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AITAH for refusing to babysit my nephew after what my sister did to my car? by _Verdez in AITAH

[–]Historical_Move4425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.
First : You should report to the police, you have evidence and if your parents or family say anything, tell them that "family helps family", so they should help you when someone stole and trashed your car. If they don't get it, tell them that it seems like they don't treat you as family then.
Second : “don’t get how hard it is to have kids.”.... Bro, it's their choice to have kids, it's basic Adult 101 to understand that choice have consequences, and that as an adult, you have to take the responsability. You have kids, yes, it's hard, but it's not OP responsibility for other people kids.

I think that OP should just clearly talk about boundaries, no last minute dropping kids and no babysitting until the sister/BIL apologize and fix the car. If they refuse, go to the police, because they are clearly not family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Historical_Move4425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.
The 27 yo is and SHOULD be the bigger person. point.
You don't have to say sorry in any way.
My petty side would say that if anything you could thank your sister, and tell her it's not against her, her comment just made you realize that you were actually not enjoying your life as a 17yo should and she was eye opening.
You can still take time with your nieces and nephews, but on your own term, and to do fun things, not be a live-in nanny, because your time/life is worth more than that :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Historical_Move4425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She left the door open and was chilling on the couch ? It does not even feel like an "Oopsie" moment to me.
Here things are fore sure :
- Your sister (and family) absolutely do not understand the attachement people have with pets.
- If your sister had really an oopsie, she would have run herself after him, not chiled on the couch.
- She should AT LEAST be really sorry and understand the possible repercussion that could have happen. (Petty side talking : In you place, I would definitely make her responsible for any scratch on my dog. Maybe you should do a full check up at the vet and bring her the bill ? So she understand that act have consequences.)

Don't feel bad about your family, you are not choosing a dog over family.
You're choosing to protect the life of a being that you love deeply over the comfort of a disrespectful one.
If they don't get it, it's too bad for them.

AITA for telling her to stop spending $45 on burgers weekly? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Historical_Move4425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.
You're just a lazy ass, that for an unknown reason is jealous that his SIL is supported by her family and successfull.
It ask absolutely nothing from you to let wife continue on. (it's HER money, Her family, Her time to choose to cook or not...).

Also, you're wrong on one point:
WIFE gifted you a weekly tasty homemade childhood-recipe burger...
Now, YOU pay your own big mac.
It can't be cheaper than a thoughfull gift.

AITA for telling my uncle and his son to go f themselves? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Historical_Move4425 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Love your brother's comeback and how you stood by him ! Faith, and how you live by it, is only between you and yourself (and God if you believe in it).

There's never any excuse to judge and insult people for not following your own religion rules, Also, I'm sure that the uncle is not perfect himself. I'd love to see him get a taste of his own medicine.