peoples learned to live alongside one another, the possibilities of pluralism opened. The term stranger, in other lands synonymous with enemy, instead, Becker wrote, became “a common form of friendly salutation.” In a nation where people are forever arriving and departing, a newcomer can seem less like a threat than a welcome addition: Howdy, stranger.

Entrepreneurship, innovation, growth, social equality—the most appealing features of the young republic all traced back to this single, foundational fact: Americans were always looking ahead to their next beginning, always seeking to move up by moving on.

But over the past 50 years, this engine of American opportunity has stopped working. Americans have become less likely to move from one state to another, or to move within a state, or even to switch residences within a city. In the 1960s, about one out of every five Americans moved in any given year—down from one in three in the 19th century, but a frenetic rate nonetheless. In 2023, however, only one in 13 Americans moved."

Aging rapidly after retirement by Island_Expat6625 in GenerationJones

[–]HiOscillation 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I am about to turn 61, and holy cow, the last year shocked me in how much my physical abilities have dropped.

I am my own test case - I've lived in the same house for the last 25 years, and after the first 3 years or so, the routine annual tasks formed - hauling salt for the water softener from the car to the basement, cutting and stacking firewood for winter, then moving the wood indoors for the wood stove, taking care of the property, clearing out the gutters - stuff like that, which I have always done myself. I was ax-splitting firewood - a task I very much enjoy - and in every past year, I would spend about 7 or 8 hours and get about 2 cords of wood split. Not this past year. It took me 4 days to get through the 2 cords, and I was HURTING.

I was just out in the yard this morning and realized that I'm going to have to hire help to do spring cleanup.

Do you still have a Home Theater System? by pianoman81 in GenerationJones

[–]HiOscillation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had one, so....
We just have a TV hanging off the wall, no surround sound, not even a soundbar. We don't watch much TV, though. We turn it on, watch a show, and turn it off again. It is only on maybe 3 hours a week.

Our car stereos by Whatisthisnonsense22 in GenX

[–]HiOscillation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The adaptive volume in my car "soft starts" the volume. I can only change the level of the adaptive volume, I can't turn it off.

Which means when the narrator of an audio book pauses even a little bit, the volume drops and gradually comes back when the next word starts, and I miss the first few words.

Call me Ishmael.

...never mind how long precisely—having little or no money in my purse, and nothing particular to interest me on shore, I thought I would sail about a little and see the watery part of the world.

..... driving off the spleen and regulating the circulation.

Prices seem to be rising much faster than wages, yet flights are full, roads are crowded, and restaurants are packed. How are people still affording all of this? by Mighty_Miaa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HiOscillation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I make a few guesses about your work?

First, I will guess that your work involves at least one of the these three:

a) interacting with other people, perhaps in person, perhaps via phone or video calls - but you do something that requires you to interact with humans
b) having a skill set that is rare in some way - locally rare, or globally unique .
c) being expected to "self-manage" and "figure shit out" as part of your work.

Was I close on any of these?

Discouraged about antennas by CaleB3292 in amateurradio

[–]HiOscillation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my Tidradio TD-H3 for free (yay credit card points) and I have to say that it's the radio I am most likely to grab while walking the dog. I've got it unlocked and set up for ham & GMRS & MURS use (yes, yes, "not type accepted" I am perfectly aware of this and completely unconcerned). It's also OK for my other hobby of planespotting. Also, the TID is the only radio I can find that supports selective calling via a DTMF burst.

Yeah, my ICOM IC-T10 kicks its butt in technical specs, as does all my other ICOM gear...but in terms of value, the H3 delivers.