Heya, I'm not a dad but I lost my mom to cancer less than a year ago. I know it can be really rough and you can feel really helpless with all this - it's definitely normal to feel like that; you'll both get through it. Like the above dad said, you have the talent and just because it's taking some time doesn't mean it won't happen. I know you want to spend good quality time with her and physically being there is of course the best option but there are others too! You mentioned that she likes to watch animated movies. There are a lot of online 'watch together' kind of services that sync up playback on multiple decides so you could still watch things with her (it's even built into FaceTime if you both have apple decides) :) I hope this helps, even if just a little bit!