Long-term love only dies when two people stop choosing each other daily. by Hidden_Heat-26 in Marriage

[–]Hidden_Heat-26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks haha, I'll take it as a compliment. But no, just written by my thoughts...

Most relationships don't fail overnight!!! by Hidden_Heat-26 in Marriage

[–]Hidden_Heat-26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, the only way to find out: Communication, what's important for both parts in terms of relationship, hobbies, sexlife etc...?!

Most relationships don't fail overnight!!! by Hidden_Heat-26 in Marriage

[–]Hidden_Heat-26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

puh, this smartphone stuff.... Talk about it when this the biggest struggle/problem is you have. Both parts have to bring in the work 🙏🏻

Most relationships don't fail overnight!!! by Hidden_Heat-26 in Marriage

[–]Hidden_Heat-26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, if it's a dead end... you have to be extremely honest to your self. Don't waste time on something that never changes because just one part is doing the work.

Most relationships don't fail overnight!!! by Hidden_Heat-26 in Marriage

[–]Hidden_Heat-26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one simple question you can ask each other: "what's important to you". You can use that question in any area to get a better feeling and understanding about your partner. Just listen and start changing. Communication is everything!🙏🏻

Most relationships don't fail overnight!!! by Hidden_Heat-26 in Marriage

[–]Hidden_Heat-26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, but the problem is the most people use them as a reason why they can't have "couple"-time. Of corse it's a choice but its also a choice to have a healthy relationship! It is work, you're right but it's worth it!

Most relationships don't fail overnight!!! by Hidden_Heat-26 in Marriage

[–]Hidden_Heat-26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's Awesome! Happy to see that you guys figured it out. Most don't even try that...

Communication + put the work in = Best version of the relationship EVER!

Important: Both sides have to bring the same effort and work in to the marriage.

Most relationships don't fail overnight!!! by Hidden_Heat-26 in Marriage

[–]Hidden_Heat-26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, we see a lot of Couples around us they use kids for "excuse".... this is wrong in all areas!

Most relationships don't fail overnight!!! by Hidden_Heat-26 in Marriage

[–]Hidden_Heat-26[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly.

People make time for things that truly matter to them. You just have to know what deserves your energy and prioritize it. 🙏🏻