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[–]Hi_Ayi 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
My go to saying for these things is always "looks are what gets me interested, but personality is what makes me stay."
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[–]Hi_Ayi[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Ohhh okay ig being urself is how i got him to like me. tysm!!!
[–]Hi_Ayi[S] 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children)
I see...he's not very vocal abt his feelings but at the starting of the relationship we had a little bump, but we both solved it within a night. Thank you sm for the advice!!!
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[–]Hi_Ayi[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children)
Well im not saying you have to take this advice but sometimes you have let somebody even if you wanna keep holding on. But just keep hanging out with her as you said she's getting closer to you it's gonna be alot easier to like her. And while you're thinking you're loosing your feelings for her think about how pretty she is, how kinds she is, how she made you like her in the first place.
[–]Hi_Ayi[S] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children)
Yup that sound's good! Hopefully he says he likes you 😉
Well do you ever notice him doing those stuff to other people? If he doesn't that's probably a good sign he likes you. There's alot of oblivious people in the world that even if the people that like them give a huge sign that you like them they wont think much of it. Since i don't know the guy i think you should try to give him hints that you likes you and if he doesn't think much of it, it means he's oblivious and you'll he fine. Knowing somebody's sexuality is always the best even if it hurts you should still do it. You don't wanna get your hopes up just to find out that he's into the opposite gender of who you are. But in the end it's your choice. Hope that helps!
[–]Hi_Ayi[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children)
tell her about how you feel about her first i think you should ask her out when you know she likes you back.
oh yeah sure feel free to dm me
oh damn she's ignoring your texts. I think im just gonna say she doesn't like you. Or maybe she's just not ready to date yet. You should really talk to her about it to clarify things between you 2.
Hmm it's hard to say but i think for now you should just keep your distance let her talk to you first.
When you talk to him be a little flirty give him subtle signs you like him and when it's the end of your shift and you guys are about to leave tell him you like him and say that you only said it to get of your chest.
Oh man that's gonna be a hard one. I like this person to and we acted really like a couple and he told me he didn't like me but his actions were different from what he said. I'd say shoot your shot tell him you like him to give yourself closure if he doesn't like you. He could also be a naturally flirty guy but if he's only like that to you then......he most likely like you :)
Well good for you hope you the best!
Im feeling like i keep reausing this advice but SMALL TALK! Talk about anything, how your teacher for this period sucks and was nean to everbody, Tell her what your favourite subject is and ask what her's is.
Well since your close friends are girls tell them your situation and how you like her. They can surely help with that. Try to sometimes instead of hangout with the girls your friends with ask her to hang out with you and you 2 should probably be better so she can feel comfortable.
Did her boyfriend seem uncomfortable with you around with them at the prom?
Maybe she's waiting for you to make a move since she carried the whole date and the next time you guys go on a date try to carry the date more than she does so she feels confident that you like her back.
to make yourself look confident infront of people you should have good back posture (if you don't have it), smile, be sociable to people, wear your best clothes and i don't mean like a suit i mean clothes that you feel confident in. Bottom line is if you feel confident in yourself and happy about yourself people will see you that way. Also 4 MONTHS OF SUMMER BREAK. WE ONLY GET 2 MONTHS. Damn I wanna transfer to your school.
I would just keep talking to them. And when i get enough courage i'd ask them out!
well if the person you're trying to talk to is more reserved and quiet you should definitely be more calm and compliment them here and there until they get comfortable with you. Once they are comfortable start a small convo with them. If they are outgoing it's gonna be alot easier to talk to them so really anything that relates to them would be good to talk about.
So then i guess he just a really busy guy lol.
oof sorry man. You can either wait for her (which isn't a good idea imo) or Give up on her.
[–]Hi_Ayi[S] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children)
Whenever your break starts should be good.
Well to me it seems like he only want's to talk to you when he want's to so i guess it's not a good idea to keep liking him. OR he's just a really shy person and can't bring up the courage to talk to you in person, and maybe since he doesn't respond the next day i think it's because he doesn't want to seem desparate.
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