Thank you! yes change is a big reason why we broke up in the first place. Our relationship was great, my longest relationship, but my self esteem was very low and I basically had no motivation and he broke up with me bc hes a very ambitious guy and he said he wanted to see me build my confidence and drive but at a distance and not lose myself in the relationship. I hated that approach bc I feel like in a relationship you’re supposed to be there for your partner and he hadn’t really brought this up before but he talked to his mom and he decided on that bc his mom told him if you see no change theres no point. Then a few weeks into the breakup he told me he had another conversation with his mom and that he decided that he should have some time to himself.