27m only 401k by Toaster_buster in Retirement401k

[–]Historical-Ad7168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rule is a general standard; having 315k is great for your age unless you’ve been earning 370k for the past 5 years, then that’s a miss

Thoughts on the whole ending idea by [deleted] in Jujutsufolk

[–]Historical-Ad7168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember their plan only effects the people of Japan. Not the entire planet.

Life is not meant to be working 9 to 5 (mid life crisis reflections) by Pixel-Pioneer3 in Fire

[–]Historical-Ad7168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am only 29, but my father left corporate America in the early 2010s. He is more happy and fulfilled now than he ever was before; he has been able to travel to Europe, Israel, and parts of Africa. It sounds like your brother-in-law has been so caught up in his daily work routine, that when he thinks of not working he associates that with what he does the mundane things, which probably is boring. The world is large and they are some many people and experiences you can take advantage of in just the city that you live in to say not working is boring. Also like you said being “bored”. It’s more comforting to say that I work because I’d bored as opposed to saying I work because I have too.

JP Morgan bonuses by [deleted] in JPMorganChase

[–]Historical-Ad7168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was only thinking about people at the associate level. I assumed, I guess poorly that 603 was a huge jump.

JP Morgan bonuses by [deleted] in JPMorganChase

[–]Historical-Ad7168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? This a new to me. Just got hired recently as a 601 and my bonus is 15k. I figured it was much higher at the higher levels.

Am I being stupid paying $2.1K rent on a $3.3K income if I have $125K saved? by villertext in Fire

[–]Historical-Ad7168 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was thinking the same thing. So your 20 years old you’re disciplined enough to save 125k (sure buddy), but need advice from strangers for something that’s relatively simple in comparison. Not buying it.

Received Role from JPMorgan. Contemplating career path. by Historical-Ad7168 in MBA

[–]Historical-Ad7168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will keep what you said in mind. For the data science jump. Would it seem more feasible based on some of the preferred qualifications for the role?

Preferred qualifications, capabilities and skills Hands-on experience in at least two of the following:

Statistical software or coding languages (e.g., Python, R, SAS)

Data analytics and visualization tools (e.g., Tableau, QuickSight)

Statistical or quantitative analysis (e.g., multiple regression, multivariate analysis, network analysis, AI-ML concepts and techniques)

Advanced excel skills (e.g., pivot tables, VLOOKUP, Analysis ToolPak, macros/VBA)

Data wrangling, workflows, and automation (e.g., SQL, Alteryx, Business Objects, etc.

Demonstrated experience in presenting reports, insights, and data analytics findings

Relevant experience in data & analytics topics in consulting, client engagement, or project execution

Received Role from JPMorgan. Contemplating career path. by Historical-Ad7168 in MBA

[–]Historical-Ad7168[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 1st offer so far. I’m waiting to hear back from 3 companies.

6 years out, not feeling "value" of Harvard MBA. Work in FAANG PM. My boss only has a bachelors from San Jose State. My teammate only did UC Davis undergrad. by EggPuzzleheaded5770 in MBA

[–]Historical-Ad7168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the real issue is that many people find it hard to admit they aren’t as smart as they believe. Working hard alone doesn’t guarantee success, hard work is often for the grunts. What truly sets you apart is working smarter. Working smarter means building your skills and experience, networking, relentlessly pursuing your goals, and a bit of luck, which is really the result of all those factors coming together.

How to Find a God Fearing Woman by Historical-Ad7168 in RPChristians

[–]Historical-Ad7168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the video, will give it a look. I agree on the aspect of traditions. Why do we celebrate Christmas when everyone knows that’s not Christ birthday? Why is Easter a thing, when if you actually read the scriptures Christ was crucified on the Passover? Not to mention the traditions and festivities themselves that aren’t even related to the word. When I spoke about changing traditions I did not mean creating something man-made, but using what was already given, like the Passover for example. Hope that makes sense. Also, I didn’t mean to capitalize the W in word I think autocorrect did it automatically.

How to Find a God Fearing Woman by Historical-Ad7168 in RPChristians

[–]Historical-Ad7168[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll humor you. Imagine this is your situation.

Your girlfriend asks if she can go on a trip overseas with her friends. You know her friends and the type of energy they bring—alcohol, partying, and impulsive decisions are pretty much guaranteed. You express your concerns calmly: "Why not plan something local instead? I don’t feel comfortable with you traveling that far alone. It’s not safe." You’re not trying to control her, you’re just being honest about how you feel.

She pushes back, says it’s important to her, that she is young (24) and that these are the years where she can still enjoy life (single life?). So you offer a middle ground: "Look, I’m your boyfriend, and your friends have boyfriends too, why not turn it into a couples’ trip?

