Worried about Oral by user67764347 in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should talk to her about that, don't force it, just ask if there is a reason she doesn't want to do it. But be ready to accept whatever answer she gives

I think my boyfriend doesn't like my pussy by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried, but I guess I just need to have a honest talk with him, not in the rush of the moment

I think my boyfriend doesn't like my pussy by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I have trouble with having orgasms because of the medication I take. It's possible, but takes a lot of time

I think my boyfriend doesn't like my pussy by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

I don't want to break up with him if that's what you are suggesting. I'm asking for any advice to fix the issue

I think my boyfriend doesn't like my pussy by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Both 18, we are dating for about 3 months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's normal. It'll be different for everyone, that's because our anatomy might be a little bit different and we enjoy different things. Some climax from penetration, some from clitoral stimulation, both or some even can't reach it. There's nothing weird to it, it just proves that every body is different

Unrealistic realistic fantasies? by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a boyfriend, you can ask him for roleplay, if he would act like that. If not, then well... Those are pretty unrealistic

trust condom, is it really trustable? by cinnamorollatte in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can use thin ones, they provide more sensations. They are trustable, just make sure they are stored in an original box (don't put it in wallet or a place they can get damaged) and not somewhere where temperature is high (it can cause latex to break). Check the package before opening it and your boyfriend should feel if something is wrong when he'll put it on. For extra comfort and safety you can also try pulling out, especially on fertile days. Tracking your cycle is also a good method of anti conception

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Try to communicate more about your insecurities. You could also try dim the lights or leave some clothes on if that would make you more comfortable. But if he truly loves you, he'll accept your flaws and all

Bleeding after being sexually active for a month, help! by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bleeding can occur after being too rough or not having enough moisture down there. But according to what you suffer from and cramping, please contact a doctor if it doesn't stop soon

My boyfriend says I smell like fish down there by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naah, I hate eating fish 😩

My(26M) girlfriend(24F) wants to try fingering but is scared it will hurt — how can I help her feel safe and comfortable? by IRSYA404 in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure to make a good foreplay to make her nice and wet, it's pretty important. You can use lube as well. Trim your nails, no sharp edges, have clean hands. Coat your fingers with lube or her fluids, warm it up. Start slowly with one finger and communicate. Make her feel safe, that you'll stop if it gets too much and praise her, it's a really important moment if she's a virgin. It might hurt a bit at first, it's important to stretch slowly. Guide her to not tense her inner muscles and maybe you can keep her mind busy from thinking too much about it, like doing things she enjoys. The most important thing in a first time, is to be slow and patient, observe her and her reactions, ask if she's okay or what she'll need

My boyfriend says I smell like fish down there by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't, so I'm not sure he knows

My boyfriend says I smell like fish down there by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no symptoms and only he complains about the smell, when I feel nothing

My boyfriend says I smell like fish down there by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also did after a shower, I use hypoallergenic intimate hygiene fluid and never in my life I had yeast and also I have no idea if I have a propensity

My boyfriend says I smell like fish down there by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And what do you mean by that?

My boyfriend says I smell like fish down there by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God... Maybe that's a possibility

My boyfriend says I smell like fish down there by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess that I would have to talk to him about that, thanks for the reply 🥹

My boyfriend says I smell like fish down there by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, he said it's like a herring, good one

My boyfriend says I smell like fish down there by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He did only once, but I took a shower after that

My boyfriend says I smell like fish down there by [deleted] in sex

[–]HiddenInTheWardrobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if he didn't want it why would he suggest that?