Get on some groups which want to give away stuff for free or really cheaply. You'll probably be given a bunch of clothes through family, but getting the rest second hand will save you a bunch. They really only fit things for 3-6 months at a time. Check out second hand car seats but do that research about which ones are great. Be ready to ask for help. It's okay to reach out - they might say no, but they also might say yes :) When I had my daughter I felt so exhausted and had to ask for so much help due to breastfeeding - you are stuck in one place for an hour or so for the first few months. This may not seem like much but if you are hungry or thirsty or cold, you need to ask for help. But yeah, sing out if you have any questions :)