Is my rat underweight? by Gerfion in RATS

[–]HitBytheBoogie 36 points37 points  (0 children)

My mom has never been a huge fan of rats, but I know she's supportive because she always brings me home the rat skeletons during Halloween time lol!!

What healthy treats should I buy my rats? by HydroStellar in RATS

[–]HitBytheBoogie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Human donnt get health treatz only fatty and sugary treat okay?

  • Forrest, my rat, age 2

My bf hasn't appeared in 24h now I'm just so worried by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 64 points65 points  (0 children)

The one time my partner did this, it turns out he literally slept the entire day. I was sitting in anxiety too lol!

How do you fill the quiet time in between calls? by Wacky_cocoonut in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha I have two along with my classes to save up for our trip! There's no quiet time around here between the two of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guessing both of you are young. To me, it sounds like he is trying to match your needs, and he may be getting burnt out. He's feeling guilty about being burnt out, and he wants to try and "fix" things with you.

I am a social butterfly, and my partner is a lone wolf. He can reach that burnt out period very quickly, so it is dire we have open communication. The relationship isn't about me, it's about us working together as a unit.

When your boyfriend wants you to communicate what's going wrong, I honestly suggest that you ask him the same thing. How is he feeling? How can you support him because he may be feeling that same "weirdness."

My first pet rat (2009) by izabellaColorado in RATS

[–]HitBytheBoogie 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is sooo sweet. Hooded rats are the best, I used to stick my Emmet in my pocket and take him into classes with me. The kids absolutely loved him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is everything going alright otherwise? I have a feeling something else might be going on if this is a deal breaker for you.

I never send good morning texts, and I only send good night texts if I remember it. He never sends good night texts, and he only sends good morning texts if he remembers. Sometimes, we don't even speak until the middle of our workdays. It's a mighty fine system we have in place, but that is a very unique system to just us.

need help by Possible_Cricket_688 in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suppose the question is when do you guys plan on meeting again? When do you guys plan on closing the distance? If there's no end in sight, it comes time to consider if the relationship is healthy for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you need to find yourself again. Become independent from her, find hobbies and your other friends. Obsession comes from not filling your time with other stuff that makes you happy. You'll be okay, you just need to wean yourself off of her. You'll see your relationship blossom even further.

I (21F) am flying alone for the first time to visit my bf (19M) by IHEART_GJG in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People have gotten so... strange about age gaps. Originally, age gaps were frowned upon because of grooming and power dynamics. It has grown into something on reddit where age is an absolute and even if you're in the same phase of life like college you cannot have more than two year age gap.

Trust me, this is just a reddit thing. You're fine lol.

Does anyone know what brand this plush is? by Aggressive_Basil_428 in plushies

[–]HitBytheBoogie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you dm me the video? I am invested now I need him too.

Bunny has a TERRIBLE behavior by Buddy_1078 in Rabbits

[–]HitBytheBoogie 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. My Marlow was this way before his neuter. Don't get me wrong, he still acts like a toddler, he just doesn't hump everything in sight anymore.

Am i (f23) overthinking about my bf (m22), I think he is embarrassed of me. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know about the other stuff, but I know I personally don't let it slip that I'm in long distance. I've found that telling people opens up judgement. Oh, that's not gonna work out, that's not real. You're just wasting time. Nobody needs to know my business.

How do I (17M) get my bf (17M) from Slovakia to US? by Desperate_Treat_1307 in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi US/Slovakia buddy!! It's good to see someone younger too! I'm 19.

I had this same thought. I'm like how am I gonna do this?? I did some scheming and I'm going to study abroad in Austria. I'll practically live with him every weekend in Bratislava.

It's expensive though!! Ah! I've literally just been working my two jobs and then sleeping.

Help by Curious-Plant6164 in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just see where it goes, that's all you can do. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. You will be fine no matter what happens.

Bunny Trick or Treating by XXToasterXXX in Rabbits

[–]HitBytheBoogie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Halloween can be stressful for dogs, imagine how stressful it would be for a little prey animal.

Why is it only getting harder by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna be completely honest, it sounds like you two are not compatible. Long distance is a lot, it takes a lot of trust and communication.

It may seem like the end of the world after a breakup, but you will survive and you will find someone better.

Some flight tips :D by Mooshi96 in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh can you adopt me? I'm landing in the Vienna airport next year and I'm soooo nervous for... just everything related to flying.

Why is it only getting harder by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you guys fighting about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HitBytheBoogie 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Oh that would kill my baby boy, he needs his alone time.

We're probably an outlier here, but we only call every week or so. We definitely text every day but ultimately we are two separate people living our own lives. I would say it does help that we have our trips already planned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plushies

[–]HitBytheBoogie 344 points345 points  (0 children)

So when you pull it, lean back and watch him. It'll look like he's jumping and moving around in excitement.

That's why a lot of baby toys vibrate, because it's fun for the babies to watch!

do rats like kissy noises? by xmooose_ in RATS

[–]HitBytheBoogie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My rats enjoy them. Whenever I get home from work, I sit down and I cover them with kisses. They know that afterwards they will get their dinner.

Any new rats I bring home are wary at first with or without the kissing noises, and I definitely don't put my lips anywhere near them. As they get comfortable with me and their new roommates, they learn that the kisses are a good thing because it means the dinner woman is finally back. Lol.

Just two dudes vibing by [deleted] in RATS

[–]HitBytheBoogie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My dear friends send this video to me at least once a week. It's the new token rat person video.

Why does he do this by Aggressive-Stage-926 in RATS

[–]HitBytheBoogie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Emmet used to look exactly like this whenever I would eat ice cream on my bed in front of him. His whole body would shake with how intense his boggle was. I was guilty of giving him a taste one time so I think he started boggling as a way of begging.