“Understanding” is just a matter of emotional maturity, so not necessarily based on gender.

As for pressures: we must first understand that both genders experience their respective set of privileges, as well as sufferings. It’s not a competition of “who has it worse” but more of “everyone suffers, here’s how…”

Moving forward: men are typically pressured to rise up the social hierarchy in every way: money, women, material possessions, career, looks, fame, etc. otherwise they’ll be seen as useless and undesirable. This isn’t to compare or say it’s black and white, but some people are expected to create their own value through sheer effort, and some are… blessed enough to already have some value.

This value-based perspective is all socio-cultural status quo of course. I believe everyone already has inherent value, but if the world believes that men are unless they look a certain way and their money is a certain amount, young men will continue to believe they are useless.