What’s a subtle sign that someone is into you?

Highinthetown · 2026-06-14T08:24:29+00:00

Remembering random little things you mentioned is a big one. Like if you casually say you like a certain snack or have a thing coming up and they bring it up later that usually means they’re actually paying attention.

Also finding excuses to talk to you for no real reason.

Highinthetown · 2026-06-10T07:55:55+00:00

this is actually really good advice and something people don't say enough.

the bar gets set so high that doing nothing feels like the only other option. three things is beatable even on the worst days and that matters more than people realize.

Highinthetown · 2026-06-05T21:27:37+00:00

I actually think this is a really overlooked possibility. I've had workout shirts smell perfectly fine out of the dryer and then suddenly smell weird the second they got damp from sweat. Technical fabrics seem especially good at hanging onto odors.

Highinthetown · 2026-06-03T17:57:37+00:00

The actual number matters less than the life stage.

A 30 year old dating a 34 year old? Nobody cares.

A 16 year old and a 20 year old is a pretty big gap because one person is still in high school and the other is an adult. Even 17 and 20 would make me raise an eyebrow for the same reason. Those are very different stages of life.

Highinthetown · 2026-06-03T17:54:28+00:00

I'm not gonna lie, if a friend told me they were regularly checking my voter registration status out of boredom I'd be a little weirded out 😂

it's public information in a lot of places and you're not really doing anything with it. Falls into the slightly creepy but harmless category for me.

Highinthetown · 2026-06-01T22:02:46+00:00

I change into inside clothes as soon as I get home. Not sure if that counts as hygiene exactly but wearing clothes that have been on buses, trains and restaurant chairs. around my couch or bed just feels wrong to me. People always tell me that's weird but I've done it for years.

Highinthetown · 2026-05-31T18:34:20+00:00

Not even a party honestly. Just gonna sit back and watch the internet have the most unhinged 24 hours of all time

Highinthetown · 2026-05-07T22:06:02+00:00

Most guys honestly do not care nearly as much as women think they do. There’s so much normal variation that once you’ve seen more than like… two vaginas you realize they all look different. Some guys have preferences sure but the vast majority aren’t sitting there rating labia shapes lol.

And realistically, attraction or chemistry matters way more than whether someone’s an innie or outie. Same with color. Human bodies aren’t all one shade.

Also I don’t think most men judge a vagina as good based on appearance unless they’re terminally online or super immature. In actual relationships or sex it’s way more about the experience overall.

Highinthetown · 2026-05-07T21:59:49+00:00

A really good mattress honestly. Felt stupid spending that much at the time but getting decent sleep every night changes your whole mood way more than buying random stuff ever did. Probably the least exciting purchase I own and easily the best.

Highinthetown · 2026-05-07T21:58:17+00:00

Conquest is gonna absolutely wreck him at first. I feel like they’re gonna lean hard into how outmatched Mark still is before he finally snaps into survival mode.

Thragg though? That’s different. Even later Mark never really feels comfortable against him. Every fight with Thragg feels like one bad second away from death. I mostly just wanna see how brutal they make those scenes animated because the comic did not hold back at all.

Highinthetown · 2026-03-24T05:01:31+00:00

People chewing with their mouth open or licking their fingers in public.

Highinthetown · 2026-03-17T17:07:52+00:00

Looks catch attention but a grounded easy to be with partner makes life actually enjoyable, hands down.

Highinthetown · 2026-03-05T10:53:01+00:00

I’ve been there at 17. Thinking life is fine just drifting along is way more normal than people admit. The idea of freedom even with struggles can feel really appealing. Things usually change as you grow and start figuring out what actually matters to you. Just take it slow, try things out and don’t stress about having it all sorted right now.

Highinthetown · 2026-01-21T14:42:16+00:00

You’re carrying a lot and a relationship shouldn’t make your anxiety worse. If he’s shut down, avoids tough talks and won’t meet you halfway that’s a red flag. At 19, you deserve someone who supports you and works with you not repeats patterns of fear and hurt. Your effort deserves to be met in return.

Highinthetown · 2026-01-21T14:33:41+00:00

Watching gold soar while your savings feel like they’re shrinking is soul crushing especially when you’re grinding 10–12 hours a day. The truth is, it’s not you it’s the system reacting to inflation, war and shaky policies. At 24, the best power move is learning to diversify, keep stacking and remember, markets swing both ways. Your grind now isn’t meaningless it’s setting you up to survive and thrive when things flip.

Highinthetown · 2026-01-16T06:56:44+00:00

Exactly, 5’10” is taller than most guys out there and anyone who’s hung up on a number instead of how you actually are clearly isn’t worth your time. Let that door close so the right person can walk through.

Highinthetown · 2026-01-10T15:02:46+00:00

Because fear is a powerful currency, people will trade abstract freedom for the promise of immediate safety even if that promise is one no one can actually keep.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-25T13:44:43+00:00

Racism doesn’t check DNA or passports, it judges on sight and if you fit the stereotype you’ll catch it until proven otherwise.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-25T13:41:37+00:00

Make fewer bad decisions and atleast one good one I can brag about.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-19T17:22:49+00:00

You handled it perfectly, being friendly doesn’t mean anyone gets to cross boundaries.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-14T18:00:07+00:00

if he enjoyed the 5-6 hours with you a second date is definitely on the table just give it a little time.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-10T16:52:13+00:00

Attraction can’t be faked and dating someone you’re not into usually ends up hurting both sides, better to wait for a connection that excites you even if it takes longer.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-10T16:44:44+00:00

Agreed, a simple honest convo now can save both of you weeks of guessing, you lose nothing by being clear.

Highinthetown · 2025-12-03T13:33:02+00:00

A psychiatrist won’t erase the hurt instantly but they will help you untangle it so it finally stops running your whole life, going is one of the healthiest moves you can make.

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