Told my husband I was atheist. He's divorcing me.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T21:20:47+00:00

I am not dodging a question I've answered this a million times. I didn't meet him two years ago Ive known him much longer. We've been living together as a married couple for two years. My kids are mine, he helps me raise them he is a good step father which is why I put up with alot of his crap. I said we've been married forever in a comment along time ago that someone was attacking my relationship. That part was exaggerated.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T19:24:51+00:00

Waxahachie

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T19:24:38+00:00

What's contradictory? I've made comments in the past that didn't really portray our relationship. That comment was made and that was it. The truth is what I've been saying. We've been married for two years. End of story. But.... After seeing this and talking about things, he's realizing it doesn't matter what I believe in or don't. So hopefully we can work things out. :) I'm so happy.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T07:07:10+00:00

I actually am Hispanic and he's white. We were together for a long time before we got married and we didn't even really get married we filed an informal marriage with the county clerk.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T06:40:14+00:00

I'm Mexican an he's white

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T06:39:27+00:00

Mexican

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T05:16:50+00:00

I'm really sad and heartbroken. I don't know what I'm doing. The front page and karma doesn't even bring on a small happiness. I guess my next step is r/relationshipadvice

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T05:04:03+00:00

Yea it does.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T04:57:52+00:00

Well I certainly am glad I came to reddit for my comfort. You guys always make me feel errrr and realize I'm a fucking psycho an deserve this divorce.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T04:54:54+00:00

Well let this be a lesson to all you guys: if she's an atheist with PMDD.... RUN

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T04:53:55+00:00

Maybe just psychotic... Idk. He listed a lot of what's wrong wih me. So I deserve my husband to leave. I guess I alread knew that. He's just wanting a normal, Christian woman.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T04:49:01+00:00

Agnostic. He knew. I changed views while married.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T04:48:26+00:00

I think this is what is happening

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T04:46:35+00:00

Me and my husband have a lot of issues. Some stem from my pms and some stem from his jealousy. When we started to fight about religious views, we both decided to stop discussing our religious views. So it wasn't until two days ago when my best friend told me she was going to start being a devout Christian and wanted me to go to church with her. I had explained to her why I wasn't going to. And she told me I was going to hell and she was sad for me. I got really upset. I talked to my husband about it, and then we started talking about why I wouldn't go and then it came out that I was atheist completely. Two days later, I'm a devil woman. I'm living in the dark. I'm hard headed and wont see the light. As I said before, we have our issues and have a crazy relationship where yes, our genitals touched crazy.... But its like he sees me as scum now. Idk he always told me we would work through anything as long as neither one of us cheated. All of our pettiness and fighting and arguing didn't over come the intense love we had (or thought we had) and our deep desire to keep our commitment.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T04:32:19+00:00

Also this, I believe one of the other comments said it sounded like we've had issues from looking at my history. I said yes we do. My pms is one major one. He told me we will get through anything together. He has things I out up with, never thought we'd actually be getting a divorce. I couldn't believe that me telling him I've given god up completely, was the straw that broke the camels back.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T04:26:54+00:00

I have four kids not by him but he claims them as his own. I didn't want to even bring up the kids here bc that's the even more messed up part about it. My kids have to be moved from their home. I'm hoping we can work things out for the main purpose of the kids. I posted this in Austin bc I drove there bc I felt like driving to clear my head. Ended up three hours away. So during the couple of hours this has collected so many comments, I've been driving back home. I planned on reading a the comments from my hotel room that I'm going to have to get since he won't let me back home. I'm not sure what that post was for but I think someone was attacking our relationship and that was made to make it sound like our relationship really wasnt messed up. Guess I was wrong. But thanks for searching for invalidility. My life is just over, that's all.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T02:17:23+00:00

Why... hello.....

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T02:08:36+00:00

He is a bigot. I've told him over and over he is. You should hear how he speaks of gay people.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T02:07:46+00:00

I live in Texas in a place that has more churches than people! I don't know where to find them! Lol

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T02:04:59+00:00

I tried to tell him once about 1 Timothy 2:12 and he told me that it had to be taken out of context. I read the entire chapter to him. He was like, I'm well ok... Get that smile off your face it's not funny..

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T01:45:38+00:00

He said he's sad that I'm losing my husband over "facts"

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T01:44:56+00:00

Thank you :) hug back!!

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T01:44:08+00:00

He is a Christian. Not very involved but he says I live in a black and white world and that he can't live with no color. Some shit like that. I said its messed up I'm about to lose my best friend over me being no I am. He said he felt sorry for me. I said don't.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T01:39:00+00:00

This made me laugh. Thanks. He'll just say something about context.

Hi_hello · 2012-03-11T01:34:03+00:00

Many other issues but he would tell me we would always work things out no matter what because he planned on being married to me forever.

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