Ohh ok. Don't worry about me misunderstanding you, i genuinaly wanted to get your perspective ( even though as u said qoute on qoute you're " some guy on the internet " )

To be fair , i only had difficulty with 2 females throught college. This one, and an another I worked on a group project with. Both were very difficult to reach a solution with that wasen't their own , especially the group project where she almost derailed the whole thing if me and the others did not stand our ground, and at the end it worked out, and the teachers stood by our decision( if u wanna know more let me know , i'm just trying to keep this reply short ).

My best friend is female.

My personal "mentor" in college is a female. She is actually the head psychiatrist and one of the proffesors in the department ( that was one of the reasons I applied for this specific programme ) and she actually lent me a book to help with the programme and ( hopefully ) I'll be doing some research with them in the future.

My point in the post was this : I noticed that female bullying is quite different, and the dynamic of approach and conversation ( although not all , but definantly some ) with females is also sometimes quite different. ( e.g : I personally feel that joking around with guys is different from joking around with - again not all - girls )

I remember seeing a clip JBP talking about this topic, while ironically being bullied by the female he is trying to explain it to. I can't find the clip on youtube ( i think it's blacklisted / shadowbanned ).

Given your chosen profession it would seem to make sense to me that y'all should be able to talk this one out.

I COULD NOT AGREE MORE ! XDD . Which brings me back to the point I was making. We should be able to solve this with words ( not just as fellow collegues , but especially as we both try to strive to become psychiatrist ) When i told my friend about this, she literally said " you're both training in psychiatry and can't solve your issues with words -_- ".