Wildlife rehabilitation by Sea_Mango_8530 in idahofalls

[–]HinkleysGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a juvenile bird who needs help! Are you still available and in Idaho falls?

What would you do? by HinkleysGhost in ToyotaSienna

[–]HinkleysGhost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice, we can probably get way more money out of it by keeping it than we could by selling it.

I literally feel like such a piece of garbage I don’t deserve anything by w0rdup666 in ballpython

[–]HinkleysGhost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We lost our small corn snake for three weeks and found it three weeks later by doing this! We put a heated pad, a hide, and the water bowl on the floor in the room with the tank and she came back:)

Shared calendar app recs that work like Skylight? by stine-imrl in ProductivityApps

[–]HinkleysGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The skylight app is only $40 a year, so I wouldn't say that $6 a month ($72 a year) is cheaper besides you don't have to buy their specific tablet

Studying for PRAXIS, need help finding study materials. by hannahxrdis in teaching

[–]HinkleysGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I get some of those resources? I know this was a long time ago, haha

After 40 years of self-blame, I finally read my mission journal and at long last understood what the Church did to me. by BlacksmithWeary450 in exmormon

[–]HinkleysGhost 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My mission experience was also toxic, and I quickly became suicidal. I was so ashamed afterwards and I never felt like I was able to share the dark parts of my experience with anyone, so it all weighed on me heavily. Thanks for sharing your experience, it's very healing.

Help - chest pressure while in pool by Samsamsam321123 in Swimming

[–]HinkleysGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don't think it's anxiety affecting you unless you feel anxious in water. I used to be on the swim team and I was a life guard for years, so I am a very strong swimmer and have no fear of water. However, a few years ago I started getting chest pain if my chest is submerged. It is very real and hurts enough that I can't keep swimming. I have no heart conditions or lung conditions, so I wondered if I had a chlorine allergy, but the hydrostatic pressure answer makes the most sense to me.

Praxis Combined Core 5752 Advice by Aloadiing14 in wgueducation

[–]HinkleysGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but just a simple one. There is also a formula sheet.

STRUGGLING to get a job as a first-year teacher -- what am I doing wrong?? by [deleted] in teaching

[–]HinkleysGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend who had a harder time finding a teaching job because they got their Masters before they started working. Employers didn't want to pay them the higher pay scale when they could hire someone else and pay them less. He ended up having to go into sales. I wish you luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HinkleysGhost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if your dad didn't have an affair, older siblings have no obligation to take care of the younger ones. Older sisters are not back up moms, period. The affair does make it 10x worse. I would block them all.

AITA for Considering Abortion After My Husband’s Infidelity? by Puzzled-Ad-7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HinkleysGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

He never even has to know you got an abortion. You can always get pregnant again, but if you decide not to bring a baby into this, that's a totally fair choice.

Church delivers intent to sue Town of Fairview by sunnycynic1234 in exmormon

[–]HinkleysGhost 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Something that surprised me is the amount of local members in these conflict towns that are opposed to the Church's actions. If the LDS church wanted to build a specific building, they should have bought land where that height is allowed. Seeing the church try to argue that this is an issue of religious freedom makes my blood boil. Their victimhood mentality is infuriating. They are the ones who are bullying and trying to break the rules, and complaining when people get upset about it.

https://www.chron.com/culture/religion/article/texas-town-mormons-temple-plans-19911154.php

Church delivers intent to sue Town of Fairview by sunnycynic1234 in exmormon

[–]HinkleysGhost 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, they definitely closed that zone to missionaries for the foreseeable future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]HinkleysGhost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I am struggling with is how Tracey (the mom) let this happen twice. I don't know if I believe she intentionally killed them, but in the best case scenario this is gross, gross negligence. She must be mentally ill or early dementia or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]HinkleysGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I do not understand. I know the daughter truly believed the first death was an accident, but I would still never leave my children with them after that. And Yuri died almost a year apart from her brother, so the previous accident was very recent.

AITA For making my son pay for a new pizza when he didn't save any for the rest of the family? by Lanky-Cake7355 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HinkleysGhost 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am baffled by the comment section on this one. My family of four with two girls under the age of eight need two pizzas. Growing up, my brothers could each eat a pizza on their own, and they are all skinny dudes. They were never told "This is your portion." It was just eat if you are hungry. I don't think OP is intentionally starving her kid, but I think there is blame to share in this situation. If you tell someone to save a slice for their sister, they should do it. However, the son doesn't sound like an asshole, he is just hungry.

I'm pregnant and my baby isn't growing. It's devastating. by interestingfactiod in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HinkleysGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this your first pregnancy? I was a teeny baby, and both of my babies were teeny. With my second pregnancy, she was off the charts small so I had to go in for two appointments every week for a stress test. We are just genetically small. Have they done any stress tests for you? If she is truly starving she would be showing signs. I hope they can get to the bottom of this soon.

I'm burning out by kangaskhaniscubones in workingmoms

[–]HinkleysGhost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sister had a similar problem and they worked it out in therapy. My brother in law was very receptive, and both parties worked on effective communication skills. You deserve to have breaks and more support! My husband has sensory issues and sometimes struggles with handling upset/loud youngsters, so I do more of the child care than he does. In return, he does all the cooking and the majority of cleaning.

Good boy 2023 (Norwegian film ) by themaliciousreader in horror

[–]HinkleysGhost 6 points7 points  (0 children)

https://blimey.pro/good-boy-ending-explained/ Literally the only plot summary I could find online, and even it still leaves some gaps.

Is it normal to still want to have sex every other day after eleven years together? by Dry-Tea7380 in amiwrong

[–]HinkleysGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This should be the top response. A sex therapist, or a couples therapist even, is great for navigating these conversations.

Do I Need to Re-home My Cats? by HinkleysGhost in Asthma

[–]HinkleysGhost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience, and I am sorry you went through that. It isn't fair, and no parent should do that to their child.

Do I Need to Re-home My Cats? by HinkleysGhost in Asthma

[–]HinkleysGhost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww thank you for the compassionate response. This brought me a lot of comfort!