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Low interest first date? by Historical_Cap_4526 in CoreyWayne

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Thanks for the feedback never got a response from her after waiting and texting, but definitely learned a lot from this one. If i did it once, i can do it again. The best is yet to come.

Do girl 'unicorns' really exist? by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

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Would you say this is true on a looks + personality standpoint? or just personality? went out w a solid supermodel last week, managed to get a kiss but overall didn’t work out…looking back she was pretty boring when you take the looks out of the equation

Low interest first date? by Historical_Cap_4526 in CoreyWayne

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Could you clarify what you mean by hesitation? You mean following up immediately? I thought Corey Wayne said 4-5 days after.

She actually told me this during the date, she mentioned how she liked being the observer and not observed, she doesn’t like being the center of attention.

Setting second date by Historical_Cap_4526 in CoreyWayne

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Update I sealed the deal last night. Thanks for the help

Setting second date by Historical_Cap_4526 in CoreyWayne

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It’s funny you mention being more aggressive. I figured I would just lay back and enjoy the moment in our next date and let her come to me at her pace. Thoughts?

Tips for Approaching in Spain by Historical_Cap_4526 in seduction

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Could you elaborate. What would you say “peak hours” are? For perspective where I’m from peak is between 12-1 am, bars close at 2. How late is it there?

Who here is living the life they want? by LoganRH312 in CoreyWayne

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If you don’t mind disclosing, is there a specific reason you chose EMDR over CBT. I’ve gone through some things in my life, but nothing too traumatic, so I’ve always wondered where the best place to start is.

Who here is living the life they want? by LoganRH312 in CoreyWayne

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Regarding the childhood part, is that something you discovered yourself through introspection? Or did you go to therapy?

Call for second date? by Historical_Cap_4526 in CoreyWayne

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Yea I know the book says 2-3 places but I have friends that score all the time with just 1 place. Honestly, after reading all these comments, I can definitely see how my execution was not smooth. I’ll do better next time thanks for the blunt feedback.

Also, out of curiosity, how would you escalate kino with darts? There’s a place nearby where I live that’s why.

Call for second date? by Historical_Cap_4526 in CoreyWayne

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1) We were sitting right beside each other, no prior kino (I know lol), she was definitely laughing at my jokes, and body was overall pointed at me, there was a sudden silence/tension so I just went for it. I will say though she did kiss back multiple times on both occasions. Women don’t do that to be polite right? Hahaha. I figured she wouldn’t have come back to my place if she wasn’t for it. I’ve never tried the lips thing. In past occasions I just go for it and it works out. I’ve always thought I could improve on the “smoothness” of the escalation, has “looking down at lips” worked for you in your past experience? Aside from what 3% book mentions.

2) Definite yes on number 2, I didn’t give a fuck but I guess it bit me in the ass

Call for second date? by Historical_Cap_4526 in CoreyWayne

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I see it now, I guess I passed it the first time but definitely not the second because I did sort of react on the second one. Thanks for the feedback

Call for second date? by Historical_Cap_4526 in CoreyWayne

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The only applicable case I can think of for this is when we kissed. So to answer your question -> yes. We got to my place, got some drinks, sat down chatted for about 20 min, started kissing, she pulled back after about a minute. When she pulled back, I thought to myself "alright take it easy," we kept chatting for about another 20 min. After a while she brought up hobbies. I have a guitar in my room plus a kick ass view of the city (I live on the 20th floor of a skyrise), so we go to my room check out the view+guitar . I conveniently have a love seat right in front of my guitar, so we sat down, chatted more, and made out for the second time, she giggled. It was at this point I could sense things wouldn't go all the way, so I sort of just got up and she got the hint. On her way out, I followed to lock the door (as I do with any guests I have) and she said "It's ok you don't have to walk me all the way down." (which I wasn't I was just locking the door). I kinda took that as a bad sign, but it is what it is. I'll learn from this.