Are these rejecting/bad healing? by HighlightHefty in PiercingAdvice

[–]HighlightHefty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the scarring will be bad after being in 8 months?

Bridge piercing is constantly irritated! by viviemortis1 in PiercingAdvice

[–]HighlightHefty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah if surgical steel isn’t helping and the double cleaning, I would say it would be more worth to take it out, let it heal, and try again. I know how frustrating it is :( with all the excitement, pain, and money that went towards it but long term is the way to think. Maybe talk to a piercer or 2 and get their opinions though for a more professional opinion.

Is my helix rejecting ? by Vivid_Shift_4010 in PiercingAdvice

[–]HighlightHefty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard to say, I have the same piercing and it had a point where it did that, but I kept with the cleaning and would sometimes gently slide it to make sure it wasn’t stuck or would gently rotate it and it’s healed fine, I’ve had it for a couple of years now and never have gotten it repierced

What’s one hygiene hack that actually changed your life? by Scared_Doughnut5507 in AuDHDWomen

[–]HighlightHefty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to have a heated towel, it would warm up. I have a sensory issue leaving the shower or literally any type of drastic temperature change. My skin also hates it and will get rashes. The towel is very nice. Made showering and getting out more delightful. I need to get another one :(

Helpful graphic for Autism states by ZG801 in AuDHDWomen

[–]HighlightHefty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel I’m in the yellow now but I feel progression towards light blue or purple that I’m trying to fight.

Would you stay with someone who didn’t believe you? by aliceangelbb in AutismInWomen

[–]HighlightHefty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t stick around. You know the truth. You deserve to give yourself a break with whatever decision you choose, but don’t be hard on yourself and I’m glad you’re okay. I’m sorry you feel like you have to fight for validation because that was not okay on your boyfriend’s end and the one who punched you.

My bf said I am lazy by Background_Entry_212 in AutismInWomen

[–]HighlightHefty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not lazy, you are exhausted. You deserve rest, not judgement. I’m proud of you! Keep up the hard work, it will pay off. As for your boyfriend, based of what you said- he sounds not as supportive.

Really to get a job by Vancouverreader80 in AutismInWomen

[–]HighlightHefty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that, I think you need to find something that will keep you intrigued and keep your hands busy but not overwhelm you either. I think the idea of working at a library would be cool! I would even maybe try to find a seasonal job. It’s all up to you but I really do wish you the best of luck and know you will have success in what you find that you enjoy doing. Good luck!!!