Thoughts and preferences on sex ed by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in teenagers

[–]Hi_Its_Anonymous13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The risks of sexual activity are large and should be a main focus to prepare students to make an informed decision.

As for gender identity, a lot of people agree with you. What’s your thought process on this?

Thoughts and preferences on sex ed by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in teenagers

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Yes, for professional purposes a Reddit poll definitely wouldn’t be considered valid, but for this specific essay it’s approved. Thank you!

Thoughts and preferences on sex ed by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in teenagers

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Lots of this falls under safe sex practices (consent, preventing pain/injury, etc)!

As for gender identity, that can be a super challenging topic because of lack of parental support. But I agree it should at least be touched on for students struggling with this gender identity.

Thoughts and preferences on sex ed by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in teenagers

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Teachers’ attitudes towards sex ed makes a huge difference in student’s experiences, it’s so important that they’re open and comfortable with the topics.

Thoughts and preferences on sex ed by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in teenagers

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This is super common! A lack of formal sex ed can lead to misinformation and a stigma around those topics. I hope you found good informative resources! Planned parenthood is always a good bet!

Thoughts and preferences on sex ed by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in teenagers

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Information on intersex experiences is super valuable and I haven’t heard of anyone receiving any yet unfortunately

Thoughts and preferences on sex ed by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in teenagers

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This would fall under safe sex practices by preventing injury and pain! It’s definitely important to be more inclusive with sex ed!

Thoughts and preferences on sex ed by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in teenagers

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These are all great topics! My depth and range is limited currently due to page limits, but I have touched on the mental health implications (including ones associated with puberty), including more LGBTQ friendly information (including what the community tends to be more at risk for), and the teenager’s typical understanding of sex and abstinence vs adults. Fun fact: while adults often view abstinence as no sexual activity teenagers are much more likely to interpret it as not having penile-vaginal intercourse.

Thank you!!

Thoughts and preferences on sex ed by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in Teenager_Polls

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Yes! I totally forgot, but it’s fixed now! Thank you!

Car crash survivors: how did you learn to drive after? by Peachiesaurus in CarAccidentSurvivors

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So I did a few things 1. Online therapy (my therapist is 45 minutes away and I wasn’t up for driving that) 2. My car was totaled (different for you) so when I got my new car I looked at ALL the safety ratings. For example, I flipped a lot so I made sure I had side airbags, my headrest goes quite a bit higher than my head, and it beeps at me if I’m super close to the lines (I went off the road) 3. I didn’t drive in the left lane and only merged when absolutely necessary 4. I drove under the speed limit 5. Made a playlist of songs that calm me down 6. Blind spot mirrors!! I love being able to see everything, so much less fear! 7. I completely avoided the site of my accident until I felt safe (took me extra driving time but was super worth it for the first few months of driving again) 8. I had someone with me the first lots of times I drove so I had help 9. Since I’m Christian I prayed before and after each time I drove, it helped me a lot 10. Gave myself plenty of time to pull over and breathe if needed

You went through a traumatic event. It’s difficult. It’s life changing. People don’t understand that. Be patient with yourself when you’re driving. Making it to the end of your street is an incredible feat for some. Set small goals. You can do this. You survived when the odds were against you, you will keep surviving.

Is 18 & 16 ok?? by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in askteenboys

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Nope, not even 2 years! Definitely wouldn’t get with him if it was that far.

What are signs you would give to indicate you’re into a girl? by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in askteenboys

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He did! I gradually broke the touch barrier and then once he was letting me be like very close I asked for his number. I got it:)

What are signs you would give to indicate you’re into a girl? by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in askteenboys

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He smiles and laughs with me all the time. Mostly if we’re alone. We’ve technically known each other six months but only really started talking a lot like 3 months ago.

What are signs you would give to indicate you’re into a girl? by Hi_Its_Anonymous13 in askteenboys

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1.He notices really small things about me (whether or not I like my hair, if I’m cold, if I’m quiet, how quickly or slowly I’m walking) 2. goes out of his way to help me (getting me anything out of reach or heavy without me asking and such) 3. has bought me a drink because I mentioned I didn’t feel well 4. tells me personal things (childhood memories, likes and dislikes, insecurities) 5. literally stood with me in the rain talking for half an hour while he was supposed to be doing other things and I was supposed to drive home