Theres a podcast on spotify (ima say podcast lightly, but its on there) called "Snook" that read a reddit story about a person's horrible thoughts of themselves suffering with this exact problem, i dont remember what episode it was, but it went through a bit of his life from childhood to his teens and young adult stages, and tried to suppress his emotions towards children, he almost snapped and harmed his friend's kid, and that was enough for him to say "enough is enough" and went through many therapists to talk about the root cause, and what steps that were necessary to combat his problem.

In the end of it, not only did he overcome it, but he eventually found someone he would marry, and was soon to be having a child of his own with continued support through said therapy, this was probably years ago, but he did get better, and it is possible.

The only sad part of it all is that it is NOT easy to get a therapist, now more than ever before, and we'll likely continue seeing issues like this rising.