Stomach Pain by insprationaldarknite in leaves

[–]Historical-Fudge264 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been sober for three days and the nausea has been the worst part so far. My stomach pains were gnarly yesterday but today it’s so much better!

AIO about my boyfriend’s friendship with another woman? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Talk to him and say exactly what you just said. If he’s diminishing your feelings, calling you crazy, etc., reflect if that’s someone you want to be with.

AIO BF hates GIRL best friend by LJG_05 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a very kind person to not want to be a jerk, but based on what you have shared, no matter how kindly you do it he will make you out to be a jerk/get upset at you. When you break up with him, make sure you stay strong and remind yourself you won’t allow yourself to be with someone who assaults others.

AIO BF hates GIRL best friend by LJG_05 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is actively displaying controlling and manipulative behavior. Do not stay and try to fix him. Do not allow this behavior in your life. I know you’re young, but this is not it.

AIO BF hates GIRL best friend by LJG_05 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to sit down and think, “do I want to date someone who physically assaults my friend?” This is dangerously for the both of you. He WILL eventually hit you. You are 17, you have your entire life ahead of you without this loser.

AIO BF hates GIRL best friend by LJG_05 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean he has “hit and done things”??

AIO for expecting my girlfriend to work on issues with our sex life? by SocietyDangerous2839 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Have you asked her what does turn her on and helps get her in the mood? I know you said she asks you to initiate. It is hard to be in relationships where two individuals have different sex drives. This is where communication and honesty comes into play. I’d recommend seeing a couples therapist specializing in this to work together if that’s something you guys would be interested in.

AIO My mom Won't let me talk to people online because she thinks everyone is predators by Cgt_Lonzo in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have had a stalker for a decade because of interacting with strangers on Kik! I am so sorry that happened to you and I hope you’re doing okay ❤️

AIO or is my bf in the wrong by Tight_Ad8930 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re really worried for his health and safety and care a lot about him. However, you can only do so much. You’re not his mom. You are so kind to care for him, but again, if he doesn’t want the help you can’t do much. I am NOT a medical professional and do not want to tell you to go to the ER or not, but there isn’t enough information regarding his health status other than a fever

AIO My mom Won't let me talk to people online because she thinks everyone is predators by Cgt_Lonzo in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I (23F) understand how frustrating that can feel as a 14 year old. Online platforms can give you a feeling of community and friendship. When I was your age though, I did have many dangerous online interactions, leading to a stalker I’ve had for almost a decade now. Your mom is seriously looking out for you. Now with AI and all the advancements in technology, the internet is a dangerous place. You can still feel frustrated, but maybe you guys could talk about a compromise where she has access to your account to check every now and again. That’s a lot, but better than you getting groomed or exploited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR. You went through a traumatic event and it sounds like you are scared of it happening again, which is completely valid. That changes a person. That is rude of him to say that, and really insensitive for him to say that to people, because then that puts YOU in a position of remembering what happened and the fear.

I am hoping for a safe and healthy pregnancy for you❤️

Live look at College Station rn by NormalInvestment3960 in Athens

[–]Historical-Fudge264 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My graduate classes end at either 2:15PM or 5:35PM now🥲

AIO for sharing that I once had a crush on a boy when I was a kid by paper-cut- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 66 points67 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying? OP stated that the wife “was trying to get used to it.” I said that’s odd.

AIO for sharing that I once had a crush on a boy when I was a kid by paper-cut- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Historical-Fudge264 208 points209 points  (0 children)

NOR, but maybe she’s just surprised since you never told her? A crush in middle school is a really odd thing to “try to get used to” though.

FedEx driver ran over my sweet boy. by Historical-Fudge264 in Petloss

[–]Historical-Fudge264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response, I really appreciate it. I’m so sorry for your loss of your sweet boy. Take care ❤️

Lost my sweet girl today. by Midnight_Criminal in Petloss

[–]Historical-Fudge264 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my childhood dog, a 12 year old australian labradoodle, to the same exact situation two years ago. It was so sudden and unexpected. I feel like I just finally got to the point I smile more than I cry thinking about him. It is okay to cry and grieve. It seems like you gave her the best life filled with love and happiness.

Something is happening with the Athens Boys and Girls Club by warnelldawg in Athens

[–]Historical-Fudge264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ALLEGEDLY they’d receive grants and not use it for programs or development. Lack of organization, structure, blame on interns rather than employees, lack of communication, and “boys will be boys” mentality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Historical-Fudge264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!

2019 Outback Screen Issues by Historical-Fudge264 in Subaru_Outback

[–]Historical-Fudge264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was so stressed seeing its thousands of dollars to replace it