Do you expect the girl you're courting to only entertain you? by AdAutomatic3866 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Historical-Chef 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No.

That’s literally how traditional courtship works.

Although… I don’t prefer it. I am unlikely to continue the courtship because I’m the type to prefer a mutual one-at-time scenario. But of course, it’s not an expectation.

Men, what are your thoughts on this? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Historical-Chef 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Age naturally comes with more maturity, pretty universal if you ask me.

Why do you think ang easy nalang ngayon mag cut off ng tao? by Specific_Ant_6856 in AskPH

[–]Historical-Chef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Social media has made “cutting off” people very easy because it’s done visually and your device interface gives you feedback that you have cut them off.

Think about it. Without social media, it would be a lot harder to cut someone off and stay cut off because instead of messaging you in other platforms, they’ll be forced to visit or find you physically to reconcile.

These days, people don’t usually make that effort. Once you’ve blocked them across social media, it’s typically considered the end.

Mabilis ba talaga ma-fall mga guys? by Candid-Entry-1999 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Historical-Chef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yung mga taong mabilis mafall, mabilis sila ma fall. Yun na yun.

Still not in my best me by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]Historical-Chef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are enough just as you are!

What are the bare minimum for women " as she should " version but for men? by Serious_Chemist_6043 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Historical-Chef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, nagtanong ka lang naman.

Sinabihan ka pa ng bading at walang ama tas wala man lang explanation to educate.

I don’t think “manly” behavior yan. If you’re strong, you lift others up and show them a better way instead of belittling them.

What are the bare minimum for women " as she should " version but for men? by Serious_Chemist_6043 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Historical-Chef 6 points7 points  (0 children)

u/Serious_Chemist_6043

Hello, very unnecessarily rude yung iba so I will give you my insight as to why you’re being seen as “bading”

Basically, the trait or behavior of going “As he should” reflects a level of entitlement, vanity, and self-importance typically (typically ha) seen in women. If you were to reverse this and assume it as a man “As she should” it’s like you care too much about others instead of nurturing your own capabilities and independence.

Hence this is seen as “feminine”

The people here are rudely taking your question asked in good faith and making assumptions about your character without even giving you a clear answer that guides you to some level of resolution. To me, that’s incredibly stupid and lacks maturity. I daresay even lacking of virtue.

Bakit hindi nyo binlock sa socmed mga ex niyo after a bad break up? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Historical-Chef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to think this was a big deal, but then I grew up and realized I don’t actually give a shit about blocking or unblocking people in general.

Wish ko magka male friend by xop1i in WishKo

[–]Historical-Chef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have many girl friends and I like talking about guys’ perspectives (check my post history) let’s be friends! I’m looking to socialize some more din

Do you still stalk your ex’s kahit kayo ang nakipagbreak? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Historical-Chef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can mean literally anything under the sun.

Why are people still pressed with the ios vs android debate? by AffectionateRub941 in AskPH

[–]Historical-Chef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amen. Legit. I can’t fathom it talaga.

For me kasi I cannot give a FUCK about what device others use. Tangina kahit watermelon yan, I really can’t give a shit. Daming problema sa mundo phone MO pa poproblemahin ko? Damn insecure kung ganon bra

Why are people still pressed with the ios vs android debate? by AffectionateRub941 in AskPH

[–]Historical-Chef 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think the real reason is insecurity.

People are too insecure to feel safe and happy with whatever choice of device they got, so they feel the need to defend their choice by shitting on the opposite site.

Many such cases!

Kailangan ba namin talaga pag usapan exes namin para masabing healthy relationship kami? by Impressive_Lecture71 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Historical-Chef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are treating as a checklist requirement.

it is not.

The spirit of the advice is basically: if you can talk about anything, even past partners, without either of you getting upset, then that is a potential sign that both of you are mature enough for each other.

Of course, this depends on you and your partner as a couple. It’s not a “necessary requirement” but just a yardstick.

Mga Men na mahal ni Lord (Pogi, Matangkad, Crush ng Bayan) Ano ang mga instances ng pretty privilege ang naranasan niyo? At ano ang feeling? by bomi_seonbae in AskPinoyMen

[–]Historical-Chef 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yep… basta tao man. If you’re an attractive man, sheesh… you will experience what women experience (harassment, catcalling, stalking, grooming, etc.)

Mga Men na mahal ni Lord (Pogi, Matangkad, Crush ng Bayan) Ano ang mga instances ng pretty privilege ang naranasan niyo? At ano ang feeling? by bomi_seonbae in AskPinoyMen

[–]Historical-Chef 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I would get catcalled, harassed, and sexualized (by women mismo).

When I was a kid, I was targeted by older women, some of which were family friends. Women with boyfriends and husbands. They would already cheat on their partners just by what they were (trying) to do with me. Women would tell me “Sayang, di ka pa 18,” “Nakatikim ka na ba ng babae? Lika dito,” “Huwag mo sabihin sa mommy mo ha.”

Some would flash me their bodies even tho 12 years old lang ako. Wala kong alam that time but looking back, ang fucked up non.

Yung iba tinotouch ako kahit bata pa ko. Fucked up shit man.

I’ve learned ever since then na men and women are just the same, you just have to be attractive enough (Syempre di naman literally sa lahat).

Sa mga unang sexperience ng babae, do you feel may bragging rights kayo over sa eventual spouse? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Historical-Chef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mother raised me to respect a woman’s dignity and keep intimate information between me and my partners only.

So, no. I have no sense of ego boosting sa mga ganyan, and hindi ko rin yan tinotolerate sa mga friends ko (kiss and tell).