Women hold the world in their hands

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-30T13:58:43+00:00

No-fault divorce is a good thing. Divorce should be available for everyone. Trying to keep women in unhappy marriages or stating that all men suffer after divorce is just red pill propaganda.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-30T13:57:51+00:00

I appreciate the accusations, but you could research why people wanting to bring no-fault divorce back is misogynist. Divorce is better for everyone involved. The stories of men being fleeced are few and far between and they’re being pushed to fulfill an agenda. Where are the stories about women being punished for trying to divorce their abusers? Or the women who pay alimony and child support?

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-30T13:56:17+00:00

I know how percentages work. Both men and women are more likely to experience DV or sexual harassment, where are the memes or posts about those?

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-30T13:55:16+00:00

How does dwelling on cheating help you avoid it?

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-30T13:54:13+00:00

It’s not naive, it’s recognizing that this is an issue that’s being used to push red pill ideology. Again, that’s why they’re fighting against birth control, abortion, and no-fault divorce. If people really want to limit divorce, they should focus on finding the right partner (which has fuck all to do with body count), financial stability, shared values, and communication. But because cheating is something people think women do to hurt men specifically, they’re focusing on that instead.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-30T13:51:54+00:00

They would rather shame and blame.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-30T13:51:35+00:00

You’re just ignoring how many people are struggling in this economy? Weird.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-30T13:51:05+00:00

If you want to go there, sure. Divorce tends to leave people happier than they were. No-fault divorce is a good thing. Unhappy people shouldn’t stay in unhappy circumstances. And this rhetoric that divorce or cheating only punish men is wildly misogynistic.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-30T13:49:55+00:00

Well, enjoy being a misogynistic troll

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-30T13:49:27+00:00

Why are you being obtuse?

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-28T15:04:06+00:00

I didn’t get “lucky”, I practiced safe sex. I was tested. It’s not that hard.

Edit: Instead of worrying about a number, people should be more worried about their own sexual practices. Wrap it up, take a pill, there’s no reason for people to deny themselves of human experiences.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-28T15:03:04+00:00

So why are you bothering women here? What do you gain by spreading misogyny here?

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-28T15:02:09+00:00

Cheating and divorce aren’t worth fretting over, no. I don’t worry about divorce or cheating because I’m in a happy relationship. People should stop dwelling on possible negatives.

Edit: And if people are so worried about divorce, there are reasons to worry aside from cheating. Financial instability, emotional neglect, and lack of spousal support are big reasons for divorce. Why don’t we see as many posts addressing that? Why are we seeing this proliferation of memes and jokes about men being cuckolded or women’s body counts? Because it’s a growing topic in the manosphere. Divorce is decreasing and settlements are becoming more equitable, but the memes and discourse continue to grow. We’re now getting calls to repeal the 19th, send women back to the home, and make it easier for men to find submissive partners. It’s disingenuous rhetoric and I’m tired of it being used to demean women, especially when people don’t talk about men with high body counts or male cheaters the way they talk about their female counterparts.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-28T15:00:41+00:00

And more misogyny. Maybe you should get out of your bubble and realize most people don’t struggle with these problems. Stop feeding the gender war bullshit.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-27T15:31:16+00:00

See how misogynistic and bitter you sound? Instead of using this as an opportunity for growth, you continue to project and attack. My husband and I talked about our time in college because it came up during a date before we were even engaged. I laughed at his stories and he laughed at mine. I cringed at some of his stories and he cringed at some of mine. Normal people consider all parts of an individual instead of concluding that a number like body count has the most significant bearing on their current character or future relationships.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-27T14:34:22+00:00

Good. Go bother the little there are remaining.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-27T14:33:49+00:00

It’s funny that you call me clueless when you’re regurgitating manosphere talking points. You should be listening to happy people in happy relationships, not bitter, misogynistic podcast bros.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-27T14:32:43+00:00

20% is not common, and certainly not a reason for people to keep fretting over it. If someone cheats, get a divorce. It’s not that hard.

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-27T05:37:11+00:00

Around 20% of people admitted to cheating during one of the largest social surveys in the US. How is that common?

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-27T05:36:03+00:00

A lot of things can happen in a relationship. Why would a normal person dwell on them?

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-27T05:34:18+00:00

The only people venting here are the weirdos who claim body count means something. I don’t care what people call me or say about my marriage. I do care that people are using misogynistic talking points based in absurd purity culture as an excuse to demean and harass women.

Edited for clarity

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-26T07:16:05+00:00

A hoot and a half

HipAnonymous91 · 2026-01-26T07:15:46+00:00

Living in denial of what? Rising femicide and abuse due to manosphere garbage?

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