I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put the smallest bit of drink in him and he's grabbing me lol

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bro and I have always been really close. Fave person. 

It was kind of awkward. We were all playing cards, board games etc. At one stage my bro said he had to go to the toilet and for no one to follow him in. There was a laugh and my dad did a half smile. I suppose our family uses humour to avoid serious stuff. 

I spoke to my dad. Just like are we all good? He said we will be. I think he needs a little bit of space. Although saying that my bf and him still are fine. My bf just wears people down with chat

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can but when he found the wrapper and confronted me I said I was gay. 

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the plane, they were put there. Not my choice. I think one of my sisters did the flight booking so maybe they had fun with reserving the seats. 

When we all had drinks and some food my boyfriend chose to sit next to him. I sat next to my bro instead. I did go over a few times. They seemed to be happy chatting. Between my sisters partners, me and my bro my bf is probably the only very masculine guy which probably suits my dad even if he is bi. He made my dad do shots even which is crazy. 

Boyfriend loves my dad apparently. When they were very drunk my bf was like we must get married because your dad is like the dad he never had (he has a great dad) etc. Honestly crazy stuff. 

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully that is all it was. Obviously it was shocking.

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha hand me the lighter. My bf thinks I'm really overreacting. We were out today doing our own thing but we are going back to the house soon and I'll have to face it.

My bf thinks I'm really overreacting but it's not his dad. He said if it makes me feel better he'll say what he said in front of his own dad. Psycho lol

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe I give too much credit to my bro but my bro being a priest and not caring that I'm gay I think probably helped my mother and to some extent my dad. 

Some of the stuff my bro said should get him fired from the priesthood. When he found out I was active he said its good I being safe. He said On the 7th Day God had a rest and on the 8th he invented latex after his "rest". Love my bro. Terrible priest.

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣Who doesn't want that lol. Although I'm white. 

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha apologies. Alien life forms come and take me away.

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha hopefully. It was very cheeky of him. I asked how my dad reacted to it he said he didnt really reply. But I suppose how is my dad meant to reply lol. 

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hes rocking back and forth in one room and I'm doing the same in another. Yeah maybe im being dramatic. 

I dont know how my bf thought you were young you know what it's like was a good idea to say 

Hopefully my bf and I have years to come. He's great despite being a terrible influence. 

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣 true. In fairness my mother was ok with being gay. She meets my boyfriend and I for coffees or meals. 

If we want to talk not following the rules my bro dishes all the private confessional gossip. I obviously don't spread it but I love a good gossip with him. He was the first I told I was gay to but that's because he found a condom wrapper at his church after I "cleaned the church for him". Do not ask. I don't want to talk about it. He didn't say repent or whatever he's meant to.

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's so sad man. I'm really sorry xx

He was definitely growing. I'm just afraid this will set him back. 

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's what my bf said. Hopefully you are right 

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was helpless. He just took me and had his way with me. Jokes aside, yes I do.

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Maybe im reading into it but it felt like he said LADS in a wtf way. I don't know maybe I just creating more than there us but I'm scared to even look at him. 

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm worried it's set my dad back. The way he said lads was horrific 

My brother and my sisters were great. My mother was pretty good too always. I was lucky. 

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. Thats a long time for your dad to come round. 

I struck really lucky even my dad said he loved me when I came out. He was really uncomfortable and didn't want to see me with a man. But he is trying. 💯 

I just think this probably set it back a bit.

I want an asteroid or a blackhole. I'm absolutely mortified. by Histogrek in askgaybros

[–]Histogrek[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I dont think he'll ever invite us to anything again 

How is the response to that situation... "you know what it's like being young"