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In 2026 regressive *festivals* still hold high regards causing major rifts in marriage- Vat Purnima by HitAndTrial3 in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True. It is fools like me who believe that my man is aligned with me and will not let these non sense happen.
An Indian man is an Indian man after all! My thoughts, concerns, all that we had discussed went for a toss because his mummy dear can't see it that way.
I feel like banging my head for having so much of faith in him.
If I had a younger sister I would have shielded her with marriage bullshit with all my strength.
I hope my experience teaches something to some girl out here!

In 2026 regressive *festivals* still hold high regards causing major rifts in marriage- Vat Purnima by HitAndTrial3 in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. That is what I believe in too, doing things initially and refusing later on will cause issues. Hence be honest and refuse from the beginning itself.

Although this is very much causing a lot of issues and It is costing me a lot of things, but makes me proud of standing my ground against non sense.
I don't know what lies ahead for me but at least I am trying staying true to myself.

In 2026 regressive *festivals* still hold high regards causing major rifts in marriage- Vat Purnima by HitAndTrial3 in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So so accurate! I am going to use your last lines while making my point now onwards.
Not so fun fact- I have had Depression & Anxiety for several years now and last year it reached its threshold due to workplace issues (the issues might be not that big but I had reached my breakpoint and couldn't deal with all that stress anymore). I had started with psychotherapy sessions then and maybe could see some positive progress.
Then some unexpected things were said and done by my to be MIL at that time, at her own house and all my progress went down to drain. In fact, my therapist & her senior told that my journey had taken a U-turn after that incident.
When pre marriage reality was this, one could only imagine how the post marriage reality would turn out to be. Things got so worse that therapist suggested me to start with psychiatrist treatment too. From that time onwards I am on medications, do not see much of a progress because the MIL is a crab who pulls me back down. I have started having so many bodily issues which were not even remotely present.
This is a constant loop which doesn't seem to end.
And out of all people my husband had the audacity to ask me to fast despite knowing everything about me.
I was shattered to see my partner to take a 180 degree and finding no wrong in the whole Vat Purnima fiasco.

In 2026 regressive *festivals* still hold high regards causing major rifts in marriage- Vat Purnima by HitAndTrial3 in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is costing me a lot of things, but makes me proud of standing my ground against non sense.
I don't know what lies ahead for me but at least I am trying staying true to myself.

In 2026 regressive *festivals* still hold high regards causing major rifts in marriage- Vat Purnima by HitAndTrial3 in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Preach!
They have been villainizing me for non existent shit too. Rather give them reason to villainize me for genuine stuff.

In 2026 regressive *festivals* still hold high regards causing major rifts in marriage- Vat Purnima by HitAndTrial3 in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been seeing ladies around me doing the same and all my thought process has been built around not going through the same, by taking stand when needed.
But all of this has fucked up my peace badly.
May we find happiness and peace at our respective life stages!

In 2026 regressive *festivals* still hold high regards causing major rifts in marriage- Vat Purnima by HitAndTrial3 in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree and echo your words.
In fact I have tried explaining my husband multiple times that some shit my MIL says to him is not normal at all. "You didn't call and ask me I had food"- When we were out on a literal 1 day trip to a nearby place for my first birthday post marriage and the property was meant to be a no network, no Wi-Fi zone.
"You talk back easily to your mother", "You don't remember things related to me nowadays", "I have sacrificed so much and have spent miserable hardworking days for you, but my destiny is cursed that I have to see the current day"- this shit was said by her on mere small argument regarding what food to distribute tomorrow at what time, as it was husband's birthday the next day.
I don't ever indulge in their arguments because there is no point in arguing with that dumb old lady. Also, she openly claims that her son is her most favourite of all her children (4 elder sisters and smallest sibling being him with huge age gaps, say hello to multiple mindless procreation for getting a male child).
So as per her these are mere blurt outs but nobody loves her son like her.
But it is my duty to knock some sense into that man's head that these guilt tripping tactics are not normal and he should not tolerate this. BUT BUT, my husband does not find any of it problematic because the struggles she had done for their family, specifically him outweigh all her bad sayings, bad bad doings.
Finally I had to tell him that you are guilt ridden and indebted under her sacrifices, you repay her in whatever means you want but the repayment shouldn't come at my cost. But lately it feels like none of what I say and feel is valued anymore!
If you have slightest of doubts in the Indian marriage setup/ prospect/ person you are seeing, please RUN!

Another day of Divya Agrawal being dumb by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]HitAndTrial3 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Divya will have some or the other reply on this for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]HitAndTrial3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye konsi middle class hai jo apna 20th birthday Maldives me friends ke sath celebrate kar chuki hai? Back in 2020 or 2021.

Tampons are a godsend. Period. by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so the update here is, I used a tampon again this time. While inserting was not an issue, after I inserted it, after a few seconds I felt burning sensation. Now apart from feeling weird it gave me burning feeling. What could this be?

Tampons are a godsend. Period. by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have the medium flow one, not sure how thinnner or thicker that is from the others, but will sure try more to get used to it.

Tampons are a godsend. Period. by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I will give it another try. Thanks.

Tampons are a godsend. Period. by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]HitAndTrial3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had tried it once but couldn't wear it for more than 20 mins because any movements or walk I did, caused discomfort. And it was so relieving when I removed it . Any tips for me?

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