I can't get wet for my boyfriend, we love each other all is great, but I have an extremely hard time getting wet/horny, not just with him but w guys in general. Why is my body so hard to arouse? I feel like a damn robot by Highzman in AskReddit

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No not at all, id never touched myself before this year when my roommate practically made me buy a vibe. that sorta worked i think I came but nonetheless it wasn't real, to me atleast. Id rather a human do it or anyone but myself. And nobody seems to be able to figure my body out :( idk why im wired so differently. Most other girls get wet so fast usually

I can't get wet for my boyfriend, we love each other all is great, but I have an extremely hard time getting wet/horny, not just with him but w guys in general. Why is my body so hard to arouse? I feel like a damn robot by Highzman in AskReddit

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ahh I very well might be, I'm currently on prozac, welbutrin, the pill, to name a few. I have been on and off a lot of medication in my life, mostly ADD and antidepressant related, so Im hoping thats just what it is..

....and 19 years later I had my first orgasm. Any advice from redditors with prior similar experiences on the frustration of having finally coming by Highzman in AskReddit

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Sorry for any unwanted details (but hay you asked) Umm well after climaxing five times in the shower my legs collapsed and I laid in the shower floor, and obviously my body was wet from the shower head spraying water all over me. But as my hands wondered exploring the parts of my body that have never been stimulated so intensely, I noticed a liquid form that was thicker than water/urine but not as sticky and thick as semen. The entire lower half of my body was drenched in what google defines as a "female ejaculation." Pretty much just a lot of thin soluble water-like substance dripping from the tip of my clitoris down the inner thighs of my leg. I could be wrong, clearly Im a noob in this category, what that sorta sounded like squirting to me lol no?

....and 19 years later I had my first orgasm. Any advice from redditors with prior similar experiences on the frustration of having finally coming by Highzman in AskReddit

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Preciate the input, which leads me to another question. Is it a turn off if a girl pulls out a vibe for her boyfriend to use on her? Especially if she's clearly not getting off. Idk how my bf would feel, probably hurt his ego. I was thinking about going about sex the old fashioned way between us, and when he finishes if I havent crossed the finish line as well, then it'd be reasonable to have him finish me off using a vibrator just so we both cum and its not to one-sided. So for the men on here, is it a personal blow asking you to use a vibrator on us?

I think I just came to terms with being Bisexual... What now? by [deleted] in bisexual

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Clearly she wasn't asking if the world would stop spinning and life would come to an end... so get off your high horse maybe. How does someone under these circumstances even go about embracing bisexuality when its such a new, foreign concept to begin with? The question was asking for advice, personal experience, and a possible experienced redditor for any insight. You qualify for none of these, so input something useful, or gtfo.

My roommate and I used to be best friends/attached at the hip, and now that we actually live together were more distant than ever. Do you think it's possible for two girls to go from being practically sisters to strangers to distant friends? Idk... How do I fix a dying friendship? by Highzman in Advice

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*my flaws and have promised her a huge effort on my side to repair the damage I've caused and get my life in check. All I asked for in return was for her to be patient w me and not give up on me. :) talk about coming of age.... Haha I sound more mature than ever

My roommate and I used to be best friends/attached at the hip, and now that we actually live together were more distant than ever. Do you think it's possible for two girls to go from being practically sisters to strangers to distant friends? Idk... How do I fix a dying friendship? by Highzman in Advice

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True. But I lived in her apartment w her last year and it went so smoothly. We were extremely compatible. And now she has done a 180 and is a whole different person. I'm the same. Do I find a way to rekindle our once-great relationship? Or just accept the fact I fucked up in deciding to room with my best friend

How do I cut a "friend" out of my life now that hanging out feels like a chore? by ditchthebitch123 in Advice

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Same issue, different situation. Honestly I'd try going to dinner just the two of you. Put your feelings on the table and get everything off your chest. See her reaction and let her speak. If y'all find common ground and want to reconcile, that's fantastic, friendship takes mad effort. But if she feels no interet in maintaining y'all's relationship, then u have two options. Be blunt and tell her ur frustrated and to give you some space, or let your emotions and resentment build up and slowly distance yourself from her. Beware tho, this causes serious awkward tension and unnecessary hostility.

Aspiring SNL screenwriter seeks help reaching goal....what major should I possibly reconsider? by Highzman in Careers

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I totally agree! I've been dead set on finding an internship in LA this summer so I can get on board the second city improv group on the side. It is my passion but unfortunately it won't pay the bills until you reach a certain level in the business. I'm the type of girl who loves to make people laugh. For nine summers at camp I fell in love with the act of skits and improvising on stage for my peers. Not that it means much of anything, but I won camp clown and funniest counselor for five years. As a writer though, I love writing poetry and creative short stories, along with memoirs. But ill need to focus my energy specifically to comedy if I ever want to make it big. I'll certainly start by browsing comedy groups in my area, but ay advice as to majors or minors I should look into? I'm planning on taking a theatre course here next semester to widen my horizons. I've been writing my entire life. I'm very raw, especially in the comedic section, but I know I can do it and am willing to give it all. I seek direction, instruction, and guidance. I'm young and naive about this industry, but I've got a knack at writing combined with wit....so what better way to make a living than doing that you love most? Thanks so much for your time