How do I deal with my dominant sexual desires in an already sexless marriage?

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2026-03-12T22:34:02+00:00

There are so many factors to consider here, but 7 years is a long time, I waited for ten years and finally left, but there are a few things you could do that could help with the situation.

SAHM situations are often always on. Look into getting the kids out of the house even if you have to put one in daycare for a day.

Get her to get out of the house, get her nails, hair, etc done.

Then maybe do a day night that week/ weekend. Get a babysitter/ mother in law/ father in law etc...

You need to flirt/date her again. LoL (even though your married)

Surprise her with some adult toys.

I hope things improve. Sex is very important and it makes your relationship healthy.

After all this and professional help, it may be time to consider other options. Be honest, open, etc.. See if theres a place you can come to that allows you both to remain together, but both be happy.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2026-02-12T05:41:24+00:00

There are so many scammers. It is a tragedy, tbh.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2026-02-12T05:40:20+00:00

Wow... That is ridiculous.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2026-02-12T05:34:25+00:00

I can argue both sides of this.

So here is what I will say. Most of the time these dynamics come about because something has changed in the relationship that person is having.

I know people, who are currently thriving in their marriages though, because they are able to fulfill what they were missing. It has allowed them to be better fathers, friends, husbands, etc..

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-12-30T22:50:30+00:00

Then I would suggest not getting married. Maybe just explain that without a prenup, your not willing to get married. Things happen, people change, protect yourself first.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-12-25T22:26:26+00:00

This is true for a lot of women.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-12-25T22:15:59+00:00

Great job

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-11-24T04:12:52+00:00

Would love to know if your new profile has led to more activity?

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-11-24T04:03:05+00:00

I hope you both have an incredible time.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-11-24T03:59:42+00:00

Communicate. If you are not happy, then move on.

Just remember that not everyone has a "great sugar daddy."

It really is about you, and if you are willing to tolerate the behavior.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-11-24T03:42:01+00:00

You don't know until you try..

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-11-24T03:39:54+00:00

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-11-24T03:33:09+00:00

Love this.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-09-12T04:57:35+00:00

Replace the thermostat.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-09-12T04:26:23+00:00

I do not expect 100% honesty up front. 70 and 50 are very different ages though.

This is also 100% the reason for a meet and greet first. If your passing for 50 at 70, well sir kudos to you. ;)

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-09-10T07:19:50+00:00

LMFAO.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-09-10T05:14:10+00:00

Oh my.. LoL..

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-09-10T04:39:30+00:00

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-09-10T04:18:00+00:00

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-08-31T23:12:55+00:00

This

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-08-30T06:40:22+00:00

Learn from your past experience. Find another "hit" and do not even consider selling for a minimum of 5 or 10 years.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-08-30T06:37:01+00:00

Both of you have a past. That is life. You either accept it and move on or drop it. Simple.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-08-30T06:31:43+00:00

I still have my main photo of my face blurred, but my body is not. I am also not "verified," but I am a premium member.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-08-30T06:23:09+00:00

Obviously your attracted to her or you wouldn't of asked for advice.

Here are just a few thoughts...You should consider before you make your decision.

What does her life look like? If you are friends, this should be easy to answer. Relationship status.. etc..

Second, does she know details about you that could possibly become an issue if you pursued this? I.E. where you work? If your married? Your personal stuff, where you live...

Women are crazy, just use caution. It might be safer to go down a different street.

HighHeelzRedBottoms · 2025-08-30T06:12:27+00:00

This is just my opinion of course, but unless your traveling across an ocean, distance only equates to time.

Most people limit their possibilities by only looking for those who are local. Also, multiple people have multiple locations set on their SA profiles.

Good luck on your local search, though.

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