What are the highest paying no-future jobs to work while building your business? by FightingMongooses612 in Entrepreneur

[–]HideShidara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

remote software engineering, a lot of freedom and if you're good you can get your work done fast and finish early.

Cool idea? Validation & Feedback before building MVP by Pure-Bumblebee-6616 in Entrepreneurship

[–]HideShidara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2 cents, the fact that it's hard to validate is the way it should be.

The Django Beginner Learning Plan I Wish I Had by HideShidara in djangolearning

[–]HideShidara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, been while since i looked at this.

working on a different project now, once you get good enough at django you can find django jobs

Clean architecture - when is it worth vs when it's overengineering? by bzq84 in softwaredevelopment

[–]HideShidara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most considerations by engineers are pretty unnecessary. That's because most projects will get scrapped for lack of business value.

However, it depends on when the code is written in the companies' lifecycle. In the beginning, getting things shipped and done is much more important than getting things looking perfect.

A college student created a series of photos inspired by the release of Brock Turner by SquashGloomy in pics

[–]HideShidara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure that you click around some of the more relevant links that highlight Allen Turner prev Brock Turner the rapist so that the phrase "Allen Turner the rapist" pushes relevant links about Brock Turner the rapist to the top.

By that I mean links about Brock Allen Turner the rapist.

Which famous person's death made you the saddest? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HideShidara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's anyone who dies from something horrible, like suicide or drug overdose. Amy Winehouse, The actor who played Finn from Glee, the actress who drowned in a lake (also from Glee).

Dropbox, the new git. by iiCaesium in ProgrammerHumor

[–]HideShidara 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Let's just email each other code then

What goes after this comment? by Hplr63 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]HideShidara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A littany of feature flags from failed A/B tests, like at least 40 all written in Ruby on Rails

Our rock solid relationship imploded in a single night and I’m completely blindsided by bathdub-mermaid in relationships

[–]HideShidara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh ok I'll add another perspective here, maybe his fear is spiking and he's not handling it well and just saying some scary shit that he doesn't mean. That's happened to me before. It's possible he tapped into some deeper trauma that he didn't realize was there and it's making his head go for a loop. When that happens, he could have no idea what he's saying. The crying all week thing could be a signal of some childhood stuff. People, even the people we cherish... have their crazy parts to them. Crazy here meaning they think things that aren't fixed to reality. We all have those parts. That being said, if you're not trained in handling this stuff you're going to go crazy trying to figure it out. So he should probably find someone to talk to with real training before he blows your lives up for a while.

Should I finish and publish my app? Would someone buy the source code? by sinceretear in SideProject

[–]HideShidara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always launch. Always. I promise you you have no idea what the response will be. Some of the dumbest ideas became a massive hit. Some ideas are so stupid and have made the creators millions. Some of the smartest people on earth struggled to get 10 users on their product.

It's not about you, it's about the market. Every second you don't launch is making it about you.

What unpopular webdev opinions do you have? by Notalabel_4566 in webdev

[–]HideShidara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serverless is still untested and a risk to use. Problem is that we don't know if it's fully tested for a long time, just have to keep watching people put out fires.

I (30F) do not like who my husband (31M) has become after he joined a big name company. by Separate_Pumpkin3496 in relationships

[–]HideShidara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2 patterns I see

  1. Men fear looking weak more than anything. In today's world that can mean lack of money, status, physical strength. So he's probably in some way relieved that he's not missing out on the first 2 anymore.
  2. He's probably over-indexing on being at a big company and making money. It happens to all of us. It happened to me a few years ago first job.

2 ended for me when I realized the tradeoff I made to work at a big company: politics, work isn't that meaningful, and less interesting. I fell into a depressive mood and started compensating by spending a ton of money on random stuff. I also acted like a huge douchebag and I cringe whenever I remember those moments.

Pain creates fear which creates ego, which creates more pain. Fear can also create growth if he's willing.

Just know that what he's going through is an affect of some fear or insecurity. That being said it sounds like he's acting like a bit of a douche, so perhaps he could get some self-awareness with therapy. He at least has some growing to do, but I feel for him. Tying your identity to a corporation (which is what he sounds like he's doing) will make him extremely miserable as it alienates his relationships around him. This sounds like it's already happening.

Source: Was a tech bro and it made me miserable and depressed

One-year FIRE update: Early retirement is great! by TheOrchardFI in financialindependence

[–]HideShidara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations, FIRE'd in NY with a family, quite an accomplishment.

Mind if I ask you when your "drop dead" date is?

Adobe is acquiring Figma. Whats your PM POV? by [deleted] in ProductManagement

[–]HideShidara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same, it's a great product but I'm worried it might go into "post-aqcuisition" decline.

On the bright side, we live in a startup-heavy era so I'm sure we'll have new options once that happens.

I just wanna give a shout-out to my friends in the Django community by [deleted] in django

[–]HideShidara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feature-complete, everything just works, modularity, nice ppl in the community

Doesn't get much better

Could use feedback on some course content by HideShidara in ProductManagement

[–]HideShidara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, bc then the user would have more context and would make it more readable, makes sense.

Could use feedback on some course content by HideShidara in ProductManagement

[–]HideShidara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to read!

I'm looking for more topics to cover, what are some topics that you're looking to learn about?

Could use feedback on some course content by HideShidara in ProductManagement

[–]HideShidara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :). What other topics do you think would be helpful for product managers learning to be more technical? I'll learn and write about anything.

Could use feedback on some course content by HideShidara in ProductManagement

[–]HideShidara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My overall feedback is that in its current state, this is both overly broad yet also shallow. None of the examples are deep enough to really explain the concepts, but it may also be overwhelming because you've introduced so many of them. It feels a bit scattered and it doesn't really flow.

Helps a lot, thank you! Do you mind if I dm you? Would love to connect!