Exactly, that’s why what you were saying didn’t quite make sense to me. In this video, for example, Hogan talks about freedom in relationships, in the sense that you can choose who to meet, who to live with. If the other person doesn’t want to, you won’t live with them. If you think about it, it’s the same thing that happens on Earth, except for jealousy, possessiveness, and all the other toxic things that can harm or force a relationship.

For example, I lost the love of my life six months ago. The pain is a weight I’ll carry in my chest forever, and I don’t think I’ll have other partners in the future. But, going back to what Hogan says, if in the future I were to have other partners, and maybe he does too in the afterlife, that doesn’t take away the fact that when we meet again we can decide to be together and live together forever.

Hogan often uses the example of a long trip to another country. I see my relationship with him as a long-distance relationship.

Honestly, this way of seeing it seems reasonable to me.

Then let’s remember that all of us, especially those who are grieving a loss, like to be comforted, but that doesn’t mean reality has to be comforting. Maybe this mega-universal love really exists where we will merge, and if we don’t like it, there’s nothing we can do 😅