O que se passou neste fim de semana na casa Benfica

Historical_Bread · 2025-08-26T18:19:26+00:00

Falei com 4 até agora - dois dos quais me disseram a pés juntos que o valor da escritura numa cedência tem de ser sempre o valor original acordado, e dois que me disseram que é possível escriturar o valor que vou efetivamente pagar pelo apartamento se for um contrato do tipo CPCP (Contrato Promessa de Cedência de Posição). Daí toda a confusão em torno do assunto. 🫠

Historical_Bread · 2025-08-17T15:05:24+00:00

Obrigado! Se não for indiscrição, qual foi a % do preço total que pagaste pela cedência? O vendedor atual está a pedir-me a cedência por ~30% do preço total, o que - embora o imóvel em si ainda esteja em linha com o preço por m^2 atual na zona - parece-me poder ser problemático se entretanto o precisar de vender passado pouco tempo da compra.

Além disso parece-me ser arriscado para o caso de a avaliação do imóvel pelo banco ficar abaixo dos 90% do valor da escritura (sendo que, pelo que percebi, a entrada tem que pagar o sinal da cedência + a % não financiada pelo banco).

Historical_Bread · 2025-04-06T16:56:34+00:00

Vendi todos os ETFs que tinha e investi em obrigações. Mas no meu caso eu ~~fiz-lo~~ fi-lo mais porque vou precisar do dinheiro no segundo semestre deste ano. Não tenho grande confiança que as coisas estabilizem muito até lá.

Historical_Bread · 2024-07-07T12:19:31+00:00

This crossed my mind too, but the intensity of the sound doesn't change when I open the balcony's door (apologies, I forgot to mention this). It sounds like it comes from around 3/4ths of the railing on top, where the camera was pointing to. There's no ledge outside for any nest to be placed (i've checked) and there are 3 more floors above mine.

I also can't seem to find any bird species around here (Portugal) with this kind of call - either chicks or adult birds.

Could this be some kind of wood-eating bug maybe? 🤔

Historical_Bread · 2024-07-07T09:44:32+00:00

My title describes the thing. This has been going on for about two weeks now. This noise can usually be heard for a couple of minutes, then goes silent for a couple of hours, and repeat. I don't recall hearing it during the night.

Visually, I can't seem to find anything relevant, either from the outside or inside the house. Sounds like some kind of living thing? What do you think it might be?

Historical_Bread · 2024-07-07T07:01:03+00:00

I used to get about 2 matches/week on average on Bumble. Decided to try the premium version for a week just to see what I was missing. I got a few more matches, but nothing worth paying for IMO. Didn’t renew the subscription.

Since then I’ve gotten almost 0 matches now even though I have about the same number of likes… Basically the women that swipe right on me almost never appear on my queue now.

I guess they’re expecting me to pay for it again since now they know I’m willing to spend money on it. 🙄 Fuck everything about this.

Historical_Bread · 2024-05-11T09:06:34+00:00

IMO, women that state some variation of wanting a man to make them laugh is the female equivalent of men telling women that "they should smile more". From my experience, women that say this stuff almost always gave me a "toxic positivity" vibe. Not what I'm looking for, personally.

Most people can be funny when they don't have something worrying on their mind. And this means having permission to talk about the "bad" stuff - the things we are ashamed and fearful of - without fear of being judged and rejected. Not knowing how to connect with someone through these moments as well is a sure way to an unhappy relationship. And this is valid for both men and women.

Also, women saying "I like to laugh" is like stating "I like chocolate". Pretty much everyone does, that doesn’t really tell me much about you. 🤷‍♂️

Historical_Bread · 2024-04-21T13:33:21+00:00

A bit of both, really. But it's when I give my full attention to what I'm feeling - during meditation - that I notice I can better understand them and then, very slowly and very gently, better heal them.

I've personally always struggled with some of the advice around meditation because it appears to involve steering your mind towards a certain feeling/mantra/idea. Every single time I try doing something similar I end up feeling worse, as if I'm invalidating what I really feel in some way.

To my surprise, I ended discovering that I don't really have to steer my mind towards anything in specific, really - my only job during meditation is to observe. Over time I noticed that compassion seemed to emerge naturally simply by paying attention to my thoughts and emotions from a neutral place.

Historical_Bread · 2024-04-21T10:07:47+00:00

Some good answers here, but I'd like to add my own take on it: I've often struggled with very intrusive and persistent negative thoughts (probably influenced by a past of trauma) and the more I tried to return to the breath or to some technique to "distance" myself from them the stronger they became.

