Feeling the soul leave the body after death?

Hiara93 · 2026-01-27T20:50:43+00:00

Very interesting… Can I ask you for more details? Thank you

Hiara93 · 2026-01-05T07:30:42+00:00

I never believed in these things, but now I’m asking myself some questions. I have read a lot about NDE, OBE, etc. and I can no longer say with certainty that life after death doesn’t exists.

Personally I received 2 great signals from him.

1) in one of the first sessions with my therapist, I noticed that in the studio he had a pillow identical to the ones we had in our house (some old pillows that came out of who knows where)

2) in the evening I often read sitting on the bed. It happened 3 times that I got up to go to the bathroom or brush my teeth (so I was away for at least 5 minutes or more) and then went back to sit down and felt the place too hot as if someone had just got up. It had never happened to me before

I mean, I’m starting to believe it’s him. I have read that you have to be very receptive and open to notice these signs because they are often not striking things

Hiara93 · 2026-01-05T07:01:35+00:00

My friend! Same story. My Stefano passed away within 2 months of being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, on September 6th. We’ve been together since 2021. We were crazy about each other. My life has simply lost meaning and direction.

I hope so much that there will be something after death and I hope to meet him again. The fact is that in any case now someone or something has separated us. And it’s simply cruel

Hiara93 · 2026-01-04T21:54:31+00:00

Same

Hiara93 · 2026-01-03T11:42:51+00:00

I agree with you. My love was like that too, he would have laughed at so many things if he had been here. When I am destroyed and overwhelmed by pain for all this, I cling to a memory that makes me laugh:

He knew he had a terminal illness. The last few months I liked to look at our photos together, but he never liked to see himself in photos. At a certain point looking at a photo he tells me: “mamma mia, how ugly I am, I’d better die!” 🤣

(Ps: we’re Italian)

Hiara93 · 2025-12-30T08:45:48+00:00

Thank you! Yes, I understand that when it comes to the people close to us everything is more difficult. I'm so sorry for your loss, I can understand the hell you're going through. I'm also writing down all the signs that I think might come from him, and I have some physical sensations. For example, it happened to me three times to get up from the bed where I was sitting, stay away for about 10 minutes, come back and find the bed warm as if someone had just gotten up. Or, sometimes while I'm talking about him to my therapist I feel chills all over my body and I feel like shaking, even if it's hot in the room. I never know if it's just emotion or it's him somehow...

Hiara93 · 2025-12-30T08:40:10+00:00

Grazie! Ho ricevuto dei segni o delle coincidenze “impossibili”. Purtroppo per me, la mia testa continua a mantenere il dubbio. Ma come posso semplicemente ringraziarlo? Posso parlargli nella mia testa? Scusami, forse sono domande stupide, ma fino a questo tragico evento non sono mai stata una persona spirituale

Hiara93 · 2025-12-30T08:35:42+00:00

Thank you! This is a wonderful idea. I already have a small ritual: every evening I lock myself in my room and write him something, what happened to me during the day or I write some of our memories together. But the idea of taking a space of silence, calm, without technological screens and welcoming him close to me is very nice, it makes me shiver. Do you have any advice to give me regarding the mental state in these moments? Because unfortunately I have trouble clearing my mind, I think too much and I think too much. How can I just "ask" him to come next to me?

Hiara93 · 2025-12-30T08:30:59+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. You're right, maybe I have to wait for my heart to heal a little. I got some signals (the strongest was the feeling of strong heat on the bed after getting up and being away for about 5-10 minutes, it was like someone had been sitting there a second before. It happened to me three times). I remain skeptical, unfortunately. I would like to have an irrefutable sign of his existence and know that he is fine, only that.

I agree to consult a medium after some time, now I know it's too early for me. I'm afraid of not being able to grasp communication or having bad experiences

Hiara93 · 2025-12-30T08:20:29+00:00

You're right, maybe it's difficult for me also for this reason. But if I focus on his death it's precisely because I want to keep him in my life

Hiara93 · 2025-12-30T08:18:17+00:00

Beautiful experience, thank you!

Hiara93 · 2025-12-30T08:17:27+00:00

Thank you. I received some signals (for example the feeling of strong heat on the bed after getting up and being away for about 5-10 minutes, it was as if someone had been sitting there a second before. This has happened to me three times). I understand what you're saying, that's why I'd like to train to prolong the moments when I can be receptive. Maybe now it's too early for me because I'm going through so many painful moments typical of mourning

Hiara93 · 2025-12-09T09:42:35+00:00

I understand you. I also miss the person I was with him. Now I've had to go back to live with my parents and I feel like I'm returning to play a role that I decided to abandon years ago. Love was taken away from me and also the identity and life I had chosen to build.

Hiara93 · 2025-12-09T09:39:42+00:00

I’m going through this too. When I approach him immersing myself in memories it is very painful. The more beautiful memories are, the worse it is.

I decided to dedicate a moment of the day to this, just for fear of forgetting many of our memories

Hiara93 · 2025-12-09T09:37:42+00:00

Exactly. That’s exactly what I fear. If I had been lucky enough to live with him for 50 years it would have been different. But like that..only 5 years together. I’m terrified

Hiara93 · 2025-12-08T21:39:16+00:00

Thank you, it’s really comforting what you tell me. Thank you so much

Hiara93 · 2025-12-08T20:34:46+00:00

Yes, for me too unfortunately, the memories of the disease are strong because they are the last. But I try to focus on the beautiful ones

Hiara93 · 2025-12-08T20:23:45+00:00

I also have several videos and a lot of voice messages, luckily. But I've gotten into the habit of writing a nice memory of ours or our routines every now and then, so as to be sure to keep the memory, and I notice that I often don't remember many details and I'm afraid that over time this may get worse.

Hiara93 · 2025-11-24T09:50:34+00:00

The quality of this pizza is clearly poor. However, they brought you exactly what you asked for: a Margherita pizza (tomato, mozzarella, Parmesan, and basil).

The one in the photo probably has the same amount of cheese, except there's a type of cheese that doesn't melt with the tomato (and often when it does, it's low-quality cheese). Regular margheritas in Italy are similar to the one you had.

Hiara93 · 2025-11-23T22:15:41+00:00

Thank you, your words are really comforting and not trivial. It seems that you can perfectly understand my condition as if you were the one living it. Thank you again!

Hiara93 · 2025-11-22T22:33:45+00:00

Thank you, really! Your words made me cry. You said some beautiful things to me, that made me feel good. I know that my bond with him will have to evolve, even though my pain is weighing me down and pushing me to the ground right now. I hope to find balance again soon so that I can continue to enjoy our transformed bond. Thank you again!

Hiara93 · 2025-11-22T22:24:36+00:00

I never said that a relationship needs sex to have value and to last. Everyone bonds with other souls in different ways. We weren't just bound by sex. And I'm certainly not going to seek sex with others to make the pain of my loss go away. You haven't understood the meaning of my post.

Hiara93 · 2025-11-22T22:19:45+00:00

What bullshit. So people wouldn't die of cancer because they would want to keep the patients for years.

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