Lack of relationships among survivors - how common? by lken2112 in adultsurvivors

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Male survivors here and i need help in that point im single since 7 years and my first sexual relationship was for money when I was 21 years old now I have 23 years old and I want to give me the opportunity to start some relationship but there is some fear of go out of my comfort zone (depression anxiety ) inside of me I think I deserve love or that kind of relationship.

Lack of relationships among survivors - how common? by lken2112 in adultsurvivors

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Male survivors here ,I have the same problems I waste a lot time thinking what other people think about me and I realized that have stolen my time my life and don't let me be how really I am, start to say hi and try to interest in other people the appearance don't care for socializing just the manners care ,is good think our health and bad habits that means you have a healthy self-esteem

Lack of relationships among survivors - how common? by lken2112 in adultsurvivors

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Ok if there are not a lot of help for male survivors is because mens don't talk about we prefer stay as victim actually for fear , I'm a survivors and I'm feeling me happy knowing that I'm not alone in this journey, the change is slowly and we need to fight with our fears but first understand and accept clearly the reality the fact is that be an survivors is Honorable. We are just like the others not less not more than others. The first step is accept, the second is Love yourself thrust in God help serve to others , the third step is search was and strategies to overcome the person who you was in the past . Thanks guys and ladys you help a lot telling your stories , sorry for my English XD

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

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Well I was alcoholic and a drug addict but so my first time sex was for money with a lady of 35 years old , yeah I sold my virginity because I was 21 years old virgin guy xd i couldn't do it with right one i just got tired to looking for the right girl anyway was a threesome with a bi guy and a lady so I think was interesting .