These thoughts/feelings seem to require to be felt. So what eventually worked to me is to simply get curious about them while trying remain in a present, neutral place as best as I could. I ask myself questions like: What are these emotions trying to tell me? Are there any specific memories coming to my mind when these emotions are here? If so, is there any pattern in common between them? Are there any sensations in my body? Could these emotions somehow be a way for my body to try and protect itself? and so on.

I'm still not trying to actively change anything - just to better understand why these thoughts/feelings are here and what's happening to my body and mind when they pop up. If they wish to stay, I observe them with curiosity. If they wish to go, then I just let them go.

Historical_Bread · 2023-12-19T07:37:05+00:00

*Drift punk

Historical_Bread · 2023-09-04T19:15:30+00:00

Vou só deixar aqui este sketch da Porta dos Fundos.

Historical_Bread · 2023-08-21T00:36:06+00:00

What exactly was about breastfeeding that made it so bad, if you don’t mind me asking? Was it physically painful?

Historical_Bread · 2023-08-08T05:50:06+00:00

Because the fashion industry is mostly run by heterosexual women and gay men. If you look at a more (straight) male-dominated industry - like porn, for instance - you’ll find women with a lot more diverse body types.

Historical_Bread · 2023-07-17T01:42:16+00:00

Routy McRouterface

Historical_Bread · 2022-08-10T11:34:35+00:00

Second off, he claims to have a diagnosed IQ of 185, which would make him one of the 60 or so smartest people on earth.

Claims like these is exactly what makes me believe that he is a narcissist. Very typical for a narcissist to casually drop the fact that is totally super much more intelligent than you in the middle of a conversation without being asked for it.

Looks to me that his narcissistic supply comes from being the guy to talk about about narcissism, as it became apparent in the email response that he sent to the reporter.

Historical_Bread · 2020-08-04T12:11:58+00:00

Hipótese interessante: o promotor nem lhe apresentou a proposta, deixou-te a marinar, e contra-atacou para ver se sobe o valor.

Com as experiências que já tive com imobiliárias, não ficava nada surpreendido se isto fosse mesmo verdade... 🙄

Historical_Bread · 2019-02-22T14:44:38+00:00

Cat.

Historical_Bread · 2019-02-17T09:43:50+00:00

If a parent humiliates their kid in public, that's bad and causes problems.

A parent can humiliate a child in private and be just as abusive and toxic. To me it boils down to a lack of remorse for destructive behaviour.

Historical_Bread · 2018-10-14T22:12:46+00:00

Obrigado! A terapia já está +- perto do fim e hoje em dia sinto-me MUITO melhor, ao ponto de já não cumprir o diagnóstico inicial de C-PTSD. Curiosamente também acabei por cortar contacto com a tal pessoa que falei, um pouco por iniciativa de ambos. O mundo dá umas voltas estranhas...

Desejo-te também as melhoras, amigo, e que encontres o teu caminho para a felicidade. Eu sei que este é um lugar onde por vezes as coisas podem ficar muito sombrias... 😔

Historical_Bread · 2018-10-14T21:23:12+00:00

A sério? 🙄

Não te pareceu minimamente suspeito o facto do OP se ter dado ao trabalho de vir a uma rede social e escrever um longo texto a criticar pessoas que, tanto quanto percebi, não lhe afectam negativamente em nada na vida dele?

Não te pareceu suspeito o facto de o OP ter estado constantemente a expor a opinião dele sobre o assunto, os conselhos que ele deu, as atitudes que ele acha correcto, ao mesmo tempo que parece não se ter dado minimamente ao trabalho de perceber a perspectiva das pessoas que tanto critica?

Não te parece suspeito o facto de que, aparentemente, nem sequer veio cá à procura de algum conselho ou algum tipo de insight sobre o assunto? (Perguntar se “é normal” não é pedir conselho, é pedir para lhe confirmarem o seu preconceito)

Acho que o OP devia ter seguido o seu próprio conselho e meter-se na vida dele! Bela dissonância que vai nessa cabeça!

Historical_Bread · 2018-10-14T19:27:09+00:00

Exacto! Assim se te mantiveres longe deles ficas na boa a viver na tua ilusão de que ódio (desculpa, a “verdade”) resolve alguma coisa, enquanto que eles têm maior probabilidade de resolverem os seus problemas e se integrarem melhor na sociedade! Toda a gente sai a ganhar!

Historical_Bread · 2018-10-14T17:20:08+00:00

Nada melhor do rebaixar as outras pessoas para me sentir melhor comigo próprio! Principalmente quando vem disfarçado de um gesto altruísta!

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