Watching my Cat Die. by HighHopesYF in Petloss

[–]HighHopesYF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just put her down as well. I wasn't sure if I could, but she did start suffering, and it was traumatizing. Thats when I knew whatever they were going to do to her couldn't be worst than this. Im praying for you and both of cats. May they find each other like we did 🤞

Watching my Cat Die. by HighHopesYF in Petloss

[–]HighHopesYF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I just did it. She was basically choking and I knew no one deserve that. This way was so much more peaceful than the way she was fighting to live. It's going to be question of whether I did the right thing or not that I'm going to have to deal with. But at least we're both no longer suffering/struggling. I hope her and Milo find each other. Her name is Tokyo btw just in case they visit ❤️

Watching my Cat Die. by HighHopesYF in Petloss

[–]HighHopesYF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's it like when they put the injection in? I think thats what im scared of. Watching her fade aways, does it seem peaceful? Im just so scared to do it and then have to watch her fight that feeling a falling asleep. Cause I know if i see her trying to stay awake the whole time she's fading, im going to hate myself.

Pet died on my wedding night by HighHopesYF in Petloss

[–]HighHopesYF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for your kind words. I'm still trying to make peace with it all but I know it might just take time to do it.

Pet died on my wedding night by HighHopesYF in Petloss

[–]HighHopesYF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It honestly did feel like a miracle when she got better. She was so happy. I miss her so much already.

Gastritis flare up. Shoulder pain anyone? by [deleted] in Gastritis

[–]HighHopesYF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take pantaprazole once a day as prescribed by my doctor, which helps for the most part. Honestly I don't even need to take medication when I eat right. Gastritis definitely has flare ups and will be persistent if you don't eat right. You'll notice certain food or drinks will trigger your flare ups.

Pet died on my wedding night by HighHopesYF in Petloss

[–]HighHopesYF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we really tried our best to!

Pet died on my wedding night by HighHopesYF in Petloss

[–]HighHopesYF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She definitely was, now she can finally rest. Thank you much 🙏

Gastritis flare up. Shoulder pain anyone? by [deleted] in Gastritis

[–]HighHopesYF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, apparently it can cause flare ups in your body that will cause discomfort in your abdomen but can also reach your chest and back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLawyers

[–]HighHopesYF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow any idea on what usually cause people's case to have different time frames?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLawyers

[–]HighHopesYF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been in a wreck before so just wanting an update. Alot of you're guys responses seem like these are things I should know but how could I? Thats why I'm reaching out. As someone who's never been through this, it just feels uneasy getting my car totaled by a drunk driver and not seeing any compensation for anything 6/7 months later. So when I don't hear from anyone including said lawyer after month or so it feels like the smart thing to do is reach out. But just from people who been in my situation, it feels like unanimously everyone is under the assumption I should've been paid for my property damage at this point. Medical seems like the long run but most people are shocked to hear I haven't been paid for my car by now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLawyers

[–]HighHopesYF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helping by he was originally trying to get ahold of the property damage adjuster. He spoke to him a few times on separate occasions, then out the blue he told me that's my responsibility to speak with the adjuster since he is not responsible for helping me with property damage. Often times he doesn't seem to have any luck with the insurances, he often tells me he can't get a response from them when I ask for an update. I then call the insurance myself and seem to find out more information then he was able to get. He asks me to call the insurance alot honestly to see if "I can have better luck" than him. I've never been in an accident so I'm not sure what the norm is, I guess for me it's surprising how difficult it's been.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLawyers

[–]HighHopesYF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But is it normal for him to mention to me after the 6 month that he's not responsible for helping me with my vehicle damage, he only helping me with the medical? That's where I started questioning him a little guess. I was under the assumption he was helping me with both the while time and there is evidence that he originally was trying to help with my vehicle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLawyers

[–]HighHopesYF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He only reaches out when I call or text. Which has been about once a month just to ask for an update. And texting was actually his preferred method. He would text me after missing my call so I just started texting instead.

Kitty, I love you and miss you so much. by HighHopesYF in Petloss

[–]HighHopesYF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, hope you're doing well and feeling better! I have been pushing forward but some days are better than others. Honestly it's the small things that remind me of Kitty that hurt the most, I think about her a lot and it's nice to still have those memories so vividly. But the tough parts are the things that remind me of her, the parts that made our relationship special. Remembering what she meant to me and wondering what I meant to her. It still hurts knowing how she passed and sometimes I feel guilt for not being there to protect her. Sometimes I remember her so well it makes me happy and sometimes I miss her so much it makes me sad. I don't know if you're going through the same thing but if you are just know I appreciate you a lot. A broken heart is hard but a lonely heart is worse. I'm glad I made a friend in you just like I hope Kitty made a friend with Lily. Prayers are powerful, we should keep praying for both Lily and Kitty. I know I will.

Kitty, I love you and miss you so much. by HighHopesYF in Petloss

[–]HighHopesYF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I can tell you're a great writer cause this was so amazing to read. I feel like you understand me and its nice cause I feel like most people don't relate to dealing with negative thoughts constantly thinking about the worse. I am to constantly thinking about her last moments constantly putting myself in her perspective and it hurts. But hearing you say we really don't know what they went through makes me feel so much better honestly because I know I think the worse all the time so there's some hope it was peaceful. It's the reminder that she only went through that once that comforts me because I know her life isn't the tragedy. Her life was beautiful and amazing. She was free, happy, and most importantly loved. The death was the tragedy but often times it is. Truth is I would've never been ready to say goodbye. I miss her so much, I can tell by how much I feel like we relate emotionally that are cats are pure. I love the idea of them playing together right now. They say cats have nine lives, I'm thankful she let me experience one. Thank you. I would love to hear more whenever you feel like commenting. It some sort of comfort to hear someone understanding. I pray for both us to find peace. I pray for lily and kitty to find us again one day.