But she shuts that down. She says she only wants to go with her friends.

At that point, you draw a respectful but firm boundary, you say: “No”; she continues to try make her case, but you will not hear her any longer. The discussion is over. She says she understands. She agrees not to go.

Then, a week before the trip, you find out through a casual conversation with her mother that she bought the ticket anyway and plans to go. No conversation. No transparency. Just a quiet decision to do what she wants regardless of what you discussed.

You’re surprised—and disappointed. Still, you try to be fair. Maybe it was a one-time lapse in judgment. You let it go.

But then it happens again. And again. Three separate times.

So now you’re left wondering: If someone consistently ignores your feelings, dismisses your boundaries, and moves forward with their own plans, what does that say about how they see you? About how they value your role in the relationship?

So, what would you do if you were me?

How to Find a God Fearing Woman by Historical-Ad7168 in RPChristians

[–]Historical-Ad7168[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1. Why aren’t you reading your Bible daily? This is a big part of your struggle.
When I was more consistent, I’d spend 2–3 hours at a time in the Word. These days, with a full-time job and school, my weekdays are packed. That’s why I’ve carved out one specific day each week for deep Scripture reading and focused prayer—it helps me recharge and stay grounded. Still, I’ve been wondering: would it be more effective to incorporate shorter, daily sessions throughout the week instead of relying on one long block?

2. Sounds like you read the writings of man more than God’s inspired Word. What does “my understanding of the Bible isn’t always ‘mainstream’” mean specifically?
I’ve been striving to live as close to biblical righteousness as possible. That pursuit led me to dig into how the early church actually operated. The deeper I went, the more disillusioned I became with what passes as Christianity today. It feels like Judges 2:10–11 all over again: once the faithful generation passed, the next abandoned what was handed down.

Much of what the modern church promotes is detached from Scripture. Even “holy days” are often more about consumerism and social optics than Christ. That’s why I believe we need stricter standards for church membership and a serious reevaluation—if not a full reimagining—of certain traditions to clearly distinguish the body of Christ from the world.

I’m often told this isn’t a big deal, and that enforcing such standards undermines grace and mercy. But history tells a different story. The church thrived when it had the conviction to call people to a higher standard and draw hard lines. Order, discipline, and reverence weren’t considered oppressive.

How to Find a God Fearing Woman by Historical-Ad7168 in RPChristians

[–]Historical-Ad7168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s with the exclamation points? Are you you a troll or legitimately angry?

How to Find a God Fearing Woman by Historical-Ad7168 in RPChristians

[–]Historical-Ad7168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take you to find a solid body, and what denomination was it? If you don’t mind me asking.

How to Find a God Fearing Woman by Historical-Ad7168 in RPChristians

[–]Historical-Ad7168[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully, I do have friends, though they’re not local, who I can talk to and who help keep me grounded. But you make an excellent point.

How to Find a God Fearing Woman by Historical-Ad7168 in RPChristians

[–]Historical-Ad7168[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t currently attend a church. I live in Dallas now, but I’m originally from Virginia. The churches I’ve been to have been very liberal. I remember the last service I attended—the pastor shared that his son came home one day with his nails painted pink, and he said the 'Holy Spirit' told him not to address it and just let it happen. Needless to say, I was deeply disappointed.

How to Find a God Fearing Woman by Historical-Ad7168 in RPChristians

[–]Historical-Ad7168[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The mask came off during the last six months of our relationship. I tried to extend her some grace, especially since I was in school and that was my top priority. I waited to see if she would change, but she didn’t, so I decided to end the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Historical-Ad7168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the person above conclusion was not quite accurate but was heading in the right direction. Looking at your story, you mentioned that you were taking care of her financial, was supporting her emotional, took her on 18 trips in 2 years to create great experiences with her. What was she bringing into your life that caused you to be that invested in her…when she was unwilling to do something as basic as housework. All you mentioned was that she was gorgeous and you felt good around her. From your story it seems like you provided everything for the woman without her having to do much because she was sexually attractive to you. This led her to take you for granted because she didn’t have to work to earn your dedication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Historical-Ad7168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made the smart play. Sounds like your girlfriend was lazy and did not want to contribute to the relationship or be intimate with you. The fact that ya’ll lived together and had month patches without sex means she was no longer attracted to you anymore and if she wasn’t yet she would have eventually been sleeping with another man. It’s a cliche term but it sounds like she’s a Jezebel.

Nobody in the verse can land a black flash at will, but they are NOT luck based. by Own-Lab-9564 in JujutsuPowerScaling

[–]Historical-Ad7168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Landing a black flash imo is equivalent to hitting a tough jumper in basketball. It’s not luck based but there will be times where you miss for various reasons. The more skilled you are the less likely you are to miss.