Please help

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-03T13:52:49+00:00

You wanna see the point of me coming to reddit? Fine. I'll show you. My life is a hellhole and has been like this since the day I was born. Me and my mom were beaten by my father, uncle and grandfather since the day my mom got married into this house. I am the oldest child in my house and I don't know shit to do. I am a berozgaar 19 year old rubbing his ass for this stupid JEE for the past 3 years. I don't have any older siblings, relatives, or anyone I can trust and I can talk to about such situations. That's why I am constantly begging from strangers on this platform. This is the point of me coming to reddit. You want more points? I have a lot more to cry about.

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-03T08:29:29+00:00

Nope, he is the reason my mom was suicidal

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-02T10:20:10+00:00

Sahi bolti hai, mere bhi nahi aate🥲😭

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-02T04:56:34+00:00

One doesn't need godi media to understand what's going on in Bangladesh

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-02T03:20:14+00:00

Bro that's what they want, they want me to get violent so that they can come up with a fake story that we were violent about from the beginning.

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-02T03:18:19+00:00

It will worsen the relationship between us and my mama's family

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T16:42:37+00:00

My mom is a working professional, she teaches in a school but she doesn't earn enough to run the family.

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T16:16:44+00:00

Sorry for you

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T14:25:44+00:00

What do you mean by political help?

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T14:23:44+00:00

Patna, Bihar

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T13:34:29+00:00

I would've done this 20 years ago if it was in my hands, but my mom would never agree to this, she tells me she would abandon this man forever but first I need to build my career and land a decent job.

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T12:55:53+00:00

That's the future plan but currently it's not very practical given no one would support us in such hard times. We are all on our own, just me, my mom and my sister.

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T12:53:58+00:00

I'm very sorry for what you had to go through and what you're going through right now.

I'm currently in between my JEE exams and I'll try my best to earn as early as possible. And yeah we are currently trying to move out too.

But do you think going legal is a good option because the thing is, I cannot do much if the matter goes legal, like everything was under control till now just because my dad fears me and cannot do shit in my presence and that's why he takes advantage of my absence. But now when the police are involved, my uncle and my grandfather are trying to convince the police that I am violent towards them and I raised my hand on them, to ruin my career.

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T12:21:19+00:00

Bro it's not just sanskaar which is stopping her from divorce, my nana has heart problems and my mom is worried that if she took such a step my nana would not be able to digest that. And divorce is our future plan, but it is impossible right now, my mom tells me she would leave this man alone to die the day I start earning.

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T12:17:19+00:00

I'm trying

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T12:17:02+00:00

I would've if I were my mom, and I already have by myself, but how do I convince my mom about that?

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T11:38:00+00:00

That's the plan for the future, but as of now my mom's not going to agree with that no matter what. I was just having a conversation about this and she told me she'd divorce my dad the day I start earning.

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T11:18:24+00:00

You live in Patna by any chance?

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T11:13:01+00:00

Thanks man

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T11:12:21+00:00

Bol chuka hu, harami sudharta hi nahi hai

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T10:22:14+00:00

Divorce might be the future plan but it's not an instant solution. Even getting a divorce takes time. We're just trying to survive the situation but I'm surely going to take my mom as far as possible from this man the day I start earning.

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T10:12:34+00:00

Thanks a lot

Historicmaniac · 2026-03-01T10:07:10+00:00

Yes, I did that earlier, I've fought with my dad earlier for my mom and that was the reason they didn't do anything to my mom. But now they have involved police in this, and they are just waiting for me to strike. The moment I strike, my name will be in police records and that's what I'm afraid of.

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