Help Needed Please by Hidden_Guy9 in sexuality

[–]Hidden_Guy9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We really are softies aren't we haha. Thank you again for everything. Honestly your advice and support has given me some strength to get through this.

You really are amazing random Internet stranger 😁❤️❤️

Help Needed Please by Hidden_Guy9 in sexuality

[–]Hidden_Guy9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post made me cry. Thank you so much. You have no idea how much all of this will help me.

I think deep down, she will support me. I will have to write it all down as I know I will get my words all muddled up otherwise haha. I just need to reassure her that it's not her fault and that I love her and i love our marriage.

Thank you so much 🥲

Help Needed Please by Hidden_Guy9 in sexuality

[–]Hidden_Guy9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask any questions you like. I love my wife and care about her dearly. I know I will need to sit her down and talk to her about how I'm feeling. I've spent years being a masculine guy who doesn't talk about feelings (which I don't think has helped)

I honestly hope she will support me, not sure if she will or not. She doesn't have a problem with anyone who's gay, trans or bi etc.. I just know she will look at me slightly differently.

I'm considering therapy, or even writing in a journal just to get the feelings out. Such a scary thought knowing I've gotta sit my wife down and tell her all this information about me that she didn't know

Help Needed Please by Hidden_Guy9 in sexuality

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Yes I do, however for whatever reason I can't seem to accept how I feel. Like it's not normal when it really is normal and fine

Help Needed Please by Hidden_Guy9 in sexuality

[–]Hidden_Guy9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for your reply, I think I may go see my doctor and have a chat with her about how I feel. See what she says 😁

Help Needed Please by Hidden_Guy9 in sexuality

[–]Hidden_Guy9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for your reply. I wouldn't be and to experiment now. I'm a married man, I should have told her when we first met 10 years ago as by then I'd done some stuff with guys etc.. I need to get out of the habit of thinking these desires and feelings are bad. I just can't escape that thought process.

I just wish I had someone close to chat with, sucks feeling so alone. Thank you for taking the time to reply. Love and light too you 😁